totally confused by a scorpio man

i am a Sag girl, and was dating a scorpio man for about a month and a half...and we are not dating anymore because i finally just ended it because it was too freaking confusing for me!

this guy was gorgeous, had that whole scorp stare that i am reading about. thats why i was so drawn to him. he took me out to dinner like 4 times...but the thing is...he wouldn't ever follow up after a date unless i would text him or call to say hi first. now, i know that whole "he's not that into you" thing if the guy doesn't call...but this guy would be so happy to hear from me and ask me to dinner again and we'd go and he'd tell me that i was the only girl he was dating and that he liked me, etc. and then i wouldn't hear from him again for like a week or a week and a half...which was confusing. once i even called him to ask him if he still wanted to date and if not, just let me know...cuz i just like honesty (i'm a Sag girl...so it's not that big of a deal if he didn't want to keep dating, just tell me!).

and, well...i didn't sleep with him. which i thought maybe that's why he was weird, but to be honest i just wasn't ready because he was always sending me mixed signals so i didn't want to get myself into that situation where i'd want more and he was over it after sleeping with me. that was a catch-22.

he also said he had been hurt really bad two years ago and he was really closed off to a lot of stuff and he wasn't sure what he wanted with me--to be serious or not. and he also noticed the fact that i date a lot...which is true, i told him from the beginning that i was dating other people. i don't know if that scared him or not, but it didn't seem like he cared cuz he never really called. and he's 7 years older than me.

anyways...i can explain more, but that's all the info i have for now. can anyone shed some light on this scorpio guy?