
scorpdiva
@scorpdiva
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Posted by Jynja
*Health - is wealth. Are you tested, do you use protection, how are your teeth, lacerations, STDs, etc?
*Physical weakness is one of my greatest worries too - I like to be strapped down, hog tied, pound hard, plowed, ripped up. A man who might get a heart attack after that will not make it anywhere on my list.
*Arrogance - If you dare to say how amazing you think you are, you're gone. I don't mind a man who says how he'll perform though. Tell me you'll pin me up against a wall and do me till I see stars... corny but a good start
*Stupid fucking archaic ideas - if you want me to pull on your straw, learn to find yourself a spoon. My needs are many, and this is like the least of them. A man without this basic ability is not very manly to me.
*Stupid fucking archaic ideas (Advanced Edition): I'm a submissive, I need a man who can wield a whip without breaking down on me about how it's not conventional or whatever.
*Main deal breaker - Casual sex. Can't do it, so if a man proposes it he's gone.
Sun: Leo
Moon: Cancer
Mars: Scorpio



Posted by scorpdiva
If I know that I would like to have sex with a men, talking about it first is something I like to do just to see what they are into sexually. So I met this aries/taurus April 20 and as we are conversing he says he doesn't do oral on women yet he Really Really enjoys when it is done for him,


Posted by ninjamu
I'm kinda like jynja except I don't require all the props. My headspace is similar though.
1.) I NEED mental stimulation first. I don't fuck people I don't like and witless stupidity is a huge turn-off. I have honestly turned down a gorgeous, godly-looking man because of what came out of his mouth. A couple of times. And I'd do it again.
2.) Don't disrespect me. This covers a lot.
3.) Be willing to mix things up. Sometimes I want to make out a little first, sometimes I want a quickie, sometimes I like different locations, etc. Don't be selfish about it either.
4.) Don't tell me no and give me sex often and regularly.
Um, I just realized this list could go on for a while. I won't lie... I'm damn picky but I know what I like when it comes along. I don't envy the men who pursue me but the rare one that can stick it out reaps the rewards big time.
Sun: Leo, Moon: Virgo, Mars: Scorpio

Posted by robyn808
lol, I thought this was supposed to be about deal breakers, not describe your ideal lovers.



Posted by Scenic
If you're too focused on foreplay. I'm sorry, I must be one of the rare ones, but I can't stand it when people take forever getting down to business.


Posted by exoskeleton
musts:
respect
good hygiene
mutual oral, give and take/unselfish attitude
sexual/sensual confidence, natural expressiveness, and willingness to fully immerse themselves in the act, no holding back
willingness to at least try new things, positions, and all my tricks - never disappointments there, lol.

Posted by PP
deal breakers:
Smelly pussy
Bad Body odor
Bad breath
Unshaved legs/privates
Loose pussy
To name a few.

Posted by capgirl75
Only deal breaker I have is not respecting my feelings, pushing me too far or making me do something that is known that I don't like or want.
Also it really is not worth it to me if there is no cuddling or affection with it, if its just sex.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPersonPosted by robyn808
lol, I thought this was supposed to be about deal breakers, not describe your ideal lovers.
"Down Virgo!"
**cracks whip**
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Posted by Scenic
Being too pushy. If I say no, you better learn to listen the first time or else it will kill my drive for a long time. And, that won't be my conscious doing, so it's harder to try to fix.
If you're hesitant in bed. I need someone to make me feel like they have no doubts when ripping my clothes off and getting to business.
If you're too focused on foreplay. I'm sorry, I must be one of the rare ones, but I can't stand it when people take forever getting down to business. I'm not sure if it's my venus in Aries or what. If it were up to me, I'd erase the word from the dictionary. I can handle bending to my partner's will occasionally on that, but honestly, I don't need it nor do I really want it. My mood can get killed instantly, so in the midst of giving you oral, I hope you don't mind if I organize everything I have yet to do that day.
I'm a killjoy, I know.

Posted by dofacc
Just plain confusing is what I thought. How often do you say "No" and then react negatively when the next time they are "hesitant?"

Posted by Jynja
*Health - is wealth. Are you tested, do you use protection, how are your teeth, lacerations, STDs, etc?
*Physical weakness is one of my greatest worries too - I like to be strapped down, hog tied, pound hard, plowed, ripped up. A man who might get a heart attack after that will not make it anywhere on my list.
*Arrogance - If you dare to say how amazing you think you are, you're gone. I don't mind a man who says how he'll perform though. Tell me you'll pin me up against a wall and do me till I see stars... corny but a good start
*Main deal breaker - Casual sex. Can't do it, so if a man proposes it he's gone.


Posted by everevolvingepithet
Clean, doesn't smell
Give and take, don't be selfish
No piss and shit or weird stuff
Ta





Posted by DMV
seriously, listerine is the most understated cologne/perfume.


Posted by libragemmale
Deal Breakers:
Oral - If I can't go down on you ,then you can't have the goods

Posted by DMV
so to all the people who want a clean person, lets say you 2 are leaving a club at 2am and when u get home u want to get freaky. would u take shower first or let the after club funk fly?
or if your guy comes home from a long day at work on the construction yard and he wants you to slob the knob as soon as he walks in the door..do you demand a shower or give him what he wants?

Posted by DMV
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMV
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Yuk...imagine if it dripped in your mouth as you were yelling for more *shutters*click to expand

Posted by DMVPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMV
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Yuk...imagine if it dripped in your mouth as you were yelling for more *shutters*
IT DID ONCE!
GIFSoup
this mars in virgo almost had a freak out attackclick to expand



Posted by GumshoePosted by DMV
a small penis (less than 5 inches) is a sexual deal breaker.
2.) quiet men. mars in virgo needs a verbally responsive person to let me know im doing a good job.
3.) men who just lay there. im a worker in the bedroom, but shit venus in cap is keeping score on your part.
4.) men who want to cuddle afterwards. omg, either get ready for the next round, make me some food, or get the hell out.
5.) men with no rhythm. no motion of the ocean.
6.) men who does use their fingers. sheesh. watch a porno or something.
7.) SWEAT dripping on me. ewwwwwww. men who perspire too much need not apply.
Oh, god. I can't stop laughing- this is hysterical! (I did feel the urge to throw my fist in the air when I read #2. Could not agree more. I'm a verbal creature, sans doute.)
But, truly, you don't like to cuddle? At all? My mind, it's... boggled.click to expand

Posted by exoskeleton
lol, my aries friend was once kissing a dude with bad breath and told him so. aries went to the bathroom and came back with toothpaste on his finger for him. dude said nothing and just scrubbed his teeth and they resumed.
kinda awkward/insulting, but hilarious. 😛

Posted by ninjafish
My deal breaker would be wanting to sleep around or have orgies. I'm way too possessive for that, tyvm.

Posted by GumshoePosted by DMVgirl, i dont even like to hug or touch people. unless im smashing. only then is physcial touch of the utmost importance.
u feel me with #2 right?! funny thing is, im not very verbal myself.
Oh, my god, you would HATE me! 😉 If I care for someone, there's so much warmth in me when I'm in their presence. I *need* to touch them. Smell them, be near them. I need it.
What do you do? Pull away or just create a little distance? That makes me sad- I don't know why because you sound totally at ease with it.
You remind me of my sister, a Scorp. Like you, she's very, very cool and particular about physical affection. I don't understand. No comprendo!
Yes, I definitely feel you about talking in bed. It's non-negotiable. It could be loving-talk or the opposite of that, depends on what's going down. But I TALK, you better believe it.click to expand
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im okay with touch, just not immediately after sex. touching and hugging people takes time and me getting to know you. i absolutely cringe inside when people try to give me an unwarranted touch. i never got how people can just readily embrace strangers or people they hardly know.
after sex, i usually get up and go do something lol. the first time i had sex with a scorp, after he came in my mouth, i rolled over and closed my eyes. he started talking to me and changed positions on the bed so that he wouldnt talk to my back. then he demanded i open my eyes and gave me a bear hug.
it was all a bit uncomfortable. i didnt know him like that. had this been a year or 2 down the road, i would have welcomed the embrace.


Posted by capgirl75Posted by tbirdnot wanting to receive or give oral sex
This is one I don't get. I can understand not wanting to give it, but who doesn't like to receive it?!!
I've been with 2 so far. Smh.click to expand

Posted by NinjagirlPosted by ninjafish
My deal breaker would be wanting to sleep around or have orgies. I'm way too possessive for that, tyvm.
^ Same here....massive dealbreaker
Hygiene is a biggie and I have a thing about smooth skin...I don't think I could deal with a man who has skin problems.
A dash of respect and care and we're good to go.click to expand

Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!

Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!

Posted by NicroblizPosted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Completely and utterly! That's why many of the demands made by the posters on this thread would be deemed as deal breakers in themselves.
Sex is carnal and involves a lot of exertion (usually from the male) but some of you wouldn't tolerate sweating?!!! What fucking planet do you lot live on? The 50th grey moon in the Shade Galaxy?! As long as the body is relatively clean (and let's face it, no body can ever be 100% clean at any one point in time), what's the issue? Sweating is a natural bodily function and various factors will affect the possibility of any body odour (diet being one of them). When you meet the right person, such neuroses should not come into play. Fucking sort it out. Sheez!click to expand


Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
@ DMV
You couldn't give him a hug, but you let him come in your mouth—? Bwahahahahahahahah. I'm sorry, that shit sounded so backwards....

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by NicroblizPosted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
Completely and utterly! That's why many of the demands made by the posters on this thread would be deemed as deal breakers in themselves.
Sex is carnal and involves a lot of exertion (usually from the male) but some of you wouldn't tolerate sweating?!!! What fucking planet do you lot live on? The 50th grey moon in the Shade Galaxy?! As long as the body is relatively clean (and let's face it, no body can ever be 100% clean at any one point in time), what's the issue? Sweating is a natural bodily function and various factors will affect the possibility of any body odour (diet being one of them). When you meet the right person, such neuroses should not come into play. Fucking sort it out. Sheez!
All your points are valid, but I believe the distinction between sweating and excessive sweating was made. You know what the difference is. |Like the difference between a nice wet kiss and someone leaving a gallon of spit in your mouth.click to expand

Posted by LoversInLove3Posted by David13
Most of the deal-breakers mentioned here... seem to have more to do with lack of chemical compatibility... which is a deal-breaker for me. It is something difficult to find, but when one finds it, sex becomes surreal and intoxicating. It is found in the first whiff of the perfume on her skin... some perfumes are unrecognizable on another... it is her pheromones coming through. With chemical compatibility her body odor is arousing... and the taste of her wet skin taunting. Every piece of her bidding to be seduced... to be inhaled... her entire body becomes the pleasure... the desire to be saturated by her... the drinking of her dew.... the insatiable hunger... hungering for more.
Doesn't anyone here know what the hell I'm talking about ??!!!
*fans self*click to expand
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also what is your sun sign, moon, and mars
Me
Sun: Scorp
Moon: Taurus
Mars: Sagg