@Scrumptious
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Well, i blew it
Understanding Pisces Behavior and Communication
Pisces individuals can be sensitive and cautious, especially when opening up emotionally. They may withdraw if they feel uncomfortable or misunderstood. Recognizing their subtle cues and respecting boundaries helps build trust and deeper connections.
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no holding hands i guess
Posted by MIIeFisk
srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touch
actually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke
Posted by leowww
How long have you been seeing Pisces?Maybe she's the shy type and you need to Simmer a little...? It all depends how much you like her... a lot? Be patient...
its been like 2 months
Posted by MIIeFisk
srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touchactually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke
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its the words you used.
Posted by MIIeFisk
srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touchactually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke
its the words you used.
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damn misunderstandings
i'll just lay down on the floor and die for a few hours
Posted by MIIeFisk
srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touchactually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke
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I agree. If a guy held my wrist like that, I would feel very closed off. I would feel the need to distance myself and restablish boundaries. *shudders* I think it would have been better to speak with eye contact rather than touch her like that. But what do I know? I'm only a Pisces moon not sun.
I wouldn't have liked you holding my wrist and saying that and you're one of my favorites. She's a Pisces, so don't worry, she's not done with you.
Posted by MIIeFisk
srly. that wrist holding was a bit of an aggressive move. when you're trying to lure a kitten with a piece of ham, you don't grab it by the neck once it's close enough to touchactually i was gentle like a kitten and she didn't object until until i spoke
I agree. If a guy held my wrist like that, I would feel very closed off. I would feel the need to distance myself and restablish boundaries. *shudders* I think it would have been better to speak with eye contact rather than touch her like that. But what do I know? I'm only a Pisces moon not sun.
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no i agree with ladyneptune because in terms of touching, i was holding her wrist before
excuse me while i go back to dying
😢 Well do apologize and be the gentleman we all know you are.
dammit i wanted to sweep her off her feet
Posted by Scrumptious
dammit i wanted to sweep her off her feet
You still can and you will... 😡 don't give up yet!
Posted by Scrumptious
dammit i wanted to sweep her off her feetYou still can and you will... 😡 don't give up yet!
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damn it, i almost made a mistake and apologized to her in a PM on social media. i've decided I am not apologizing for any of my behavior because I want her.
yea she didn't complain, so no apology. no complaint, no apology.
most of the ladies here are all complaining.
'... and this time she was letting me touch her and she was opening up to me about herself.'
Maybe she'd just had enough 'bonding' for the day, and
needed to marinate in all that had transpired to that point.
No worries.
Posted by tiziani
Well apparently everyone here is meeting their date this Friday. So maybe she'll schedule something with you before tonight. The big night.
schedule it for my deathbed
On the surface, this handhold might come off as a little more aggressive, needy, or overly assertive.
None of that is true — on the contrary, you are not only intertwining your hands, you are also interlocking the bottom half of your arms.
This only makes the handhold even more intimate and passionate, and the “need” to be around each other more urgent.
http://www.littlethings.com/different-ways-to-hold-hands/
:-) Hugs.
Are you saying that you held her wrist and said you wanted her wrist literally and that scared her?
Lost in translation.
Posted by pathfinder
Are you saying that you held her wrist and said you wanted her wrist literally and that scared her?Lost in translation.
damn play by play
I reached out and held her wrist gently. she didn't pull away immediately. as i held her wrist she playfully asked if i wanted the object in her hand or "this" as in her hand. i said "no "this" and thats when she pulled away.
Posted by Scrumptious
dammit i wanted to sweep her off her feetBut you didn't. That's why she went all weird. She wanted you to sweep her off her feet and kiss her and you wanted to sweep her off her feet and kiss her. All you had the balls to do was grab her hand and mumble some cutesy wutsey shit. Go all out for her dude, Pisces girls love that shit. Don't think she doesn't know it either, shes more intuitive and sensitive to your emotions than you could imagine. They practically know what your thinking and feeling, which is scary as fuck but its so attractive. When your actions don't line up with what she feels coming from inside you, she gets uncomfortable with that.
You haven't blown it. As long as you start acting how you feel then your gonna be good as gold.
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yea its weird. earlier she was fiddling with this little device trying to put it together. it wasn't that difficult to do. i noticed and i came up standing behind her putting my left hand on the device while touching her hand and i was bringing my right hand around her to the device. then she managed to put it together before i could fully encompass her in my arms. then i backed off. shes like "oh its all set now"
fuck
Maybe she's just not ready for all the touching. I know you are but maybe she's slower. She didn't recoil in horror, right?
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Maybe she's just not ready for all the touching. I know you are but maybe she's slower. She didn't recoil in horror, right?
earlier in the evening i reached out wanting to hold her wrist because she look like she hurt it. so she gave me her wrist and i said something like is it ok? she like oh i'm just twirling my wrist just to pop the joint in it.
fucking romance
she probably wanted me to say something like, it doesn't look ok because my hand isn't holding your hand.
Posted by Scrumptious
excuse me while i go back to dying
Cyber hugs !~
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Maybe she's just not ready for all the touching. I know you are but maybe she's slower. She didn't recoil in horror, right?earlier in the evening i reached out wanting to hold her wrist because she look like she hurt it. so she gave me her wrist and i said something like is it ok? she like oh i'm just twirling my wrist just to pop the joint in it.
fucking romance
she probably wanted me to say something like, it doesn't look ok because my hand isn't holding your hand.
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I know they Pisces are all romantic but my sister would have laughed at you, if you had said that. We need her moon and Venus.
It'll be fine, quit worrying.
Seriously though
So you were a little creepy...But I'm sure you're thinking about it more than her. She's probably already forgotten about it. Don't bring it up - just move forward.
Trust me - I say weird shit all. The. Time.
There's shit I said 10 years ago I still think about and cringe ...but no one else even remembers it.
Next time grab her ass and say it ??
You need to do a Lloyd Dobler
OMFG
I think she wanted me to take her with no words
Posted by Scrumptious
yea she didn't complain, so no apology. no complaint, no apology.most of the ladies here are all complaining.
No don't apologize. You took her by surprise that's all.
Keep on keeping on.
and failure
Posted by Scrumptious
and failure
update?
Posted by Scrumptious
and failureupdate?
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told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
damn stupid test
she wanted me to tell her i wanted her
Posted by Scrumptious
and failureupdate?
told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
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Want me to waste her
Posted by Scrumptious
and failureupdate?
told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
Want me to waste her
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yea
Posted by Scrumptious
and failureupdate?
told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
Want me to waste her
yea
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dis bish
Posted by Scrumptious
and failureupdate?
told her how i felt, i hung around as long as i could and that was it nothing. she was telling me she found someone else months ago which was a lie obviously
If her testing you meant life and death for your relationship, know you dodged a ford pinto, cause that relationship backin' up on yo' dick would have been a disaster...
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yea thats true
Idk how this will all turn out, but I'd say next time just slowly move in for the kiss. I think Virgo/Pisces axis tend to spend a lot of time in their heads, so talking about it beforehand will only give her time to freak out or start analyzing.
Just give her a hug goodbye and kiss her cheek. Then don't pull away all the way and start moving towards her mouth. See how she responds to that.. you should know pretty quickly if she's okay with you kissing her or not.
I'm just glad to hear you're not taken. ?
I know it doesn't feel like it but I think you dodged a bullet.
Yea that shit is toast. At least I can laugh at it
Posted by TaurusinTexas
I'm just glad to hear you're not taken. ?I know it doesn't feel like it but I think you dodged a bullet.
Hey baby.what ya hinting at there?
Posted by TaurusinTexas
I'm just glad to hear you're not taken. ?I know it doesn't feel like it but I think you dodged a bullet.
Hey baby.what ya hinting at there?
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Oh sugar, I think you know.
Posted by Scrumptious
Yea that shit is toast. At least I can laugh at itHer loss. 🙂
@wagtail already took care of her I see.
? Leo sistaaaaa
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yea, pop that btich
Well isn't this just the cutest thing. So sweet awe
More fish in the sea
what i should of done was ignore her stupid little test and carried on like nothing happened
Posted by DivaCanLeo
When you have to overthinking, over analuze, it's not right
yea i panicsss
This thread is adorable :3
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I was talking to the pisces earlier and this time she was letting me touch her and she was opening up to me about herself. so towards the end of the evening i held her wrist and i said "i wanted this" while she was holding something in her hand. she holds the object and she was like "you mean this?" I said "no this". "You mean my hand?" she takes her hand away and says "well i do have nice skin." then she became closed off then she tried hiding towards the end.
I don't get it
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