Doubt

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by LunaLuna on Thursday, October 6, 2016 and has 3 replies.

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@LunaLuna
10 Years

When you act like you don't care/ want necessarily become friends with someone but, deep down, you actually want, are you being cautious or protecting yourself?

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@UrsaMediocre
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Why would anyone care about becoming friends with anyone, to the point in which they make a conscious decision of it? I thought friendships create themselves organically? I guess I could see it in the sense in which you befriend someone to get intel or hookups at their work or whatever superficial BS things people do, but I never consciously want to be friends with anyone. It just happens.

If you're speaking about becoming friends with someone after you've been in a relationship with them, then I personally don't care but it usually works out that way. I definitely wouldn't want to be friends with someone I'm still in love with though, because why would I want to get my heart broken again via watching that person hook up with another person after me?

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

See i have sun in mars, mercury, venus, and 11th house, Capricorn in the 7th so stability and friendship will happen right away with me. You always know where I stand all the time. Stick to the roots. I start from friends and build up to one day they be my lover or company through friendship.