Posted by Lostthoughts Posted by Googly_girl
He's my husband. He's very caring and loving. But recently he started comparing me with other women. He will just say something and then laugh when i get angry. He doesn't appreciate what i do for him. But appreciate other women when they do same thing which i already did. I'm confused. What's wrong with him??? He always goes out of his way to help me and always there for me whenever i need him. But when he compares me with other women it breaks my heart i hate that feeling.
Put him in check a light hearted way. Humour is always a good way to go about it. Talking to him about it before these feelings build up and undermine your relationship is what is important here.
Can you give better detail? Because this could be a lot of things. It could be anywhere from mindless chatter to passive aggressive hinting.
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He says it in a casual way. Like if someone cooked something he will say see how nicely she cooked. But he will never appreciate what i cook for him. We had a baby last year and i gained weight. He started making fun of me. You look like a bowl and he will laugh. So i started dieting and exercise and lost weight. Still he says you didn't lose any weight. Whatever he says he says in a very casual way and with a smile. But it hurts me. Why he never appreciate what i do for him? Is it so difficult to appreciate me and so easy to appreciate other women?