P10
@P10
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Calling people darling, sweetheart, love, etc.
It's probably just his personality. Does he earn tips? He might be doing it for that too.
I can think of 3 reasonable explanations.
1. He works for tips and lays it on thick for $ $ $ $
2. That is his natural personality and that's just how he talks
3. He's got the hots for you
1. He works for tips and lays it on thick for $ $ $ $
2. That is his natural personality and that's just how he talks
3. He's got the hots for you
@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
Astrologically, he is a Sag, Venus Scorpio, Mars Aries, Moon Cancer.
Posted by leowwwLol 🙂Posted by P10Personally... I wouldn't take anything serious from a barista...outside of work....that's another story....
In reference to a barista that I see almost everyday. He gives me extra shots in my coffee, the occasional free drink, calls me darling, sweetheart, and just added in love. (He's not British)
The darling and sweetheart, I took as commonplace fillers, like honey or dear.
But the love, which started last week, I was like hmmm?? Lol
Yes, he knows my name, and does use it.
Is this part of the barista customer service thing? Like be nice to everyone because you're being paid? Or does it mean your barista may like you?
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Posted by P10I just caught my typo lol
@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
I'm on my phone and have big thumbs! Between that and autocorrect I usually come across illiterate.
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@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
Lol well he might!! You should call him cute names too and see how he reacts!
Posted by Deedee86Haha I'm slow because I just figured out that you meant hots? I thought hits was slang. So I went with it!Posted by P10I just caught my typo lol
@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
I'm on my phone and have big thumbs! Between that and autocorrect I usually come across illiterate.
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Posted by pinkbird03I know right? I was thinking of saying thanks love. Haha, see what happens...Posted by P10
@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
Lol well he might!! You should call him cute names too and see how he reacts!
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I don't like the term babe. Or I could use hun.
Posted by P10Posted by pinkbird03I know right? I was thinking of saying thanks love. Haha, see what happens...Posted by P10
@pinkbird03 @deedee86
It wouldn't be the tips. I don't know that they get that much and splitting it between so many people. Wouldn't be an incentive.
Maybe it's just his personality? I've been there when it's been busy and he will use it only for me.
But I've been there when there was an older woman there, and he said to her, I'll be right with you darling. But did not call her that again when he gave her the coffee.
I'm kinda hoping he has the hits for me. Lol 🙂
Lol well he might!! You should call him cute names too and see how he reacts!
I don't like the term babe. Or I could use hun.
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lol definitely do it. Let me know how it goes! Good luck!!
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The darling and sweetheart, I took as commonplace fillers, like honey or dear.
But the love, which started last week, I was like hmmm?? Lol
Yes, he knows my name, and does use it.
Is this part of the barista customer service thing? Like be nice to everyone because you're being paid? Or does it mean your barista may like you?