Do you think he is interested in me?

I asked a man for coffee he said yes before I'd even finished the sentence! We'd been flirting all night and talking about him being divorced and in a relationship two years ago and single now. He didn't ask me if I was single but I perhaps gave the impression I was. This was on a work Xmas do and he sat with me 80% of the night than with his team. Does it sound like he likes me? I would bring up the coffee when I see him but only want to if I'm sure he does like me?

Is this a serious question?

You asked him for coffee and he said yes

That usually means yes

I have doubts because some men like to lead women on or just like the attention. Would a man really say no to a woman's face for coffee if he wasn't interested?

wtf is the matter with women?

It's fucking coffee ... and now in your desperate mind you're equating it to him being into you?


Seriously ... all these problems females have is due to you being desperate. A guy only has to look at you, and you go running giddily, love stars in your eyes.

He only has to look at you .. that's it.

That's as high of standards you have .. a look in your direction.


::: shakes head :::

I seriously believe this new generation of stupid women is due to parenting.

When mothers were in the home, they actually taught their daughters how to be a woman ... now, these girls have to watch ones like Miley Cyrus to learn how to act.

And then of course, whatever the boys tell them girls are suppose to be like .....



::: shakes head :::



I'm so fucking glad I was born in the 50's when the females in the world were women.

Posted by Georgybell
I have doubts because some men like to lead women on or just like the attention. Would a man really say no to a woman's face for coffee if he wasn't interested?

Yes.

Quit being stupid about it. The guy is clearly interested if he's saying yes before you can get the question out. You're seriously overthinking something.

And if you're so paranoid about a man's intent, why are YOU asking him out for coffee to begin with?

Nvm, I've seen the other posts you've written.

You're kinda a lost cause because you allow yourself to fall victim to estrogen.

Get it together already. You're an adult, not a teenager.

You've made 8 threads in the past several days making this same big deal out of a cup of coffee.

you go on and on about being confused because you want to know how this man feels about you ... when you're not even dating him. he's just a guy who is going to have a cup of coffee with you.

Seriously ... how desperate are you, exactly?

Posted by Georgybell
I have doubts because some men like to lead women on or just like the attention. Would a man really say no to a woman's face for coffee if he wasn't interested?

georgybell if the guy said yes to coffee it means nothing more than yes. You are now thinking to hard and thinking for the both of you. So my question is what are your intentions? figure that out first before you get caught in a web of uncertainty, oh and be a challenge- be the flame not the moth.

Posted by P-Angel

You've made 8 threads in the past several days making this same big deal out of a cup of coffee.

you go on and on about being confused because you want to know how this man feels about you ... when you're not even dating him. he's just a guy who is going to have a cup of coffee with you.

Seriously ... how desperate are you, exactly?

p-angel, be gentle please. i can tell that this lady has been hurt many times, and wants someone to actually like her more than she likes them. I get it. the truth is she is looking for love, but love comes to those who are ready.

Posted by erd1983

Posted by Georgybell
I have doubts because some men like to lead women on or just like the attention. Would a man really say no to a woman's face for coffee if he wasn't interested?

georgybell if the guy said yes to coffee it means nothing more than yes. You are now thinking to hard and thinking for the both of you. So my question is what are your intentions? figure that out first before you get caught in a web of uncertainty, oh and be a challenge- be the flame not the moth.

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Waaaaay too late for that piece of advice.

She is not desperate..just wants to know if there is anything worth pursuing. Sounds like she likes him.

Why are women not allowed to "like" men anymore? We're supposed to play it cool all the time and all we are doing is confusing the hell out of them and then they confuse the hell out of us from reading our mixed signals. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Please enough already....

"This was on a work Xmas do"

What is a work Xmas do—?

Posted by Georgybell
I have doubts because some men like to lead women on or just like the attention. Would a man really say no to a woman's face for coffee if he wasn't interested?

Wtf. This man said yes! All he really has to go on at 1st is just your looks. If he agreed to go on a date, then that at least means you passed the test in the looks department

Now if you're wondering if he likes you beyond just looks? Probably not. And there's nothing wrong with that. He doesn't know you. And men go off of what they see vs. how women sometimes will automatically assume a man has traits that he may not even have just b/c he's attractive.

You seem very insecure. You're clearly still holding onto some guy(s) in the past who told you they liked/loved you but then just lead you on. If this has become a pattern in your love life, then perhaps the solution would be to slow down & take a break until you can squash those insecurities vs. making yourself & every future guy miserable by questioning his every move.