shayshay01277
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can anyone tell me why his friend kneeled??..
Unfortunately, it doesn't get any better with age.
Women at 25, 30, 40 ... still come in here to say things like ....
... he looked at me, omg what does that mean? does he care, does he love me ... he looked at me
Where you are right now in your emotional immaturity when it comes to comprehending feelings is likely where you'll be for the rest of your life .... that is unless you realize that your worth as a woman isn't dependent upon anothers approval. That happens rarely.
Only a few women actually manage to learn how not to suffer with this emotional dependency.
Women at 25, 30, 40 ... still come in here to say things like ....
... he looked at me, omg what does that mean? does he care, does he love me ... he looked at me
Where you are right now in your emotional immaturity when it comes to comprehending feelings is likely where you'll be for the rest of your life .... that is unless you realize that your worth as a woman isn't dependent upon anothers approval. That happens rarely.
Only a few women actually manage to learn how not to suffer with this emotional dependency.
Posted by shayshay01277
and his friend standing next to him looked @ me smiled and said.....so this is Sarah drew talks about then his friend got on one knee took my hand and said its an honor....why did he kneel down and take my hand like that....what's up with that...
Because he is the group comedian!!!
I think you know the answer to your own question
Perhaps he's a threatrical kind of guy. Maybe he's dramatic or was just using threatics to make the conversation less awkward or vulnerable
Perhaps he's a threatrical kind of guy. Maybe he's dramatic or was just using threatics to make the conversation less awkward or vulnerable
I think it was his friend that got down on one knee...
he was taking the pun out of his mate who obviously talks a lot about you.
he was taking the pun out of his mate who obviously talks a lot about you.
today I told him after class that I needed to talk to Him *** keep in mind he was with his friends the whole time*** I was like drew I need to speak to you all the while he was interrupting me introducing me to all his friends. I said drew do you still wanna go out w/ me and he smiled and said no, your mean to me! he was saying something but his friends kept interuppting so I was about to leave for class and he was walking away so I called out yes or no...then he smiled and shouted never! and I walked away...was he kidding. ..and why did he act like that....please help!!!!
How old are you? serious question, don't think you should be dating at this age. Wait a few more years or you're likely to end up pregnant!!
I agree with Sweethearts, well not really that you are too young but you don't seem ready to go out with anyone. You need to become more secure and get some confidence.
I think he liked you - he asked you out - you flaked - he was confused - you made a move (the 1st time u asked if he was joking) - he still seemed confused - you chased by asking him out - you really chased with the yes or no thing. Maybe it looked desperate and you became less appealing and he said no. Some guys want encouragement but not for the girl to just hand herself to them. He could've also wanted to put you in his place out of spite which is not a good quality.
The fact that you thought someone asking you out could be a joke makes me think you are not confident and all the questioning here about obvious actions of his makes you look insecure too.
I think it's a good experience for you that you took a chance and put yourself out there but sometimes things need to happen at the right time or they just don't happen. You should forget this guy and focus on yourself so next time you'll be ready. At least that's what I think anyway.
I think he liked you - he asked you out - you flaked - he was confused - you made a move (the 1st time u asked if he was joking) - he still seemed confused - you chased by asking him out - you really chased with the yes or no thing. Maybe it looked desperate and you became less appealing and he said no. Some guys want encouragement but not for the girl to just hand herself to them. He could've also wanted to put you in his place out of spite which is not a good quality.
The fact that you thought someone asking you out could be a joke makes me think you are not confident and all the questioning here about obvious actions of his makes you look insecure too.
I think it's a good experience for you that you took a chance and put yourself out there but sometimes things need to happen at the right time or they just don't happen. You should forget this guy and focus on yourself so next time you'll be ready. At least that's what I think anyway.
I mean how old are we here?
Ok ok I get it, he's direct in a humorous & slightly sarcastic kind of way
But if his yes' mean 'yes and his no's mean no' then it shouldn't really matter how he said it. The fact is he's already told you he liked you
You're over-analyzing the situation way too hard.
You're making something out of nothing. You're making the situation more complicated than it actually is.
He's interested in you ok?! Take that & run with it & move on so that you guys can actually begin enjoying eachother's company instead of turning simple things into some kind of complex puzzle that you gotta figure out
Ok ok I get it, he's direct in a humorous & slightly sarcastic kind of way
But if his yes' mean 'yes and his no's mean no' then it shouldn't really matter how he said it. The fact is he's already told you he liked you
You're over-analyzing the situation way too hard.
You're making something out of nothing. You're making the situation more complicated than it actually is.
He's interested in you ok?! Take that & run with it & move on so that you guys can actually begin enjoying eachother's company instead of turning simple things into some kind of complex puzzle that you gotta figure out
Posted by 25thDecan
This was answered on the virgo board as well.
Designation: his friend is the WORST WINGMAN of the week
"His friend is the worst wingman ever and you shot the guy down asking if he was SERIOUS when he asked you out. I feel for the guy, it doesn't usually gett more embarassing than that. He's gotta stop idolizing women and just ask her out and get to know her..she might not be all he dreams about....because he SERIOUSLY has this "dream vvision" of who you are as his crush and has some serious blinders on. LOL"
awww! i wasn't trying to shoot him down...i actually want to go out with him but now its kinda complicated....i wasnt paying attention to the fact that i shot him down by asking if he was serious...i was just trying to clarify...
Posted by 25thDecan
Yeah...find a better way to do that. Lol
Ay...lesson learned.
yeah i guess...why are guys so confusing...especially him..he acts so bipolar like he cant focus on anything with his friends...like i was trying to talk to him and he kept interupting me introducing me to people like this is sarah..she's my best friend...?
Posted by starlover
...just remember (most) men would do anything, say anything to get sex...if it entails bending down on one knee, jumping through hoops or jumping of a cliff lol...they will
learn this and you wont depend on them for anything!
LMAO @ jumping off a cliff. I am always amazed at the lengths they will go. Kingdoms have fallen over some p*ssy. LOL
Posted by 25thDecan
Down with feminism, women's liberation and the absence of beer maids for me in my home.
Wow! I felt the slaps of millions of women. *wipes face, sits in corner
Touche' chickie pies.....tou...che'
is it tue that if he really liked me he would have stopped and spoken to me or was he just acting stupid because he was w/ his friends/
Posted by Dreamer02Posted by starlover
...just remember (most) men would do anything, say anything to get sex...if it entails bending down on one knee, jumping through hoops or jumping of a cliff lol...they will
learn this and you wont depend on them for anything!
LMAO @ jumping off a cliff. I am always amazed at the lengths they will go. Kingdoms have fallen over some p*ssy. LOLclick to expand
No doubt about it.
There is serious power in the ham-wallet. I believe in its power.
Posted by 25thDecanPosted by shayshay01277Posted by 25thDecan
Down with feminism, women's liberation and the absence of beer maids for me in my home.
Wow! I felt the slaps of millions of women. *wipes face, sits in corner
Touche' chickie pies.....tou...che'
is it tue that if he really liked me he would have stopped and spoken to me or was he just acting stupid because he was w/ his friends/
?? No. I take it you are under the age of 20, no? Look, most people save face at your age...not let it roll off the shoulders.click to expand
bottom line is through actions an saying the words himself..he likes me and i like him back. i want something to happen between us but i dont want to put myself out there like that again just for him to act like a d-bag like he did before...i dont know what to do AND i wont see him for about 2 weeks anyway...so completely screwed up or is there still hope?
ShayShay.
Run down.
1.His friend is obnoxious. He is making fun of Drew and probably of everyone else.
2. A guy who asks you out. Then has you ask him if he was serious and does not ask you out again..I would question.
3. A guy who says no or never...is what I would categorize as a First Class Asshole in the making. He will know how to manipulate you, have you chase HIM in circles, and then have you think you are in a relationship with him.
I disagree that you need to wait till you are mature. Jump in go out see what the hype is all about. Do not kiss on date no 1. If there is date no 2 or 3 you will know. Don't jump into the sack.
If you are in the type of a situation you are in now:
Wait for him to ask again and if you are not sure say "I thought you were joking". He will say " no I want to go out with you" then you will know.
Some future advice as far as talking: if you want to talk to a boy, or man, whatever he may be do it one on one.
Please do not feel bad or wrong about this. Blow it off and move on. He comes around he comes around. If not there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Run down.
1.His friend is obnoxious. He is making fun of Drew and probably of everyone else.
2. A guy who asks you out. Then has you ask him if he was serious and does not ask you out again..I would question.
3. A guy who says no or never...is what I would categorize as a First Class Asshole in the making. He will know how to manipulate you, have you chase HIM in circles, and then have you think you are in a relationship with him.
I disagree that you need to wait till you are mature. Jump in go out see what the hype is all about. Do not kiss on date no 1. If there is date no 2 or 3 you will know. Don't jump into the sack.
If you are in the type of a situation you are in now:
Wait for him to ask again and if you are not sure say "I thought you were joking". He will say " no I want to go out with you" then you will know.
Some future advice as far as talking: if you want to talk to a boy, or man, whatever he may be do it one on one.
Please do not feel bad or wrong about this. Blow it off and move on. He comes around he comes around. If not there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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