Having Sex vs. Making Love

What are your views/opinions/definitions?

Hey Houston - how you been?

haha - i think making love is a state of mind

i think making love is passionate slow sex- you dont need to be in love, but when its sex its the rough fiery sex.

they go hand in hand like teenage sex and death. one can't exist without the other.

whether I'll be leaving or staying

very well said, unusualcancer...

"i think making love is passionate slow sex- you dont need to be in love, but when its sex its the rough fiery sex."

Thats interresting. my girlfriend is a virgo and she is the only person I have been with that actually appreciates this. I feel the same way.

However 😉

I think the definition is going to vary from sign to sign. I can make love to any girl, and I can have sex with any girl. for me it is how I aproach it, the emotions I feel, and it is a lot of time that ability to make love is very self inflicted. For me it is about genuine passion stemming from an intillectual and senual connection.

I also veiw Love very simplistically and ideally. For example, my definition of love is:

A genuine appreciation for another person.

That is all, nothing more, nothing less. It is most pure when it is most simple and least thought of as a possesion.

Having sex: "When there isn't an spirital/emotional attachment envolved with the person, just an lustful urge to get a load off as quick as possible. And when you only see the person to be nothing more, but of "the pussy/dick of the night".This behavior is overly popular with 1 night stands and the relationship between fuck partners."

Making love:"When you love and admire that person inside out and see them to be more than "the fuck of the night", but of EVERY night and as a sex partner AND friend. And of course you are doing the same dance and thrust as if you were "Just having sex",yet you are emotionally/spiritually intuned w/ that person and there sexual moves, needs, and wants."

(BTW: those words came from MY partner....I just typed them.)

....But, yes,alot of people get those terms mixed w/ each other.

(BTW: that came from me!!!)

George Hamilton
in Love at first bite. when ask if he wanted to come in for a quicky.
Always a longy never a quicky.
what a woman wants is a sunday morning kind of love. Thats when you are still there after all the sex is over.