Water signs and the Ex factor

Water signs and the Ex factor

Why do you go back to old relationships that didn't work?
Why do you cling to the thoughts of the ex even if you don't have contact?
Cancers have this really bad and it's both annoying and pathetic to watch.
Like a train wreck in slow motion.

I have read on this sight some really stupid things like, (Scorpio male regarding Pisces ex) oh I wasn't thinking about her for months until she called out of the blue begging to come back, and now I'm obsessed with her. WTF? WHY?

Get over it, what's the point? It never works out! Idiots!!

The exception does not make the rule Tiz.
And oftentimes the reunion is temporary.
It's likely to produce a lot of old hurt feelings and MAYBE give closure then you move on.

Posted by tiziani
What is the rule though? If there are several cases of successful reunions and several cases where it turned out to be the same old car wreck, surely there is no hard and fast rule. Just a few guidelines on maturity and leaving the past behind.

I agree with the principle/theory/ideal but its hard to argue against reality...that most reunions fail for the reason you stated...maturity and letting go of the past. The two aren't mutually exclusive in these situations. If they were mature, they could get over the past but I'm afraid most don't.

Posted by Koniucha
Hmm, I wouldn't really say this is a Scorpio thing. When I am done, I am done.

Actually I was making it more of a water thing not Scorpio because out of all the signs we tend to revisit. I know it's all signs really. It's frustrating trying to date someone who hasn't moved past. I was once on a date with a Scorpio. All he talked about was his ex. He talked so much about his ex I started having visions of him in bed with his ex. It was terrible. I couldn't move forward with him.

I never go back once my mind is set up to permenantly move on!

BUT if I do back and don't want to cut off that means there's something there that's worth a second look.

Posted by Koniucha
Hmm, I wouldn't really say this is a Scorpio thing. When I am done, I am done.

same here, but it's weird...it takes a loooongggg time for me to get there. it has to "break me" ....

kind of how in real life, it took scorpio woman Lorenna Bobbit to finally get out of her toxic marriage from that crazy ex husband who did bad things all the time to her, and in their marriage, and she finally "broke" ....and cut off his penis. it is very bad though...to get to that point. There has to be a "enough is enough" and many of us ignore the warning signs because of love/need for support.

but yes after that. Cut off. never go back. too much trauma.

was so curious, so while i was making lunch for my family, afterward went to go look up Lorena bobbit's chart.

my god, so easy to see with the 9th house stellium (9th house - attracted to foreigners) she has libra mars, uranus both in libra in the 9th. So her drive/aggressive energy wants libran qualities but foreigners for that 9th house feel. Uranus libra 9th house. She hails from Equador and her ex is from a foreign place than her. Her sun scorpio sits in the 9th house too!!

she also has a stellium scorpio energy all sitting in the 10th house. Moon, Jupiter, Mercury, midheaven, venus, all in 10th house. So she needs a man who is career/ambitious too. She's super watery, all that with her love planets there as well. So interesting with astrology!!

good update on her:

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lorena-bobbitt-speaks-out-21-3479065

she's super happy and has a baby girl with her new man!! her life is better now.

"Lorena Bobbitt, who made world headlines after chopping off her husband's manhood and throwing it away in a park, has revealed she didn't have any problems getting a date afterwards.

Twenty-one years after slicing husband John Wayne's penis off with a kitchen knife Lorena revealed: "Believe it or not, I had quite a few gentlemen that wanted to date me."

Lorena, now settled down with a partner and an eight-year-old daughter, had suffered years of physical and emotional abuse at the hands of then husband Bobbitt.

But when he fell asleep after a night's drinking, Lorena, then 24, grabbed a n eight inch kitchen knife and hacked off his penis.

As he lay bleeding in bed in their Manassas, Virginia, home she jumped in her car and drove off, throwing the severed member out of the window into a field."

meanwhile, her ex husband has had 2 failed marriages with porn stars. but he's still having fun doing porn stuff. *shrug*

that story is insane.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
that story is insane.

it is!!

that's why i was so curious.

also curious of John Bobbit's chart, and it's on astrotheme:

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/John_Wayne_Bobbitt

Born: March 23, 1967, 10:00 AM
In: Buffalo (NY) (United States)
Sun: 2??17' Aries AS: 20??43' Gemini
Moon: 26??50' Leo MC: 24??14' Aquarius
Dominants: Leo, Gemini, Aries
Moon, Uranus, Mercury
Houses 4, 11, 10 / Water, Fire / Fixed
Chinese Astrology: Fire Goat
Numerology: Birthpath 4

they've got his time, so he's gem rising, but ironically, he's FIXED dominant with Mars in Scorpio (geee, what a surprise to get into porn?) but scorpio mars is in....5th house!!! O_O the house of porn star playful sex...geeee!!

and he's dominant Gemini, leo and aries.

real life stats....LOVE it.