Allergic to emotional men?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by iceredrobot on Friday, November 4, 2011 and has 49 replies.

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@iceredrobot
14 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Is that weird for a girl? I don't like guys showing any emotions, YES.. any emotion. As if it makes them less masculine. Well except anger.

Wish it wasn't like this, but I just can't stand it. What are your views on emotional displays from men? =/

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@GreekBarbie
16 YearsCancer

lol Are men not allowed to be human...?

There's not a darn thing wrong with a man showing his emotions. If he had no emotions, he would be a robot lol

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

i don't like it unless they're ordinarily sensitive, then it's fine. my sag told me about a bad trip he had years ago, how everything looked fucked up, a schoolgirl tried to chat him up, then she wanted to know what stop he was getting off at :/ a woman tried to get him to coo over her baby and he got the gender wrong...american tourists were laughing at him cos they could tell he was high.

and he went home and cried for hours and i squeezed his hand when he told me cos i don't like when he's in pain.

so overall, i like it. yeah, i do. if they're usually this macho robot i tend to think, well is this emotion for show? or does it come from a real place? why are you only dropping the robot mask now? i'm more cynical then and it just freaks me out tbh.

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@AA
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Torres is quite feminine tho? How do you feel about that? And his hair is amazing, i like how it flows in the wind when re runs. Seriously. Think he wears one of those bands tho.

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15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by iceredrobot
Is that weird for a girl? I don't like guys showing any emotions, YES.. any emotion. As if it makes them less masculine. Well except anger.

Wish it wasn't like this, but I just can't stand it. What are your views on emotional displays from men? =/

Thats why you fuckers confuse the fuck out of us men!!!!

Show emotion we are fags.
Show no emotion we dont care enough.

So what the fuck is it already? Should we ask ye on the first date something like...
"If i cry at an episode of Sesame Street, would you dump me"?
"If i see a baby fall out of the stroller would you dump me if I didnt give a fuck"?

So help us.....what are the guidelines?

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@wgamador2
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Did they call them codpieces because at the time men's hygiene was bad and it got cheesy and fishy down there?
Imagine teh women with the chasity thingys.
I hate the middle ages.

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@wgamador2
15 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by venusianbull
Men would wear them over their groin to enhance the visual, ( virility, manhood ) some were even used to stash money.

a very modest example. Some were ridiculously large.

smexy. xD

LOL I think I'd crack up if I saw a codpiece strutting towards me.

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Aww come on....you know you want me to come up to you and be like:

"How you doin'?"
*shakes codpiece*

Youd be like
-Is that a codpiece of are you just happy to see me?

I'd be like
-Nope. Its a Pez dispenser for my penis.

You'd be like
-Take me, take me now.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by iceredrobot
Is that weird for a girl? I don't like guys showing any emotions, YES..

For a girl, yes!

Posted by iceredrobot
In my experience emotional guys act like bitchy women, not sexy at all. Crybaby, insecure, touchy twats😄 suck it up and act like a man.

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Or I could tell you to stop being such a dick and act like a real woman! 😉

A real woman will embrace my feelings either way I choose to express them, altough logically some tend to take a step back because most of my emotions seem to be expressed through aggression one way or the other. If I cry on some rare occasion it is out of frustration, not sadness or a broken heart.

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@nimbue
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by iceredrobot
Is that weird for a girl? I don't like guys showing any emotions, YES..

For a girl, yes!

Posted by iceredrobot
In my experience emotional guys act like bitchy women, not sexy at all. Crybaby, insecure, touchy twats😄 suck it up and act like a man.

Or I could tell you to stop being such a dick and act like a real woman! 😉

A real woman will embrace my feelings either way I choose to express them, altough logically some tend to take a step back because most of my emotions seem to be expressed through aggression one way or the other. If I cry on some rare occasion it is out of frustration, not sadness or a broken heart.

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mrrrrrrrreow!!!! 😛

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@wgamador2
15 Years1,000+ Posts

"Yeah we put poison in it, sucka."

"After catching Oscar eating her brother, their relationship would never be the same."

"...and that morning the pigeons Smokey had eaten over the years, began to haunt him."

"At that very moment, Missy realized Ghetto Pigeons werent to be fucked with."

"You stupid cat. How does that avian flu taste?"

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by wgamador2

Posted by venusianbull

Posted by nimbue

Posted by venusianbull
Men would wear them over their groin to enhance the visual, ( virility, manhood ) some were even used to stash money.

a very modest example. Some were ridiculously large.

smexy. xD

LOL I think I'd crack up if I saw a codpiece strutting towards me.

Aww come on....you know you want me to come up to you and be like:

"How you doin'?"
*shakes codpiece*

Youd be like
-Is that a codpiece of are you just happy to see me?

I'd be like
-Nope. Its a Pez dispenser for my penis.

You'd be like
-Take me, take me now.

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Like you don't want me too...don't front. 😛

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@MelanieG
15 YearsLibra

i wouldn't even be interested in a dull, emotionless man to be honest. having emotions is what makes all of us human.
if you don't have emotions, you're not human and i'm not gonna associate with you for too long. even animals and trees have emotions.

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14 Years

Melanie, I totally agree.. I dont want a guy made of stone, I want someone that is human..LOL.. love the video on the cancer guy by the way...LOL... as I am head over heals with a cancer guy

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16 Years1,000+ Posts

You're young, Icy. Not to be all old and wise *flings hair*, but seriously, as you mature, so will your attractions. No woman wants an overly emotional man (its just not masculine), but you will grow to understand and appreciate the ways of men (emotions and all), than your tender youth allows for now.

I hated emotions from men too, and loved arrogance. Yea, those traits are still at the root of my attraction, but they're not as shallow as they used to be.