I'm Confused

me and this aries guy 4/19, on the taurus cusp actually, have known each other a very long time, i used to reject him, but a year later he sparked my interest, i always thought he was a bit misogynistic which is very unattractive to me, a scorpio 11/22 sag cusp. but i see i may have misunderstood

so we've been fuck buddies for about a year and a half, i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him. and i asked him before if we can develop a connection, he says he cant, i cant remember why but this was about 8 months ago... recently, i expressed interest in him again, playfully stating that i want him to be my husband. but also like dead serious, and he implied that it was possible, not flat out saying it, but like more of aaaa, he has his conditions. is he fucking with me? i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games. if i get hurt again im going straight to jail or hell whichever happens first. do aries love hard? i fall fast and i fall hard, ive been single for 6 years so i have a lot of love to give, and i hope it doesnt overwhelm someone like him

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bump

Y'all both playing games with each other.it'll never work

Continue with the sex or kill it. It's already screwed up

Posted by scorpmebaby22
me and this aries guy 4/19, on the taurus cusp actually, have known each other a very long time, i used to reject him, but a year later he sparked my interest, i always thought he was a bit misogynistic which is very unattractive to me, a scorpio 11/22 sag cusp. but i see i may have misunderstood

so we've been fuck buddies for about a year and a half, i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him. and i asked him before if we can develop a connection, he says he cant, i cant remember why but this was about 8 months ago... recently, i expressed interest in him again, playfully stating that i want him to be my husband. but also like dead serious, and he implied that it was possible, not flat out saying it, but like more of aaaa, he has his conditions. is he fucking with me? i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games. if i get hurt again im going straight to jail or hell whichever happens first. do aries love hard? i fall fast and i fall hard, ive been single for 6 years so i have a lot of love to give, and i hope it doesnt overwhelm someone like him

"i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him."

and

"i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games."

hm..... a bit of contradiction 🙂

is he sleeping with anybody else? what are his moon and venus? what are yours?

I think you are not telling it exactly, how it is

what does it mean fuck-buddies in your interpretation? are you exclusive? how often you two hand out?

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by scorpmebaby22
me and this aries guy 4/19, on the taurus cusp actually, have known each other a very long time, i used to reject him, but a year later he sparked my interest, i always thought he was a bit misogynistic which is very unattractive to me, a scorpio 11/22 sag cusp. but i see i may have misunderstood

so we've been fuck buddies for about a year and a half, i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him. and i asked him before if we can develop a connection, he says he cant, i cant remember why but this was about 8 months ago... recently, i expressed interest in him again, playfully stating that i want him to be my husband. but also like dead serious, and he implied that it was possible, not flat out saying it, but like more of aaaa, he has his conditions. is he fucking with me? i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games. if i get hurt again im going straight to jail or hell whichever happens first. do aries love hard? i fall fast and i fall hard, ive been single for 6 years so i have a lot of love to give, and i hope it doesnt overwhelm someone like him

"i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him."

and

"i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games."

hm..... a bit of contradiction 🙂

is he sleeping with anybody else? what are his moon and venus? what are yours?

I think you are not telling it exactly, how it is

what does it mean fuck-buddies in your interpretation? are you exclusive? how often you two hand out?

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i dont see the contradiction, i fall back to avoid any hurt within myself. We have a purely sexual arrangement, i have never been fake with him and im telling you exactly what it is. im a scorpio sun virgo moon cap venus. he is an aries sun, leo moon, taurus venus. we see each other maybe once a week on a good month, unless he is out of town, yes he and i also sleep with other people.

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Posted by Pandora101

Posted by scorpmebaby22
me and this aries guy 4/19, on the taurus cusp actually, have known each other a very long time, i used to reject him, but a year later he sparked my interest, i always thought he was a bit misogynistic which is very unattractive to me, a scorpio 11/22 sag cusp. but i see i may have misunderstood

so we've been fuck buddies for about a year and a half, i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him. and i asked him before if we can develop a connection, he says he cant, i cant remember why but this was about 8 months ago... recently, i expressed interest in him again, playfully stating that i want him to be my husband. but also like dead serious, and he implied that it was possible, not flat out saying it, but like more of aaaa, he has his conditions. is he fucking with me? i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games. if i get hurt again im going straight to jail or hell whichever happens first. do aries love hard? i fall fast and i fall hard, ive been single for 6 years so i have a lot of love to give, and i hope it doesnt overwhelm someone like him

"i started to develop feelings for him, but any time i feel myself doing that, i'll fall back. kind of really hot and cold with him."

and

"i'm about to stop talking to him because i dont play games."

hm..... a bit of contradiction 🙂

is he sleeping with anybody else? what are his moon and venus? what are yours?

I think you are not telling it exactly, how it is

what does it mean fuck-buddies in your interpretation? are you exclusive? how often you two hand out?

i dont see the contradiction, i fall back to avoid any hurt within myself. We have a purely sexual arrangement, i have never been fake with him and im telling you exactly what it is. im a scorpio sun virgo moon cap venus. he is an aries sun, leo moon, taurus venus. we see each other maybe once a week on a good month, unless he is out of town, yes he and i also sleep with other people.

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"he and i also sleep with other people."

hm.... I am not sure a leo moon would like to share people.... why are you two sleeping with others, if you sleep with each other once a week? for a 1,5 year

"but like more of aaaa, he has his conditions."

what are his conditions you mentioned?

I dont see love or romance in this arrangement... do you go out sometimes together? do you know each others friends, family?

Is he single?

Posted by Whorpio
Is he single?

yeah we're both single

Posted by Whorpio
Is he single?

i love your name by the way lol

Same bday as my ex. Idk if you are both sleeping with other people he is not serious. He would want you all by himself. I think it’s just sex

I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

Posted by scorpmebaby22

Posted by Whorpio
Is he single?

yeah we're both single

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Sweet, set us up 🙂

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

True. Until they are crazy about you and they want to have your children.

Posted by lesenfantterribles
OP do you identify as a scorpio? i've always known 11/22 to be sagittarius. 11/21 is the cusp.

identify as? my birth chart gave me scorpio im not sure what you mean by that

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

im not sure he is THAT into me, but his actions say otherwise. he's constantly asking me about these other guys but hates it when i ask him about other girls. little shit like that.

Posted by scorpmebaby22

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

im not sure he is THAT into me, but his actions say otherwise. he's constantly asking me about these other guys but hates it when i ask him about other girls. little shit like that.

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As a Scorpio you should know that some people are do as I say not as I do. Aries are jealous but independent enough to not have to answer your questions. Aries are stubborn as hell. Some people don't think Aries are intuitive but trust me don't be fooled by their bravado because they are pretty spot on at figuring out mind games if you are playing any with them. And Aries like to test you to see how you react 😁😁

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Posted by lesenfantterribles
OP do you identify as a scorpio? i've always known 11/22 to be sagittarius. 11/21 is the cusp.

identify as? my birth chart gave me scorpio im not sure what you mean by that

which site are you using?

i just did a google & referenced 3 books. all them come up w/ scorpio as oct 23-nov 21. never seen 22nd considered scorpio. very interesting.

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Depends on the time of birth I would think. A 22/11 person born at 12 could be scorp while a 22/11 person born at 1 could be a sag

I work with a guy who is a 22/11 Scorpio. Did his chart for him to... actually has a lot of scorp in his chart

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

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Posted by scorpmebaby22

Posted by lesenfantterribles
OP do you identify as a scorpio? i've always known 11/22 to be sagittarius. 11/21 is the cusp.

identify as? my birth chart gave me scorpio im not sure what you mean by that

which site are you using?

i just did a google & referenced 3 books. all them come up w/ scorpio as oct 23-nov 21. never seen 22nd considered scorpio. very interesting.

Depends on the time of birth I would think. A 22/11 person born at 12 could be scorp while a 22/11 person born at 1 could be a sag

I work with a guy who is a 22/11 Scorpio. Did his chart for him to... actually has a lot of scorp in his chart

this is so interesting to me! i googled "nov. 22 scorpio" & it did yield results as well. my mind is blown lol

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yes i was born at 1:02am. i used cafeastrology. sun, mars, pluto lilith all in scorpio. venus, saturn uranus neptune in capricorns and i cant stand cappys ugh

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

im not sure he is THAT into me, but his actions say otherwise. he's constantly asking me about these other guys but hates it when i ask him about other girls. little shit like that.

As a Scorpio you should know that some people are do as I say not as I do. Aries are jealous but independent enough to not have to answer your questions. Aries are stubborn as hell. Some people don't think Aries are intuitive but trust me don't be fooled by their bravado because they are pretty spot on at figuring out mind games if you are playing any with them. And Aries like to test you to see how you react 😁😁

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thank you so much finally some actual advice and not people trying to pick apart my paragraph like weirdos, im glad someone can understand, and help me understand so thank you for tht. i like to test also, i think this guy may have a bigger ego than i realize, sometimes he seems like a big sweetheart, i told him i love the fact that he is very masculine thats a huge turn on for me, but i think i may be backing off because i just cant take anything other than straightforwardness

As a Venus in Capricorn, Venus in Taurus meen confuse me a great deal.

They do the hot n cold thing just as much as we do.

We initiate and wait for a response. If we don't get one that's assuring, we pull back. If it's real, we will intimate again. But eventually if there is no progress, we move on.

Taurus peeps are my way or the highway kind of folks. The relationship will have to be on his terms.

They're also slow to make moves....

I know an Aries sun, Venus in Taurus (2 of them) and the same dance you speak of.

I've known one for years. Like 5 or ssomething. It's cute, he very slow with making decisions especially when they deal with his heart.

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Posted by scorpmebaby22

Posted by lesenfantterribles
OP do you identify as a scorpio? i've always known 11/22 to be sagittarius. 11/21 is the cusp.

identify as? my birth chart gave me scorpio im not sure what you mean by that

which site are you using?

i just did a google & referenced 3 books. all them come up w/ scorpio as oct 23-nov 21. never seen 22nd considered scorpio. very interesting.

Depends on the time of birth I would think. A 22/11 person born at 12 could be scorp while a 22/11 person born at 1 could be a sag

I work with a guy who is a 22/11 Scorpio. Did his chart for him to... actually has a lot of scorp in his chart

this is so interesting to me! i googled "nov. 22 scorpio" & it did yield results as well. my mind is blown lol

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Yeah look at Prince George he is also born right on the cusp of the last day for his sun sign. A couple hours later and he would be a Leo and not cancer

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I'm not sure an Aries likes to share if they really into you though

im not sure he is THAT into me, but his actions say otherwise. he's constantly asking me about these other guys but hates it when i ask him about other girls. little shit like that.

As a Scorpio you should know that some people are do as I say not as I do. Aries are jealous but independent enough to not have to answer your questions. Aries are stubborn as hell. Some people don't think Aries are intuitive but trust me don't be fooled by their bravado because they are pretty spot on at figuring out mind games if you are playing any with them. And Aries like to test you to see how you react 😁😁

thank you so much finally some actual advice and not people trying to pick apart my paragraph like weirdos, im glad someone can understand, and help me understand so thank you for tht. i like to test also, i think this guy may have a bigger ego than i realize, sometimes he seems like a big sweetheart, i told him i love the fact that he is very masculine thats a huge turn on for me, but i think i may be backing off because i just cant take anything other than straightforwardness

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No worries. I have a few Aries exes behind my belt lol. I attract them like the plague. My longest was 7 years with one. Aries are very straightforward so listen to what he says and watch what he does. They don't like mind games or being tested but will happily do it to you. I find that Aries are similar to Leo.... actually all fire signs are the same, they love to have their ego stroked it's only really a Le who will admit that lol.

They only advice I will give you is to be completely honest with him at all times and make him have to chase you for a while. Aries love love love the chase