ScorchedWater
@ScorchedWater
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Fantasizing about Ex
Posted by ScorchedWater
So, basically, I'll explain this quickly.
I have sexual fantasies about my ex. I don't like it. He was controlling and pretty sadistic (would always swear at me and call me a c*nt, sl*t, wh*re because I took too long to answer his texts, he'd get angry over everything, we'd be on the phone and I'd be crying and he'd say he smiles hearing me cry, etc.). However, he took my virginity and he's the only guy who has given me climactic pleasure (orgasms haha). When he broke up with me, I went out and I had sex with another guy, who was selfish in bed. Then, I told my ex about it, and we started talking again (somewhat back together but no longer official), and I told him I would quit talking to the other guy who was selfish, but I decided to keep selfish guy on the back burner because of the great chemistry and I was just really vulnerable and I wasn't thinking clearly.
Anyway, long story short, I got fed up with ex and so I ended things with ex. Then, he somehow got a transcript of my text messages and forwarded the transcript to my sister, and he accused me of having sex with a Danish friend of mine who liked me (but I did not have sex with the Danish friend).
Anyway, ex and I no longer speak to each other. But... I fantasize about him sexually, and although I don't miss him, when I'm alone feeling bored I miss being cuddled and wonder how he's doing.
I feel so mad at myself for feeling this way.
Thoughts?
I have a controlling sadistic ex with a similar vocabulary.
I fantasize about hitting him in the undercarriage with a baseball bat (don't worry he can't get it up anyway so it won't do any damage) then tieing him onto a table with his head in a vice (anyone seen 'Casino'?) and squeezing until his eyeballs pop out. Then driving him into the desert and leaving him in a hole to die.
Then posting the photos on his facebook page with a large warning:
THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS TO PISSANTS THAT HIT GIRLS
Then I will move on to his obsequious pissant friends who think he's a hero because he hits chicks.
Wow and only 18 years old, you getting the best of um. I experienced a person just like you describe after I left a 20 year relationship did I discover NPD. That is narcissistic personality disorder. Women who are vulnerable or in a codependent state of mind are easily targeted. These men don't really want a women who is sexually like they are, they want to convert and punish innocent women. It's a game to them and they are really unable to love which in the end I'm sure you now realize. Don't look back sweet heart. You can't save him but you can save yourself.
What I can tell you is what you think you like and what you really want are probably 2 different things. You also lost your virginity to this man. Double whammy! Your mind is going to play tricks on you for awhile. You probably don't even know what you like sexually. You experienced sexual abuse and then sex that didn't live up to that.
What I can tell you is what you think you like and what you really want are probably 2 different things. You also lost your virginity to this man. Double whammy! Your mind is going to play tricks on you for awhile. You probably don't even know what you like sexually. You experienced sexual abuse and then sex that didn't live up to that.
Posted by Nicrobliz
Reading your posts, and knowing your age, you're going to be one of those f***ed-up flakes that will piss a lot of decent men off because of your failure to come to terms with both yourself and your immature mistakes. And you also need a slap.
Sorry but someone's got to tell you the truth...
How am I not coming to terms with anything? I said I'm mad at myself for feeling this way, and the reason I told him about having sex with another guy is because I felt guilty and bad about it. It's one thing to judge me based on my posts, and another thing to judge me based on my age. (Also, (I've made two 'serious' posts that actually say something about my life, other posts are mainly laughing and joking around - and the other serious thread is very similar to this thread - you barely know a thing about me)) Saying I'm going to be a "fucked up flake" simply because I'm 18 is seriously wrong. Why? Well, what were you like when you were 18? Many people go through relationships and make mistakes, that's part of learning. I actually admit my mistakes and am not ashamed of my dark side so I'm open about sharing a story that led me to making said bad mistakes. It's the internet, I'm allowed to be honest.
A big problem of mine is that I tend to be attracted to "alpha" types (confident, macho). Sadly, guys who compliment all the time and are way too nice simply bother me. There isn't anything wrong with 'nice' but there is something wrong with not being assertive. Of course, this preference of mine may have been what lead me to the Ex and to the selfish guy, and sometimes an "alpha" personality comes with being a jerk, which I do not like. Oh, and by the way - MOST women don't like wimpy men. But NO woman deserves a slap. It's unfortunate that SOMETIMES 'alpha' goes hand in hand with 'jerk'.
I'm sorry you're one of those "decent men" who has been hurt by a woman who somewhat reminds you of me.
I'm aware of my flaws. I analyze myself every day, it's one of the only things I think about. I'm a little spoiled, I like danger a little too much, I can be too intense, I'm overly-sensitive.
However, I can actually be too hard on myself, so I decided to ask dxpnet, for a new persepctive. What I didn't realize is there are some people hiding behind their computer who think they know it all.
Anyway, thanks for the input. Maybe when I read this later I will apprec
(don't know why my message got cut off)
Anyway, thanks for the input. Maybe when I read this later I will appreciate your response. However, I've calmed down from the initial anger you sparked in me and you sound like a jackass no matter how many times I read what you wrote. You could've gotten your point across in a much more tactful way, and you wouldn't have gotten this response.
Anyway, thanks for the input. Maybe when I read this later I will appreciate your response. However, I've calmed down from the initial anger you sparked in me and you sound like a jackass no matter how many times I read what you wrote. You could've gotten your point across in a much more tactful way, and you wouldn't have gotten this response.
(Thank you, others who gave constructive advice! Xoxo)
My guy was not a macho/alpha type at all. In fact he was very discreet about his private life. He did not expose himself fully until after he felt safe in the relationship with me.
Look at your role models for one. Are there any men you look up too? Don't put a label on yourself already. You haven't even experienced anything meaningful. Deep down you know how this man treated you was wrong. You wouldn't be on here expressing yourself it this hasn't affected you.
Where will you go from here? A lot of young girls are ruined by stuff like this. Women are ruined by this. Nobody is making fun of you, it's the truth. I'm no where near your age and I thought it destroyed me. I thought WOW, there must be something terribly wrong with me to be in love with a man like this. What if I do this again? How will I ever love again? I couldn't feel shit and I'm a very loving person. The difference for me is I experienced the difference. I've had loving, meaningful realationship/sex with a man who loved me and knew how to please me. You have never had that and your not alone out there.
I hope for the best for you.
Look at your role models for one. Are there any men you look up too? Don't put a label on yourself already. You haven't even experienced anything meaningful. Deep down you know how this man treated you was wrong. You wouldn't be on here expressing yourself it this hasn't affected you.
Where will you go from here? A lot of young girls are ruined by stuff like this. Women are ruined by this. Nobody is making fun of you, it's the truth. I'm no where near your age and I thought it destroyed me. I thought WOW, there must be something terribly wrong with me to be in love with a man like this. What if I do this again? How will I ever love again? I couldn't feel shit and I'm a very loving person. The difference for me is I experienced the difference. I've had loving, meaningful realationship/sex with a man who loved me and knew how to please me. You have never had that and your not alone out there.
I hope for the best for you.
Crabby... I thought maybe I didn't like you much.
But now I — you.
Carry on.
But now I — you.
Carry on.
I also ♥ glamour. Yes, I do.
@Crabby, alright, I understand. I'm sorry I guess when harsh words are used I forget to take the advice and instead I let it get to my ego. also this is a sensitive subject for me. I shouldn't have gotten defensive. I just wish Nicrobliz said what he said in a less "attacking"/accusatory way. I already admit my mistakes. I didn't make this thread asking people to point out my mistakes or tell me where I went wrong, I made this thread because I want to know why I fantasize about my ex. also these aren't mistakes I really make anymore - I am not *always* attracted to these types of guys - but I suppose by asking for advice at all, anything goes and it is a free country after all, I should be prepared for all types of responses.
You say I sound like an alcoholic who doesn't do anything about their problem - I am not in contact with my ex, and I ignore the selfish guy who I had kept on the back burner. I'm literally ignoring people who try to start a romantic relationship with me right now, as I think friendship is what I need and I know I'm not ready for another relationship. I am aware and taking steps to not make those mistakes again. The first breakup was in early/mid December, the fling with the selfish guy was in late December, then I got back together with my ex in January, who then officially broke up with me again in April (we were together for a year and a half). Of course I've been thinking about my mistakes and wondering how I contributed to the terribleness of the relationship.
To clarify, my ex seemed very polite, loving, generous, and charismatic when he was pursuing me - I really thought he was a great guy (though I had an eerie gut feeling about him because he came on too strong) - but, it was hard for me to detach myself later on because feelings were already there. I don't get into these relationships knowing they are jerks. but I should've left right upon discovering their douche side, you're right.
Anyway, thank you all for giving your honest opinion. i suppose what i needed was a bit of tough "suck it up" type advice.
@Glamour thank you.
You say I sound like an alcoholic who doesn't do anything about their problem - I am not in contact with my ex, and I ignore the selfish guy who I had kept on the back burner. I'm literally ignoring people who try to start a romantic relationship with me right now, as I think friendship is what I need and I know I'm not ready for another relationship. I am aware and taking steps to not make those mistakes again. The first breakup was in early/mid December, the fling with the selfish guy was in late December, then I got back together with my ex in January, who then officially broke up with me again in April (we were together for a year and a half). Of course I've been thinking about my mistakes and wondering how I contributed to the terribleness of the relationship.
To clarify, my ex seemed very polite, loving, generous, and charismatic when he was pursuing me - I really thought he was a great guy (though I had an eerie gut feeling about him because he came on too strong) - but, it was hard for me to detach myself later on because feelings were already there. I don't get into these relationships knowing they are jerks. but I should've left right upon discovering their douche side, you're right.
Anyway, thank you all for giving your honest opinion. i suppose what i needed was a bit of tough "suck it up" type advice.
@Glamour thank you.
Its fine you just like how he fucked you like Crabby said get someone who fucks better. Also on the fucked up thing your young so youll grow. Have fun and fuck the world there are things like maturity that life will beat into you most likely telling you is pointless. Keep your head up or down. Ahem.
-Throws a Skittle at you-
-Throws a Skittle at you-
Posted by acrabbycrab12Posted by JynjaPosted by acrabbycrab12
Sometimes an "alpha" personality comes with being a jerk, which I do not like.
It's unfortunate that SOMETIMES 'alpha' goes hand in hand with 'jerk'.
NO IT DOESN'T. JERKS OR SCUM ARE WHAT THEY ARE.
Wow Crabby 😛
SW - I agree with this statement, though. Submission doesn't make you a slave, which is why I suggested giving yourself time to grow with patient and understanding men who treat you well traditionally. Then, finding a real "master" would be easier - don't give yourself away to power hungry asses. 🙂
Like RTN suggested: Smoke weed, make him a sandwich and don't talk so much.
I hate it that people think in order to be an "ALPHA MALE" they have to act like assholes and treat women like shit. The proof is right here as to what kind of females you attract with that attitude, just read her original post. she needs to as you said grow emotionally and mature mentally. Just because your body looks like an adults doesn't mean your mind is, scum will take any oppertunity to get some.click to expand
If the ex had treated me like shit early on I wouldn't have wanted him at all. There are some guys I know who treat girls like crap and that turns me off. However some people are master manipulators. I can explain why I was so vulnerable to it...
When I was 15, my ex, who's name is Andre, had tried to date me but I thought he was creepy.
When I was 17, I had just transferred to a new school (public school to private school). I was without my old friends, and I was trying to figure out what the hell private school kids are all about, I found a lot of the girls at private school to be very annoying. I didn't have many gal pals at my new school. I also got diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and I was confused by it haha.
Anyway he comes in and he says, "I can help you with your OCD" and he lists a bunch of things he knows about it and how he's taking a drug&gene delivery course in college (he was 20 when i was 17). then he says he's a competitive powerlifter and pianist. i was like WhoA ReaLLYY??!?!
it was just very appealing to me and I fell for it. cuz I was a STUPID 17 YEAR OLD GIRL.
Posted by ArticleL
Its fine you just like how he fucked you like Crabby said get someone who fucks better. Also on the fucked up thing your young so youll grow. Have fun and fuck the world there are things like maturity that life will beat into you most likely telling you is pointless. Keep your head up or down. Ahem.
-Throws a Skittle at you-
Mwahhhh *hug* 🙂
Posted by ScorchedWaterPosted by ArticleL
Its fine you just like how he fucked you like Crabby said get someone who fucks better. Also on the fucked up thing your young so youll grow. Have fun and fuck the world there are things like maturity that life will beat into you most likely telling you is pointless. Keep your head up or down. Ahem.
-Throws a Skittle at you-
Mwahhhh *hug* 🙂click to expand
-Hugs-
I think the best thing in life is just staying above water. Its cool to swim but emotions is a bitch to have sex with rarely.
^ Yip and self critisim is something she will probably gain maturity. Me think.
This post pretty much sums up what I've noticed is wrong with a lot of young women today - they all want rough sex but they want it for all the wrong reasons.
Posted by Nicrobliz
ScorchedWater,
I'm not trying to be an arsehole here - just being brutally honest and sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. You're 18 and you have SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH to learn about life. Unfortunately, 18 year-olds often think they know it all and often come unstuck later on. I'm in my 30s and I've experienced, seen and heard a lot of crap regarding relationships. One ex-boyfriend and a fling amounts to nothing, for most of us here.
Why did I say you needed a slap? Because you degraded yourself. Your ex-boyfriend never loved you - you're well aware of that. But still you allowed him to degrade, abuse, use, betray and humiliate you, and yet you're still yearning for more?! Where is your self-respect? The fact that you have failed to realise this alone means that you've hardly learnt anything at all and really need to do some serious soul searching.
I only hope, years from now, you'll appreciate what I'm trying to tell you.
Take care.
Well thanks. anyway I do believe I've learned a lot and I am definitely not "yearning for more" from him. If he were to ask me to sleep with him I would obviously reject him, but he has impacted my sexual preferences, and the way I relate to sex. When I think about what it feels like to cum during sex, I think about him - because he's the only man who has given me orgasmic pleasure through intercourse (sorry to be graphic haha). I can't make myself not think about these things. Simply fantasizing sexually does not demonstrate a lack of respect for myself. I am not ACTING on these desires. But, I get the point and somewhere deep down I'm glad you're being tough on me.
Of COURSE I have loads to learn, that's obvious. but me asking for advice in the first place is me saying, "I am ignorant, teach me something."... I am not even saying I know everything, or acting like a stupid kid who thinks they know everything. I am pretty much agreeing that I've been a fool with my ex and you're sort of being really harsh.
What were you like when you were 18? I'm sure you were like a lot of young men who only care about girls and sports. That's not BAD and I wouldn't judge you for that.
All I'm trying to say is, when it comes to love I am relatively normal for my age. I have a lot to learn. If I were 30 years old and acting like this, that would be a HUGE problem. But, I am 18. and I have a lot to learn. Does th
(continuing post)
Does that make me bad? Does that make me "stupid", as you say? It simply means I have a lot to learn, and it shouldn't anger you.
Does that make me bad? Does that make me "stupid", as you say? It simply means I have a lot to learn, and it shouldn't anger you.
Thank you Crabby, you're very helpful. Anyway I love drawing and writing poetry so I suppose I could get into that again, I've been drawing more lately. Lately I think I'm far TOO involved in my interests, hehe, I'm reading about psychology and science and medieval torture devices and existentialism all day. I should get off my laptop, I've been losing interest in some of my friends lately...
Well ive been inspired here goes.
When I was 18 I realized my dick worked it took a while but I actually figured out how to work it. I found out how to bend it scrub it and tough it out thru the tough times when its cold. I won't comment on the size let's just say it can be a hand warmer and a leg warmer at the same time. I also stuck it in the toaster once it doesn't like that. But I haven't got to the best part it shoots!!!! Now i'm used to guns and such but this one doesn't have to be reloaded just a quick piss and he's off shooting again. Ive stuck him everywhere pickle jars, mannoise pots, socks anywhere you could possibly think of. At the ending of my 18 year I finally lost my virginity.......
Part 1
When I was 18 I realized my dick worked it took a while but I actually figured out how to work it. I found out how to bend it scrub it and tough it out thru the tough times when its cold. I won't comment on the size let's just say it can be a hand warmer and a leg warmer at the same time. I also stuck it in the toaster once it doesn't like that. But I haven't got to the best part it shoots!!!! Now i'm used to guns and such but this one doesn't have to be reloaded just a quick piss and he's off shooting again. Ive stuck him everywhere pickle jars, mannoise pots, socks anywhere you could possibly think of. At the ending of my 18 year I finally lost my virginity.......
Part 1
Posted by Rockthenerds
Smoke some weed with him, fix him a sandwich and don't talk so much.
Dave Chappelle strikes again lmao!
Ahhh is my laptop messed up or is dxpnet messed up? Posting takes a very long time. Anyway I'm trying to post:
Nicrobliz, you certainly have a point. Jerks mess up nice girls who turn into bitches who then treat nice guys like crap, those nice guys turn into jerks. It's a cycle.
ArticleL, I enjoy hearing this story. Do tell more about your Third Leg. Can you spin it around like a helicopter?
Hahaha.
Nicrobliz, you certainly have a point. Jerks mess up nice girls who turn into bitches who then treat nice guys like crap, those nice guys turn into jerks. It's a cycle.
ArticleL, I enjoy hearing this story. Do tell more about your Third Leg. Can you spin it around like a helicopter?
Hahaha.
Posted by Nicrobliz
Reading your posts, and knowing your age, you're going to be one of those f***ed-up flakes that will piss a lot of decent men off because of your failure to come to terms with both yourself and your immature mistakes. And you also need a slap.
Sorry but someone's got to tell you the truth...
eureka!! i wasn't alone in reaching that conclusion at least 🙂
i suspect hyperbole.
*hugs scorchedearth really tight*
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1sPosted by Nicrobliz
Reading your posts, and knowing your age, you're going to be one of those f***ed-up flakes that will piss a lot of decent men off because of your failure to come to terms with both yourself and your immature mistakes. And you also need a slap.
Sorry but someone's got to tell you the truth...
eureka!! i wasn't alone in reaching that conclusion at least 🙂
i suspect hyperbole.click to expand
I really hope you're not saying you suspect hyperbole about the abuse. You don't know a quarter of the shit he did to me and how he traumatized me and my family.
-Eats a purple Skittle-
ScorchedEarth seems pretty rad so far. I ain't blocking her.
Posted by Crabmoon
Oh so just cause she had been through a lot it means that everybody should say Oh I'm so sorry you can recover you're strong blablabla...
Be realistic, people are just reacting to her actions...
Just check her other posts in this board, doesn't look like she's taking anything seriously here.
The fact that he was bad to you doesn't mean that you have to act like a cookmonster in the board and than expect people to be nice.
You just need to understand that you're not a kid anymore. Blame your attitude in your ex is not the right option, so is time to act like an adult don't you think?
I get very impressed in how some people just rely in their sun sign dark side to have excuses to their mistakes.
Just one thing if every time that you get frustrated with an ex you go open your legs to some guy you'll probably keep it open all the time.
Welcome to the real world. People are bad.
So you're saying how he hurt you and still having fantasies of how he treetrunked you? How can this be possible? So he was violent but it was good... So what's the point of all this crying thing?
I did not make this thread for sympathy. Note how I barely mentioned what my ex did, I just asked why I miss his sex. Big fucking deal. I've been kind and civil throughout this thread and you're calling me a bitch? And on top of that a slut, despite the fact that I've only slept with two guys and I'm only focusing on friendships right now? Cool. What did I say that was bitchy that wasn't a response to people attacking me?
Im confused.
I don't want my number of sexual partners to go up because I'm so young. Also there isn't a guarantee that the next guy will be good in bed. Haha. Anyway i don't ever want to go back to my ex. I'll just make sure the next guy really cares about me and maybe I won't care so much how he is in bed by then (am I shallow for wanting him to be skilled?) ... If the next guy turns to out be bad maybe I'll teach him via TEACHER STUDENT ROLEPLAY SCENARIO.
Posted by ScorchedWater
*hugs scorchedearth really tight*
Posted by ScorchedWater
ScorchedEarth seems pretty rad so far.click to expand
Lol why? Because she's telling you what you want to hear?
You're such a typical Scorpio, all your ego really needs is a bunch of YES-sayers.
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by ScorchedWater
*hugs scorchedearth really tight*
Posted by ScorchedWater
ScorchedEarth seems pretty rad so far.
Lol why? Because she's telling you what you want to hear?
You're such a typical Scorpio, all your ego really needs is a bunch of YES-sayers.
click to expand
Because she defended me when you people were all putting the blame on me. She offered a perspective that it is both man and woman's responsibility, because Nicrobliz was saying men react to how women treat THEM. but women also react to how men treat them. She's acknowledging that there's a cycle, which is a point I made earlier. FORGIVE me for being SO egotistical that I actually enjoy not being attacked. Read my posts throughout this thread. I'm defending myself and saying that I understand EVERY point that has been made because I can see every side of the argument. You're mad because some people don't agree with you. Dumb fuck.
As for this thread "screaming for attention" as some people are saying, this thread took on a life of its own. This thread could've been done and over with if people actually answered my question instead of yelling at me about my mistakes. Note how I'm barely even commenting in this thing anymore and people are saying I want attention, what the FUCK. I'm commenting because I'm ANGRY now you idiots.
This is seriously pissing me off. It hurts to get called a fucked up flake by Nicrobliz, it hurts that Crabmoon said she thinks I just want people to say, "Oh don't worry you're strong" etc. which I don't want. If I wanted attention I would've started swearing at people and starting fights for no reason. This thread is the symbolic embodiment of the issue at hand - EVERYBODY contributes to this thread continuing, it's everybody's fault. not just my fault. and both man and woman contribute to what goes wrong in the relationship.
My ex really impacted me - in every way. This is a really sensitive topic for me, sorry to sound like a cry baby, but so many people are being really insensitive. He messed me up - but you know what, he wouldn't have been able to mess me up if I wasn't already a little messed up to begin with.
(continuing post)
Let's look at your life story. Would you be proud of yourself if I read about it? Would I not find a single reason to judge you?
We all have things in life we're not proud of. I'm young, I can correct my mistakes. As for so many of you assholes, you'll have a much harder time correcting your mistakes.
Let's look at your life story. Would you be proud of yourself if I read about it? Would I not find a single reason to judge you?
We all have things in life we're not proud of. I'm young, I can correct my mistakes. As for so many of you assholes, you'll have a much harder time correcting your mistakes.
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1sPosted by Nicrobliz
Reading your posts, and knowing your age, you're going to be one of those f***ed-up flakes that will piss a lot of decent men off because of your failure to come to terms with both yourself and your immature mistakes. And you also need a slap.
Sorry but someone's got to tell you the truth...
eureka!! i wasn't alone in reaching that conclusion at least 🙂
i suspect hyperbole.click to expand
** nods **
Posted by P-AngelPosted by R1g0rM0rT1sPosted by Nicrobliz
Reading your posts, and knowing your age, you're going to be one of those f***ed-up flakes that will piss a lot of decent men off because of your failure to come to terms with both yourself and your immature mistakes. And you also need a slap.
Sorry but someone's got to tell you the truth...
eureka!! i wasn't alone in reaching that conclusion at least 🙂
i suspect hyperbole.
** nods **click to expand
Read. the. whole. thread. I can't believe some people are accusing me of exaggerating about the abuse. I barely even talked about the abuse. This is really a sensitive topic and it's simply offensive that you can make accusations. If you've at least read the whole thread then you're allowed to have an opinion on this issue.
Posted by Rockthenerds
Does anyone fantasize about cartoons?? how the hell did that one guy...or was it one or like a committee or some shit...that just happen to be a graphic designer fuckin animator mastermind or some shit and pervy as all hell. Said hey pron guy I got a great Idea, then porn guy goes oh yea whats that....cartoon guy says let me put my shit all over your shit ftw..
Ash Ketchum was hot.
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by ScorchedWaterPosted by Rockthenerds
Does anyone fantasize about cartoons?? how the hell did that one guy...or was it one or like a committee or some shit...that just happen to be a graphic designer fuckin animator mastermind or some shit and pervy as all hell. Said hey pron guy I got a great Idea, then porn guy goes oh yea whats that....cartoon guy says let me put my shit all over your shit ftw..
Ash Ketchum was hot.
Actually I always thought brock was supposed to be "the hot guy" like ash was supposed to find a way to use his skills rather than his looks to be able to fuck misty, but wasnt misty always trying to fuck brock....and you know brock was supposed to be the hot guy cause he was always indifferent like he got hit on all the time so he's like fuck it you dont know if im gay or not, either way Im hot and I run this bitch even though it's not my show...click to expand
But Brock was blind and Brock loves Nurse Jenny... and officer jenny.
Posted by ScorchedWater
I'm defending myself and saying that I understand EVERY point that has been made because I can see every side of the argument. You're mad because some people don't agree with you. Dumb fuck.
Getting a rise out of a Scorp chick always seems to turn me on. Now sit on my face and rotate!! 🙂
Anyway you are right. She is right, folks. Some of you are very harsh. She's what, 18 years old and some of you are twice her age, spitting all over her and for what? Because - worst case scenario - she wants attention? Wow.... I wonder, if your attention-seeking teenage daughter came to you with this material, would you put her down too because hey, clearly she is just an abused attention ho? :-/
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by ScorchedWater
I'm defending myself and saying that I understand EVERY point that has been made because I can see every side of the argument. You're mad because some people don't agree with you. Dumb fuck.
Getting a rise out of a Scorp chick always seems to turn me on. Now sit on my face and rotate!! 🙂
Anyway you are right. She is right, folks. Some of you are very harsh. She's what, 18 years old and some of you are twice her age, spitting all over her and for what? Because - worst case scenario - she wants attention? Wow.... I wonder, if your attention-seeking teenage daughter came to you with this material, would you put her down too because hey, clearly she is just an abused attention ho? :-/
click to expand
Thank you. I'm not looking for attention at all but I get the point you're trying to make.
Anyway I see there's another conversation going on in this thread about alien sex and blue people. I think it's fair to say it's no longer necessary to discuss the original topic of the thread, which I'm glad about as it's exhausting to talk about. It's been great chatting with you guys, I know we've all gotten a bit angry, but the conversation was stimulating. Good arguments can be great for the mind. We may not all agree but that's okay. The anger you inspired in me was quite therapeutic and I needed that tough love. It helped further open my mind to seeing all sides of the issue.
Xo.
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So, basically, I'll explain this quickly.
I have sexual fantasies about my ex. I don't like it. He was controlling and pretty sadistic (would always swear at me and call me a c*nt, sl*t, wh*re because I took too long to answer his texts, he'd get angry over everything, we'd be on the phone and I'd be crying and he'd say he smiles hearing me cry, etc.). However, he took my virginity and he's the only guy who has given me climactic pleasure (orgasms haha). When he broke up with me, I went out and I had sex with another guy, who was selfish in bed. Then, I told my ex about it, and we started talking again (somewhat back together but no longer official), and I told him I would quit talking to the other guy who was selfish, but I decided to keep selfish guy on the back burner because of the great chemistry and I was just really vulnerable and I wasn't thinking clearly.
Anyway, long story short, I got fed up with ex and so I ended things with ex. Then, he somehow got a transcript of my text messages and forwarded the transcript to my sister, and he accused me of having sex with a Danish friend of mine who liked me (but I did not have sex with the Danish friend).
Anyway, ex and I no longer speak to each other. But... I fantasize about him sexually, and although I don't miss him, when I'm alone feeling bored I miss being cuddled and wonder how he's doing.
I feel so mad at myself for feeling this way.
Thoughts?