Dating a Pisces Man

I met this guy via the internet and he is a Pisces. Very sweet,and down to earth and sincere. We had a great first date and he text me and called me on the plane when he was on a business trip. Then he came to my house and brought food and wine and we had fun. Makes me laugh and very comfortable. Has text me that he was thinking of me and sent me a photo of him when he was on a last minute vacation. Told me he missed me from the first date to the next which was two weeks apart. He even text me while sitting on a plane that was delayed. So it seems he must be thinking of me if he texts me on a plane, and sends me a picture of himself on vacation. But now he got back into town and went from vacation to a business trip and said he would talk to me soon. Oh yeah, he is in the military. He came back on Friday night and I didn't call him til Sunday just to say hi. I text him quick Monday am as the water was so amazingly wild that with him working on a ship it must have been crazy. He lives on land though. Anyway, I haven't heard a thing and just last night again after I did text in the am I just text him if he was ok and if everything was alright?? Nothing... now it has only been a month but he is giving me mixed signals. He doesn't always answer my text but the after checking to see if he is ok I am surprised. What should I do. He told me that he is kind of not into a relationship as he is going out to sea in the next year to deploy. But am I wasting my time. My friends say that guys don't send you pictures when they are on vacation or text your from business trips if they are not interested. So it is just the ever elusive Fish and I just need to be patient?? He is so sweet and so real that I don't want to call or even text again til I hear from him. Don't want to pressure him and say "what's up and why haven't I heard. I am sure he would swim up stream then but give me advice.

He said he doesn't want a relationship. He doesn't want one. It's not elusive or slippery. Very matter of fact.

Men do all kinds of nutty things to try to get women to sleep with them...

I'm also thinking, its possible that since you knew he arrived on Friday...why did you wait until Sunday to call? That is sending him a certain type of message, too.