Stubborn Aquarius /Reconciliation

Why is he so damn STUBBORN?
His friends tell me that he still loves and cares for me. We've been broken up for 4 months now. He contacts me weekly,somedays it's short,cold talk like careless,other days it's good talk and sounds concerned.
I really want us to be together again. I love him to death but.the hot.n cold thing is driving me nuts!
I asked his best friend for advice and he told me that it's possible we will get back together because he's still "crazy" about me ,BUT he's very stubborn. I don't know what to do about his stubbornness , I just want him back :/

You mean Xtina! Yeah she does! :/

why did you 2 break up? From my experience, an Aqua can Love you FOREVER and still have the courage and the Strength to stay away, and understand that it just cannot be. Does he speak to you at all?

Posted by GG
Do you think that asking his best friend for advice is the smart thing to do?

Aquarius can be super manipulative. It's been four months for crying out loud, dust it off your shoulders and move on.

Ps...you look like an Aries chick here ixon or something. Same head tilt and everything

His friend asked me if I would get back with him and that's when I said yes and I asked for advice since he knows him best. I've been trying to move on,but it is hard because I still care and love him.
That's is odd ha I'm a Cancer ,hmm I do need to update my profile pic.

Posted by Ssasy
why did you 2 break up? From my experience, an Aqua can Love you FOREVER and still have the courage and the Strength to stay away, and understand that it just cannot be. Does he speak to you at all?

He broke up with me because there was too much on his mind, wants to be alone and he couldn't handle the distance anymore. LDR relationship ,he's in the military. We Don't talk on the phone we just text,he texts me every week

Has anyone ever noticed that Cancer females always believe that all the men they've ever had .... is in love with them, and wants them?

Posted by QueenVictoria22

His friend asked me if I would get back with him and that's when I said yes and I asked for advice since he knows him best.

And also, Cancer females think that all men want them. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if this sentence was said for the sole purpose of someone asking why his friend would ask you such a thing, just so you could say something like .... his friend is in love with me, and wanted to see how I felt about the ex.

Posted by P-Angel

Has anyone ever noticed that Cancer females always believe that all the men they've ever had .... is in love with them, and wants them?

Haha, really? That's interesting ,I could care less about all the other men

Posted by QueenVictoria22

Posted by P-Angel

Has anyone ever noticed that Cancer females always believe that all the men they've ever had .... is in love with them, and wants them?

Haha, really? That's interesting ,I could care less about all the other men

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Right, well being that im trying to reconsile with my gf..Even when I dted men, I didnt think this way...

ummm.. WHo have you been speaking to lol

In fact, the viewing audience only has to look at the title and the first sentence of the OP.

The Cancer here has no doubt that he loves her and wants her .... she merely wants to know why he is being so stubborn in not embracing his feelings for her.

Eventhough, he has told her, "wants to be alone" .... in her mind that is of no consequence. She believes he loves her and wants her, and he is being stubborn in not admitting this.


Typical Cancer female .... I'm just wondering how many other people notice this.

To be honest he is being a coward by leading you on and he knows it. I don't know how long you guys have been together but something tells me he knows you will go to the ends of the earth for him. But that is what scares him the most being in a relationship that could cut him off from potential suitors that he will never know??_..but knowing you go through so much trouble for him makes him love you in the long term??_.I don't know how to say this but my intuition tells me that a cancer person knows when someone wants them??_.or is capable of convincing someone that they need them. Either way you should look up his moon and see if your moon and his moon match up because aqua and cancer do have some swagger when it comes to relationships.

Jennifer saunders "absolutely fabulous" is a cancerian and she's married to an aqua

You ask why is he so damn STUBBORN—_. let me try and put it in aqua scope for you to get a handle on it??_??_relationships for aquarians are like wading in the pools of niagra falls. We like to stay in the shallows away from the edge or hold onto a rock and let the relationship wash over us with tremendous force but never allowing ourselves to be washed over the edge.

with a Cancerian its different because while you are clinging for dear life they are constantly lifting each single finger up while your on the rock and you are screaming because it scares the shit out of you but the cancer is laughing the whole time??_..

exhibit A

upon reading more into this I didnt realise you guys were in LTR which is short for L8TR allig8tr

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

To be honest he is being a coward by leading you on and he knows it. I don't know how long you guys have been together but something tells me he knows you will go to the ends of the earth for him. But that is what scares him the most being in a relationship that could cut him off from potential suitors that he will never know??_..but knowing you go through so much trouble for him makes him love you in the long term??_.I don't know how to say this but my intuition tells me that a cancer person knows when someone wants them??_.or is capable of convincing someone that they need them. Either way you should look up his moon and see if your moon and his moon match up because aqua and cancer do have some swagger when it comes to relationships.

That sounds about right, his moon is Libra and mine is Sagittarius

Posted by QueenVictoria22

Posted by GG
Do you think that asking his best friend for advice is the smart thing to do?

Aquarius can be super manipulative. It's been four months for crying out loud, dust it off your shoulders and move on.

Ps...you look like an Aries chick here ixon or something. Same head tilt and everything

His friend asked me if I would get back with him and that's when I said yes and I asked for advice since he knows him best. I've been trying to move on,but it is hard because I still care and love him.
That's is odd ha I'm a Cancer ,hmm I do need to update my profile pic.

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What? Are you in high school?

Talking through friends instead to each other...
*smh*

Well he hasn't contacted me lately and I found out that he has a new girlfriend or is talking to someone else now. I'm so upset but I have to move on now , I don't want to talk to him anymore or at all

Posted by QueenVictoria22
Well he hasn't contacted me lately and I found out that he has a new girlfriend or is talking to someone else now. I'm so upset but I have to move on now , I don't want to talk to him anymore or at all

Sorry it didn't work out. 😢

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Posted by QueenVictoria22
Well he hasn't contacted me lately and I found out that he has a new girlfriend or is talking to someone else now. I'm so upset but I have to move on now , I don't want to talk to him anymore or at all

Sorry it didn't work out. 😢

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Yeah i'm sorry too. 😢
Nothing to do with signs really but the hot and cold thing has red flags all over it. Cold means something - or someone - else has come up which is seen as a better option. Result? You go on the back-burner, and slip down the priority list.

It appears that he maybe didn't want to get back with you but stayed in touch because of the friendship angle/he missed the contact in terms of communication.
Personally I cannot be friends with someone after a breakup. Sorry you got used; he doesn't deserve your time or attention. It sucks, but stay strong, do not contact him, move on and you'll get over it.

Posted by QueenVictoria22
Why is he so damn STUBBORN?
His friends tell me that he still loves and cares for me. We've been broken up for 4 months now. He contacts me weekly,somedays it's short,cold talk like careless,other days it's good talk and sounds concerned.
I really want us to be together again. I love him to death but.the hot.n cold thing is driving me nuts!
I asked his best friend for advice and he told me that it's possible we will get back together because he's still "crazy" about me ,BUT he's very stubborn. I don't know what to do about his stubbornness , I just want him back :/

Sounds like my ex sag, she has aquarius rising, she is hot and cold like you wouldnt believe, we have been split for 4 months and one minute she is warm and physical with me then the next its like I dont exist, proper ice queen, it affected me for a while but i'm over it now because I slowly realised I was being played with. Now I have taken control and cut the cord and now she is absolutely beserk with me really vicious which I guess she is now not in control? Its interesting reading this because I didnt realise how influential rising signs are.

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Posted by QueenVictoria22
Why is he so damn STUBBORN?
His friends tell me that he still loves and cares for me. We've been broken up for 4 months now. He contacts me weekly,somedays it's short,cold talk like careless,other days it's good talk and sounds concerned.
I really want us to be together again. I love him to death but.the hot.n cold thing is driving me nuts!
I asked his best friend for advice and he told me that it's possible we will get back together because he's still "crazy" about me ,BUT he's very stubborn. I don't know what to do about his stubbornness , I just want him back :/

Sounds like my ex sag, she has aquarius rising, she is hot and cold like you wouldnt believe, we have been split for 4 months and one minute she is warm and physical with me then the next its like I dont exist, proper ice queen, it affected me for a while but i'm over it now because I slowly realised I was being played with. Now I have taken control and cut the cord and now she is absolutely beserk with me really vicious which I guess she is now not in control? Its interesting reading this because I didnt realise how influential rising signs are.

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Yeah +1. Although I think it extends to guys in general who are unevolved and immature, My guy interestingly had aqua rising n I got the same treatment. Got totally played but cutting the cord is the only healthiest thing 🙂

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Posted by QueenVictoria22
Why is he so damn STUBBORN?
His friends tell me that he still loves and cares for me. We've been broken up for 4 months now. He contacts me weekly,somedays it's short,cold talk like careless,other days it's good talk and sounds concerned.
I really want us to be together again. I love him to death but.the hot.n cold thing is driving me nuts!
I asked his best friend for advice and he told me that it's possible we will get back together because he's still "crazy" about me ,BUT he's very stubborn. I don't know what to do about his stubbornness , I just want him back :/

Sounds like my ex sag, she has aquarius rising, she is hot and cold like you wouldnt believe, we have been split for 4 months and one minute she is warm and physical with me then the next its like I dont exist, proper ice queen, it affected me for a while but i'm over it now because I slowly realised I was being played with. Now I have taken control and cut the cord and now she is absolutely beserk with me really vicious which I guess she is now not in control? Its interesting reading this because I didnt realise how influential rising signs are.

Yeah +1. Although I think it extends to guys in general who are unevolved and immature, My guy interestingly had aqua rising n I got the same treatment. Got totally played but cutting the cord is the only healthiest thing 🙂

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Super hard to cut the cord though but for me once its cut its cut, difficult thing I have is we have kids so I have to keep seeing her which prolongs the process and she gets to see me often.

Bleugghh anyway crap situation but hey ho