A little lost and dismal romantically

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So I'm a virgo sun, aquarius moon, sagittarius rising. My Venus falls in virgo and my Mars falls in libra. I'm a physicist, or perhaps a student of physics would be more accurate. I've been looking for companionship and intimacy but I've been falling short or perhaps just not looking hard enough or in the right places. Wondering if I could get some insight. Oh I'm a male.
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A person with moon in Virgo would suit you fine. But, it's not like you can go out searching for this person.

Scorpios are hard for all people to deal with. They are indeed very smothering, and emotionally controlling.


A Gemini would probably be nice for you or a Taurus girl, since you've just come out of being with a Scorpio. Either of those two would be nurturing to you without being demanding, or have too high of expectations. That is if you're just wanting companionship.

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So I'm a virgo sun, aquarius moon, sagittarius rising. My Venus falls in virgo and my Mars falls in jupiter. I'm a physicist, or perhaps a student of physics would be more accurate. I've been looking for companionship and intimacy but I've been falling short or perhaps just not looking hard enough or in the right places. Wondering if I could get some insight. Oh I'm a male.
Hey you.


I think at times we just need to believe in the impossible.
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Well, nothing is quite impossible. Youthful disenchantment might be at play here, or maybe my signs just make it so once I get past a certain stage I stop being good at people.
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Yeah I have. I try. I set dates. I hang out. Then I try to progress and I get shut down. Working hard can only work so well.
Dammit i hope you weren't so i could use the "an object at rest stays at rest line" thanks for ruining that!

But on a realer note. It's tough out there. My advice would be to let things and people come as they may and keep striking on opportunities you find. Theres no two ways about it. Funny thing my ex was a scorpio with pisces moon and tons of water. Except i loved the smother she just could handle her own feelings. Good luck, head up.
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As a virgo I love connectedness and feeling like I'm helping. Same with my aquarian moon. But when she stopped giving me space. When she was jealous just because I spent time with my friends or on my studies, that's when I was like "I need room for air!"
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Yeah I have. I try. I set dates. I hang out. Then I try to progress and I get shut down. Working hard can only work so well.
Dammit i hope you weren't so i could use the "an object at rest stays at rest line" thanks for ruining that!

But on a realer note. It's tough out there. My advice would be to let things and people come as they may and keep striking on opportunities you find. Theres no two ways about it. Funny thing my ex was a scorpio with pisces moon and tons of water. Except i loved the smother she just could handle her own feelings. Good luck, head up.
As a virgo I love connectedness and feeling like I'm helping. Same with my aquarian moon. But when she stopped giving me space. When she was jealous just because I spent time with my friends or on my studies, that's when I was like "I need room for air!"
Total opposite. I wanna be smothered like peanut butter on jelly.
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I'm cooling with being smothered but I don't really understand jealousy when it comes to little things and it scares me off. I understand it's a way of showing you care, but when she got mad because I wasn't jealous of her hanging out with friends it didn't make a lick of sense to me
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Yeah I have. I try. I set dates. I hang out. Then I try to progress and I get shut down. Working hard can only work so well.
Dammit i hope you weren't so i could use the "an object at rest stays at rest line" thanks for ruining that!

But on a realer note. It's tough out there. My advice would be to let things and people come as they may and keep striking on opportunities you find. Theres no two ways about it. Funny thing my ex was a scorpio with pisces moon and tons of water. Except i loved the smother she just could handle her own feelings. Good luck, head up.
As a virgo I love connectedness and feeling like I'm helping. Same with my aquarian moon. But when she stopped giving me space. When she was jealous just because I spent time with my friends or on my studies, that's when I was like "I need room for air!"
Total opposite. I wanna be smothered like peanut butter on jelly.
Mmm nostalgia 😢
sadly i get vietnam type flashbacks at times 😢
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Feel you there. Many unhappy memories from that relationship. The sex was amazing, but... yeah
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Yeah I have. I try. I set dates. I hang out. Then I try to progress and I get shut down. Working hard can only work so well.
Dammit i hope you weren't so i could use the "an object at rest stays at rest line" thanks for ruining that!

But on a realer note. It's tough out there. My advice would be to let things and people come as they may and keep striking on opportunities you find. Theres no two ways about it. Funny thing my ex was a scorpio with pisces moon and tons of water. Except i loved the smother she just could handle her own feelings. Good luck, head up.
As a virgo I love connectedness and feeling like I'm helping. Same with my aquarian moon. But when she stopped giving me space. When she was jealous just because I spent time with my friends or on my studies, that's when I was like "I need room for air!"
Total opposite. I wanna be smothered like peanut butter on jelly.
Mmm nostalgia 😢
sadly i get vietnam type flashbacks at times 😢
Feel you there. Many unhappy memories from that relationship. The sex was amazing, but... yeah
Sigh..I'm gonna go, there's a pillow calling my tears.
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My apologies.
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I have Virgo Venus too. I think we can maybe be too picky sometimes.

Maybe

Venus in virgo. No such thing as too picky, or too devoted. But I guess I'm just not showy about things? I have a difficult time expressing things like affection outright unless I'm sure I can invest in a person.
Virgo Venus will never be showy. We don't like that sort of stuff. You just have to find someone that understands that.

I also have a hard time showing affection unless I'm sure too. And that's ok.
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I know it is. It's a pretty good combination with my Mars as well at least in my opinion. But my airiness and earthiness kind of leave me lacking some aspects.
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I have Virgo Venus too. I think we can maybe be too picky sometimes.

Maybe

Venus in virgo. No such thing as too picky, or too devoted. But I guess I'm just not showy about things? I have a difficult time expressing things like affection outright unless I'm sure I can invest in a person.
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Virgo rising here. I have this problem too. Sometimes. I've been told by some exs that I can be closed off and not very affectionate. I'm more of a do things for you kind of person. Maybe a cancer with earth placements? Like Virgo or Cap moon? They seem to bring out the affectionate side of me but with a good moon placement they can ease up on the clinginess?

Good luck dating can be tough.