Don't you hate it when...

Don't you absolutely HATE it when the person you're dating and/or in a relationship with is always quick to jump the gun/start assuming the worst all b/c you didn't run to call them or pick up the phone?

Classic line that I hate: "Well I called you 5 minutes ago & you haven't answered yet OR called back yet so I take it that you're probably talking to another guy!"

Another annoying yet classic line: "If you don't want to talk to me or if you've got someone else, that's fine, but just tell me!" (Keep in mind, they say this all b/c you missed their call b/c you were in the shower!)

I hate it when people are quick to go jumping to conclusions all b/c they can't have every second of your time! I hate it when a man I'm dating throws a hissy fit all b/c I didn't answer my phone for once! It's quite insulting to me for someone to insinuate that when I'm not up their ass that I must be entertaining other men. It's like dude, if I wasn't interested in you, I'd tell you & move on! Give me more credit than that! Understand that I have a life OUTSIDE of you!

For all they know, I could've been busy, at work, in the shower, being there for another friend, sleeping, eating, taking a shxt lol, mowing the lawn, washing my hands (You'll be burying me instead of hanging out with me if I get electocuted!), talking to the neighbor, doing home/school work, painting my fingernails, talking to my boss, writing you guys on Dxp lol, or hell even taking a break from YOU!

UGH! I hate it when people expect for you to surround all of your free time around them! And if you don't, here they go jumping the gun & assuming that you're doing something wrong all b/c of the ONE damn time you didn't answer their phone or hang out with them!

What makes it worse is that the people who throw those kinds of hissy fits are the 1st ones who expect others to understand when THEY can't answer the phone or hang out. They can't handle it when others try to make them feel bad for having a life!

When people do that, it spells I-N-S-E-C-U-R-I-T-Y to me! Clingness, possessiveness, & inconsiderate also come to mind!

Don't you guys just hate that!

I think if someone jumps the gun like that they're picking up on other signals that contributed to their outburst. Not saying there were other legit signals...but I'm guessing they were already feeling insecure prior to you missing their call.

It bothers the hell out of me too. I read your thread on the Aqua board. For me it boils down to...either you trust me or you don't.

I hate it more when these people who ring you constantly 24/7 get annoyed when you dont answer your phone then when you finally find a moment to ring them back they dont answer out of spite!!

Yup! I've called people back within minutes and they don't answer!