Does ANYONE know...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by ABCR2 on Wednesday, October 4, 2006 and has 7 replies.

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@ABCR2
21 YearsCancer

What the word "Love" means anymore? The word's been used and misunderstood more than the word "Pimp" in society. Some say it casually (jokingly if you will), some never said it before if at all. whadya' think?

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@tauruschic
20 Years1,000+ Posts

If I say I love you it is because I love you, you're special to me, you're important to me, you make me happy... IT IS NOT an indication as to what I'm willing to do for you.

^ That's where the misunderstanding lies. Just because I don't cater to you doesn't mean I don't love you... if you think that's what love is... I'm so sorry, you're screwed! Wake up and smell the shit! hahahahahaha

That was an example. In reality I smell pretty darn good 😛 I love my brother, I love my boyfriend with a different kind of intensity, I have random bouts of love and may love some bum on the street. It's love. It's a feeling. It's NOT a set of requirements.

Depending on the intensity of my feelings, I might be more willing to go to great lengths for someone but if I don't it doesn't change how I feel. Maybe I'm just a coward. Maybe love wasn't enough to propel me further.

Love doesn't make much difference really. If a guy is an ass, it really doesn't matter if he loves you or not. He'll hold on to you and maybe even cry if you leave... but he is who he is, love won't make him change hahahahah

My three cents 😛

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

I've learned that love is a word that can only be defined by the user. Everybody has their own definition of love, and it's different between each person that you love. For instance, I love my mother, but I love my girlfriend...two different types of love.

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@RainingPeanuts
19 Years500+ Posts

".................a-fricken-men sister. now i think i love YOU(lol btw). i wasn't a big fan of taurus chics before, but that statement just ratcheted you ladies up quite a bit.
in other words, i feel the same way"

Woohoo! A point for the bull ladies!
*smiles proudly* =D

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@BigD56
20 Years500+ PostsAquarius

Honestly, Mr. Nice...the one you choose is actually a reflection of what you truly believe in. Death is a part of life, and not allowing them or not wanting them to die is actually selfish...you may love them to the point where you want them to go to a better place, and set aside your feelings for the better well-being of your loved one. What I mean is, not even death can determine REAL love...