Pisces Sun, Scorpio moon.
- Oops nope she's not my mother in law. And that guy is just my best friend.
- I know one guy who's always supporting his mother no matter how evil she behaves with me.
- Is this the best combination ever to have good looks?
- Thank you all for replies. We have been together for more than 10 yrs and married for 3 years. He has always been caring and loving to me. He started comparing me recently maybe it's just a phase. I noticed if i react angrily it doesn't affect him at all. He just starts smiling. So i have decided to just ignore it. Because i know he cares for me and loves me. I love him a lot can't imagine life without him. I tried talking to him about comparing thing but it doesn't seem to make any difference. So, whenever he compares me i will just accept it. I'll say yes she cooks better than me, yes their house is cleaner than ours etc.
Posted by jeane
just talk to him about it. say it breaks my heart when you compare me to other women. i don't like it when i get upset you laugh. i feel unappreciated.
don't say what is wrong with you? you appreciate other women more.
don't use sentences that start with "you". use sentences that start with "i".
It's so difficult to stay calm when he compares me. I get super angry everytime.Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Perhaps try to talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel. No one likes to be compared and feel less than. Especially if that person is your husband/wife. Hopefully he can understand☺️
BUT personally I can be a bit possessive and I hate the feeling of jealousy so I would probably just stare at him like so 😐
And then tell him “I dare you to do it again🔫
I got so angry and fought with him. He was just smiling all the time which made me angrier. Then he made watermelon juice for me.Posted by MyStarsShine
Just shout at him
"Well you're not as good as the window cleaner"
😂😅🙃Lol 😹Posted by dOpehEad
He sounds insecure. Maybe he feels as if your attraction to him is waning or you're not as into him as you used to be.
But comparison with other women is making me go away from him.Posted by RollergirlOrc
What have you and him been fighting over, if anything? Taurus in my exp is not subversive like that. They either get really angry or totally apathetic.
But Taurus has lot of ego.Posted by dOpehEad
Can you give an example?
He says it in a casual way. Like if someone cooked something he will say see how nicely she cooked. But he will never appreciate what i cook for him. We had a baby last year and i gained weight. He started making fun of me. You look like a bowl and he will laugh. So i started dieting and exercise and lost weight. Still he says you didn't lose any weight. Whatever he says he says in a very casual way and with a smile. But it hurts me. Why he never appreciate what i do for him? Is it so difficult to appreciate me and so easy to appreciate other women?Posted by CoffeeAndCream
Googly Girl
The understanding of self
ARe you a Pisces?
Yes I'm a Pisces sun with Scorpio moon.Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Googly_girl
He's my husband. He's very caring and loving. But recently he started comparing me with other women. He will just say something and then laugh when i get angry. He doesn't appreciate what i do for him. But appreciate other women when they do same thing which i already did. I'm confused. What's wrong with him??? He always goes out of his way to help me and always there for me whenever i need him. But when he compares me with other women it breaks my heart i hate that feeling.
Put him in check a light hearted way. Humour is always a good way to go about it. Talking to him about it before these feelings build up and undermine your relationship is what is important here.
Can you give better detail? Because this could be a lot of things. It could be anywhere from mindless chatter to passive aggressive hinting.click to expand
He says it in a casual way. Like if someone cooked something he will say see how nicely she cooked. But he will never appreciate what i cook for him. We had a baby last year and i gained weight. He started making fun of me. You look like a bowl and he will laugh. So i started dieting and exercise and lost weight. Still he says you didn't lose any weight. Whatever he says he says in a very casual way and with a smile. But it hurts me. Why he never appreciate what i do for him? Is it so difficult to appreciate me and so easy to appreciate other women?- He's my husband. He's very caring and loving. But recently he started comparing me with other women. He will just say something and then laugh when i get angry. He doesn't appreciate what i do for him. But appreciate other women when they do same thing which i already did. I'm confused. What's wrong with him??? He always goes out of his way to help me and always there for me whenever i need him. But when he compares me with other women it breaks my heart i hate that feeling.
- What about Aries sun with Libra moon?
Posted by NelsonScorp
Well if their mom doesn't love them it won't matter which sign you are.
Yeah, but i know some men who love their moms no matter how she treated them.