Casual Sex

What's your take on casual sex aquas.

Is it wonderful? Okay? horrible? unforgivable? Tried it? Would never? And for fun which placement, aspect etc do you think plays a role in your opinion/belief (or you can say horseshit I don't believe in that shit).

snoz, I am going to reply on behalf of my Aqua ...fling

AWESOME!

Posted by feby16aqua
I'm not into casual sex at all. I like to be special. I blame my cap venus 🙂

Same... I tried to be all that free spirited but it didn't work for me. I need a real connection. I blame a few caps LOL

oh and a couple of AQUAS!

Posted by Damnata
snoz, I am going to reply on behalf of my Aqua ...fling

AWESOME!

girl you seem to have ALOT of men in your life.

as for the question. I'll cut off your dick if you ever come at me with "casual" anything.

My husband and I don't do casual. If i resist, because i'm in a pissy mood, it turns him the fuck on for some reason. i can't even control my emotions. that lovable wierdo.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Damnata
snoz, I am going to reply on behalf of my Aqua ...fling

AWESOME!

girl you seem to have ALOT of men in your life.

as for the question. I'll cut off your dick if you ever come at me with "casual" anything.

My husband and I don't do casual. If i resist, because i'm in a pissy mood, it turns him the fuck on for some reason. i can't even control my emotions. that lovable wierdo.

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ok wait husbands don't fall under casual 😄

lol 😛

Liz he's not in my life anymore. The dynamic I had with him fell under fwb I think? It was weird.

He recently divorced his virgo wife lol. I told him marriage won't suit him until he stops having casual sex. He didn't listen obviously.

I have no men in my life 😭

Yeah but I don't so it's ironic lol 😄

Is that a diss?

Everyone thinks I am negative and a bitch.

Don't ruin their perception, Aqua!!

YAY

Not sitting on a chair, that's boring.

I will sit on that..how do you call those things tied between two trees with string? Like floating beds? Too tired to google.

I will sit in one of those and watch you...peculiar people.

Posted by Damnata
Is that a diss?

Everyone thinks I am negative and a bitch.

Don't ruin their perception, Aqua!!

are you kidding? I'm usually perceived as a negative bitch in real life to other people if i don't like them. As long as you don't do that fake happy happy crap, you're all good, Damnie.

People love me IRL.

It's just the fools on this forum..

But yeah in real life if you don't have a smile plastered on your face, people will go out of their way to tell you to smile. I hate that shit.

I haven't had casual sex with a random in ages??_.It must have been years all the people I have sex with are pretty much friends and we have kinky sleep overs now and then lol??_.

I got back onto the gay meet up website because I want to have some random sex again because I think it will be good for me to have lots of sex with random guys but I'm very picky so I haven't met up with anyone yet lol

I just don't wanna be old when no one wants me anymore and turn into those old guys who are sex crazed because they didn't get enough when they were younger or something lol I don't think that will happen to me though because I have a very healthy sexual imagination

Posted by aquasnoz
What's your take on casual sex aquas.

Is it wonderful? Okay? horrible? unforgivable? Tried it? Would never? And for fun which placement, aspect etc do you think plays a role in your opinion/belief (or you can say horseshit I don't believe in that shit).

Since Aquarians aren't one to react or make decisions off of emotional impulse, I think the can handle casual relations w/o getting too attached, pretty well.

It takes a while and a lot for an Aquarian to really like you and warm up to you, so I can't imagine an Aqua growing feelings for someone they were only F buddies with, especially if they were never emotionally into them before the sex. It's not that easy to have an Aqua wrapped around your finger lol

Posted by Damnata
YAY

Not sitting on a chair, that's boring.

I will sit on that..how do you call those things tied between two trees with string? Like floating beds? Too tired to google.

I will sit in one of those and watch you...peculiar people.

Hammock 😄 I didn't know you where a voyeur, watch away!!!!

To answer the OP, no not into casual. Tried it and wasn't my thing.

I had a year of doing the casual sex thing, hook-up websites and all. Now I am in a relationship and I definately prefer this versus what I was doing before.

Odd how most Aquas are saying they dont go for casual sex.. My Aqua guy would only message me when he was horny and wanted it.. I think more about it now.. he came across very selfish.. Its his way only whether its communication or sex.

What was I thinking!? lol

Spanks for the replies. It's definitely not a topic I think about it's more so spurred on from a string of break ups recently in my immediate social circle and I was outright approached for it.

These are friends who I thought were loyal to the core or big fans of monogamous relationships, I'm just sorta thinking they're just going through that break up phase *shrugs*. Funny enough I've never known an Aqua personally that are into casual sex or even tried it but on DXP I seem to hear a lot more lol.

The discussion then turned into my friend trying to persuade me lmao. Yes I love sex, I enjoy sex, because why? Sex is fucking fantastic and anyone else who denies it are weird. I want to pin it on my pisces placements but I don't think that's it... there's something deeper that prevents me from having sex with just anyone.

Posted by Angeleyes17
Odd how most Aquas are saying they dont go for casual sex.. My Aqua guy would only message me when he was horny and wanted it.. I think more about it now.. he came across very selfish.. Its his way only whether its communication or sex.

What was I thinking!? lol

those type of men have no respect at all, and have been spoiled to having kitty thrown at them alot. disgusting. I wouldn't even associate with those types.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Angeleyes17
Odd how most Aquas are saying they dont go for casual sex.. My Aqua guy would only message me when he was horny and wanted it.. I think more about it now.. he came across very selfish.. Its his way only whether its communication or sex.

What was I thinking!? lol

those type of men have no respect at all, and have been spoiled to having kitty thrown at them alot. disgusting. I wouldn't even associate with those types.

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I know and I'm disappointed in myself for falling for it. Here I am on this forum talking about how i really like this Aqua guy and want something to happen with him. When ever he used to randomly message it i wouldn't even play any of those mind games crap, i just responded to him straight away or if he wanted to meet i would stop and change my plans for him. I know I am partly to blame. I haven't spoken to him for months and last saw him in June last yr. If he messages me, I'm gna tell him where to go.. I don't need this crap. Don't want casual.. I want the real deal.. lol

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Angeleyes17
Odd how most Aquas are saying they dont go for casual sex.. My Aqua guy would only message me when he was horny and wanted it.. I think more about it now.. he came across very selfish.. Its his way only whether its communication or sex.
What was I thinking!? lol

those type of men have no respect at all, and have been spoiled to having kitty thrown at them alot. disgusting. I wouldn't even associate with those types.

I know and I'm disappointed in myself for falling for it. Here I am on this forum talking about how i really like this Aqua guy and want something to happen with him. When ever he used to randomly message it i wouldn't even play any of those mind games crap, i just responded to him straight away or if he wanted to meet i would stop and change my plans for him. I know I am partly to blame. I haven't spoken to him for months and last saw him in June last yr. If he messages me, I'm gna tell him where to go.. I don't need this crap. Don't want casual.. I want the real deal.. lol

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live and learn 😢 You have to put your foot down. If i look back at my distant past, i was ruled by my sexual organs/feelings with my first husband, i wanted to live and die for him...but difference is, he married me so there was commitment. But here, in your case: you're dealing with an aquarius man, their mental (in their brain) are usually advanced, according to astrology, so be careful with these guys. If they don't have a good upbringing and you see their actions/having respect for women, they really can't be saved. Plenty in real life aqua men are respectful to women and have good commitments, so they are out there.

oh, i forget, AIR moons can do this, even much better, and in men. if they use it for good, it's fantastic, if not....they can turn really bad (Charlies Manson example, with Aquarius moon) Genius, but a baddie.

lisabethur8,

So True. I agree I need to put my foot down. Its really odd because he has a younger sister and I can tell hes really close to her. I've seen that he's very family orientated and close with both parents so questioning is upbringing and his behaviour towards me doesn't make sense. But next time he contacts me and selfishly asks me to see him.. I'm gna ignore him. I'm sure they are very caring and loyal just hope i saw that side to this one 🙂

Me personally, I've always either been in a fairly serious relationship or I've just been single. I kind of prefer to either be free or have something personal.
However, that said, I've always been curious about casual sex. I've personally never had a "causal encounter", but I'm interested. Maybe during a short period of wiles and whimsy; but as of right now, I think I'll stick with cuddling up with my girlfriend.

Casual sex is def not for me...I knew a sag that that I was very much attracted to but he just could not understand why I was unwilling to have sex with him.

but it's funny because just today I asked myself this same question. I looked at myself in the mirror
and said "d*** woman, you sexy" lmbo...I told myself I should be doing a lot more humping and dancing than I am doing because I am getting old and life is going by. Sex is such a good thing.....Maybe in the next life...I can be freaky and kinky and all that good stuff but with a stranger, I dont think so..I just need one person to go all the way with... 🙂lol

I like casual sex a lot actually. They way I see it fucking is getting out all your stress and horniness. Then there's sex with lot's of emotions and stuff. When you have casual sex you can try out different things and ask for different positions you either have never thought of to do with your partner of just want to try out haha. It can be as weird or kinky as you want because you'll probably never see them again let alone have sex with them. I'm known for having causal sex a lot at my friends house whenever they throw a party. I've almost covered every corner of the first floor front and backyard. Usually I don't initiate it when I do the girls come to me wanting it more and I just act on it because I'm a horny drunk. ARIES VENUS MWHAHA >🙂

I guess nobody has that aqua stranger love when it comes to making love lol

Hi, I'm new!!! Yay!

Casual sex? Just hearing about it turns me off. I can't imagine hooking up randomly. It sounds so uncultured, too unrefined for my taste. That could be my sagg moon talking but sex without strong connections and a bond is unappealing to me.

I don't understand the sex without love thing (or some other strong emotion).