Aries ex

Hi all! So I've dated this aries guy for six months and it wasn't a fling. Long distance to add to it 🙄. He recently called it off saying we aren't going anywhere. I wanted to really give it a shot so after 2 weeks he came over. Behaved as if nothing happened and we slept together. He went out of town and I'm ignoring him since. He tried to reach out twice. Are there any chances of reconciliation or should i just let it be and move on?

Is that you, freetobe007?

Posted by bmoon8
That's your decision to make and your free will.

Yes i understand that. Its just that i can't read his mind at all. We've been in a long distance all along and he's very nice when he's with me and last time we hooked up he was emotional but didn't say anything. I've already told him before that i would like for us to work but he isn't sure about me. Now i don't know whether chasing him help my case cause i really don't wanna plead /beg if it's headed nowhere. N that's where i was hoping if i can get some help!

Posted by Supes
If you wanted more, why the ignore?

Because he had been hot and cold for a while. This time when we meet three weeks after our breakup also he didn't talk about us although he was quite warm to me. Browsed through our pics together, was interested in whatever I'm upto these days but didn't bring the relationship issues on his own. I've already told him I'm interested but i don't wanna go overboard. So I'm ignoring. I think it's fair if he comes to me if he also wants it as much as i do

So i did take the advice and talked to him. It was not so good. He told me he still stands firm on his decision and that he was just trying to be 'normal' with me by coming over and even sleeping together. He doesn't want to give it another chance even though there's nothing wrong with our relationship. He doesn't get the feel for marriage and there's no reason for it. I declined the idea to stay friends. Although i wished him well and stuff but I'm mad at him and really he's a jerk