Dating older man with daughter all in the bizzz!

I am dating an older man for 2yrs and his daughter is close to my age. You cant help who you fall in love with and I sincerely and truly know that we both love one another. Like all couples, we have problems, but the root of most of our problems always seems to be with his daughter. She is spoiled rotten with no respect for her dad and sometimes she finds a way to throw me in the mix. She has him rapped around her finger, I am very secure with myself, and I do know that blood is thicker, but it is creating such a problem. He stresses over her disrespect and now it is to the point that she is going out of her way to be rude and unkind to me. She was so kind in the beginning but now I discovered that it was apart of her plot to get what she wanted from her dad and as soon as she got what she needed the booty was given for me to kiss. However, I will never

avoid the bitch , if he is going to be around her then just avoid the whole get together I know easer said than done its worth working at. I have been down this road, I go with a woman who is 40 I am 63 her mother and father are dead aganist it, all her faimley are dead against it I just stay out of the action. If I have to be around them I don't interact.

Lady .. in-laws & steps have this sort of problem, no matter the age. In most cases, there will always be somebody within the family of the person to whom you love who will throw in a wrench ..

The age gap is irrelevant to this issue .. you just have to do what everybody else does, and like OJ said .. ignore/overlook, whatever it takes NOT to allow yourself to become involved and NOT allow it to interfere with your relationship.

Remove yourself .. if there is a family function, she is there giving you and him grief, then just leave quietly .. eventually, it will sink in to her and your boyfriend that you refuse to participate in the drama and it will not only stop, but, then a new perspective of you will be gained .. one of respect that's telling them, "I am above this".

Old Jake and P-Angel you could not have said it any better. I do know that you cannot please everyone; I wish it did not bother me but it does. This is all new to me I guess time will tell.