He's done nothing except what he's always done within this relation growth .... whereas you have changed how you feel, and are projecting it on to him, as if he's done something.
You even make statements such as ... you deserve better, and, should you stand up for yourself ... you have planted paranoia in your head to make you believe that he's doing something against you ... when alls he's done is contact you in an LDR according to what you told him was acceptable to you.
All this about him causing you grief ... is a fantasy you have running in your head because you made yoursel insecure about yourself, by second guessing yourself.
Word of warning .. if you project this kind of insecurity onto a potential partner, you will be dumped every time, regardless of his sun sign.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.