Virgo and Scorpio Break-Up

This is my first time ever posting in a forum and I am quite new to Astrology. I'm going through a fresh break-up with my boyfriend who is a Scorpio, while i'm a virgo. I have mixed feelings about it. He broke up with me but we ended things on good terms. He made it a point to let me know that it had nothing to do with me. He said he needed to be by himself (which i've heard many times from him). I try to be as understanding as I can be about the whole thing. I've been having a hard time coping. not so much for the reason we ended, but just losing him. We live together so we're still because we have to give in a two month notice (which he hasnt yet) and find our own places. We were both happy with how it ended, and agreed that we noth needed to grow as individuals seperately. We made jokes with each other afterwards. It was happy. Hes so distant and doesnt really seem like he cares about anything I do or say, unless i go out and get home after he does. I expected him to be distant, I guess it just sucks. for some reason, I have this gut feeling that it's not the end. Throughout our relationship (3 years), he would go into this dark place from time to time and start to push me away. His life has always been sort of in a bad place and I remember him telling me one time that thats just all he knows. Im his first real relationship, first love, first person hes ever lived with. So is it that it's just so new to him and he can't handle it? i'm not sure. i'm not even sure what i'm trying to ask here. I guess I just need some scorpio advice. how they tend to act after a break up.

Sorry if this was all a mess. Thanks 🙂

How old are you? What are both of your moon, Mercury, Mars and Venus signs?

Posted by WateryVirgo
How old are you? What are both of your moon, Mercury, Mars and Venus signs?

i'm 25 and he's 26. im sorry, i dont know what those are! i tried the moon sign calculator and it said libra.

Posted by Nevermore
Unless there's something that he needs to realized to focus on himself.

He said he wants to be alone because hes not happy with himself. i understand that. i guess it's just me trying to cope with this break up ans how hes handling everything. just very cold, distant, and angry when the topic comes up. just trying to understand a scorpio.

Posted by Ellycakes
Break ups are hard. And honestly since y'all are still living together you're only half broken up. The separation won't become a true reality to him until you two no longer live together or have contact with each other. Living together drags it out.

Scorps require time to mull over highly emotional matters. We become cold when trying to find balance.

I understand the need to find yourself. It's easy to meld into your relationship and lose parts of your identity and things you enjoy about yourself, especially for water signs. But if you love someone and you're respectful of the emotional bond between you two you typically try to raise these issues to them before calling it quits. Especially after three years and living together.

Had he raised such concerns in the months before he break up? Had he raised any concerns at all that might be similar?

i actually wrote another post in much more detail if youd like to read that.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpio-break-up-6436257/