Standards

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 on Thursday, November 20, 2014 and has 6 replies.

How Long Should You Wait Before Having Sex for the First Time

The ideal time varies based on personal comfort and relationship dynamics. Some suggest waiting three months or longer, while others prefer to wait until the third date. Ultimately, it depends on mutual readiness and trust, with no fixed rule for everyone.

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@aquaninja44
12 Years

I think it depends on the chemistry, age, family background, etc.

I personally feel like 3 or 4 dates is acceptable...of course on a case by case basis 🙂

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@Octoberbaby91
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I have a new rule.

5 dates and that's if im interested.

within that you either get friend zoned or not called back.

but if its chemistry that is off the charts push it up to 4th or 3rd date lol.

1-2 months sounds ok.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Have any of you had sex on the first date ? And became a couple..

I know a few people who have been successful but for about 1-3 years. And it did evolve new born babies in their picture. So sad.

How could you possibly know ..and then bring babies into. Is it manipulation? Is it infatuation and lust, or just pure chemistry on the first 1-3 few dates..