5 Relationship Recipes For Success (Just mix some of this in it)

Had to do this in a set to balance out the toxic. They get too much attention anyway because they are everywhere nowadays. So let’s explore and recognize 5 features that will help any relationship strengthen and succeed. Here’s to all you who naturally do it and go unappreciated. Let’s go…

#1 Build-

A relationship can develop under any circumstances and can start completely amongst chaos, but that doesn’t mean that it should remain there. The best relationships consist of two people who build each other up. They help each other study and grow towards long term goals, one cooks or orders dinner when the other person is too busy, rubbing your back at the end of a long week. Things like this should happen naturally. Building in a relationship comes naturally or it doesn’t. You can easily know who you’re with simply by where their words and actions circle. There should be more you and less I on both parts.

#2 Personal Goal Oriented-

This is really something else that cannot be faked in a relationship. Just because two people decide to come together, that doesn’t mean that all of a sudden, personal objectives changed in any shape or form. Two individuals came together. Both should have dreams, ambitions, and the ability to self-motivate. You come together after working towards your daily goals to increase happiness, but happiness should be found in each person’s daily lives and life style s. Remember, two individuals come together and assist each other in happiness, but both need to be happy and have their own purposes prior.

#3 Keep Your Secrets-

This is probably one of the more important things that some people feel isn’t necessary. That’s why you’re single. Moving on... As long as a relationship is not abusive, violent, or demeaning to either persons, what happens in your relationships, the problems and the happiness is nobody’s business but the two of you. Now women brag to each other occasionally. I’m not talking about that. What I am saying is if everyone knows your business in the family, you will be judged by these people and what these people think from then on. If you didn’t agree to go on Jerry Springer, your business is your business. People knowing your business will make the bad worse, and most will undermine the good. It is of no value and the relationship suffers. Respect your relationships enough to keep them private. It is of no value if what you have isn’t sacred to you.

#4 Always Try To See The Good-

The reality is none of us are perfect and the only people that were close stayed single. I think I read in the Bible after Adam got with Eve, he fell from perfection too, so just accept that. But always try see the good in the person you’re with. Tell them how proud you are of them even if they are not succeeding. Try to always be supportive of their dreams and help them if you can move them forward. Give them real compliments about their strengths. And if they have a weakness, try to work on it with them without being so direct initially. Just by doing your best to always see the good in that person, it will build them as long as that person isn’t a narcissist. Actually listen when they speak and be considerate of their desires. This should be mutual, even though sometimes we must lead by example. This will nurture the relationship in a loving way and it will strengthen the bonds that exist if there are any.

#5 Say What You Mean & Mean What You Say-

Words can destroy your relationship even if the actions are building. Whenever a person talks sideways, out of spite, or even just overwhelming emotions, you will sow a seed of destruction or healing in the relationship. If you tell someone you do not want to be with them and change your mind a week later, if your person was thinking about a long-term relationship, marriage, children, anything to do with the future, YOU JUST KILLED IT even if they take you back. You are unsteady and inconsistent. You can no longer be trusted because you will walk away, so the other person to protect themselves mirrors you and the personality. Financial circumstances vary, so because of this, things to do with finances will have to adjust. These are the things that are beyond control and are influenced by forces outside the relationship, but anything to do with self or the relationship is within your control. We build up or tear down the relationships we have with our own words and actions, so do not take them lightly. Your partner isn’t whether he/she is mentioning it or not.

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