Harsh reality: Women DESIGNED to get attached!!

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It sucks being female. Aside from periods, pregnancy, social stigma and not orgasming as easily, women are biologically designed to get biologically attached to men, when vice versa is not true.

http://doctorlisalove.wordpress.com/2011/01/22/brain-research-into-the-healthy-unhealthy-impacts-of-sex-on-women-men/<BR>
And guys wonder why women are so conservative about sex.

If there is a god, it must truly despise women.

It sets up the worst imbalance: men get to play the field, but women have to find and compete over the LTR guys, because they CAN'T truly do NSA sex.

Basically, it guarantees that a high portion of women are broken hearted and damaged, which PUAs exploit to bed them, so that the guys have fun at their expense.

I'm in a serious relationship, but sometimes, I wish I were a man. I've never had my heart broken (yet), but that's because I don't even try to do the FWBs thing. And I ONLY have sex with guys I'm in a relationship with, AND I hold off for a while, to make sure they're attached before *I* get myself attached.

It sucks to live like this. As a Uranian-dominant person, I'd LOVE to do whatever (or shall I say, whomever) I please. But I'm not risking getting attached.

I think being born female is the result of bad karma from a past life.
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i love being a women. thick thighs, ass, tits. wiggle when i walk. perfume, pink pillows, gartners, fishnets, lipstick, flowers, making deep, deep love to man. tight skirts, high heels, seduction, love, fertility, sex, make-up, red lipstick, long nails, scented candles and bubble baths. being a woman = being a goddess. Bring it on. Own it. 🙂



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i love being a women. thick thighs, ass, tits. wiggle when i walk. perfume, pink pillows, gartners, fishnets, lipstick, flowers, making deep, deep love to man. tight skirts, high heels, seduction, love, fertility, sex, make-up, red lipstick, long nails, scented candles and bubble baths. being a woman = being a goddess. Bring it on. Own it. 🙂



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meh I hate all those things. You can't truly run, jump, and climb in all that getup. So restrictive, expensive and laborious. I hate fertility, because it ruins sex - means contraceptives are necessary to avoid getting infected with babies. Either condoms that men hate oh so much, copper IUDs that make periods HELL, or hormonal methods that simply fuck with the body, and cause weight gain (making women less sexually desirable), or killing their libido = defeats the fucking purpose.

I just want to bust a nut in someone and run...in low-maintenance tennis shoes.

As for "deep love", I hate that more than anything. Why should women have to be the ones who get attached.
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It's hard being a man too. But for a man to express such... well, we all know how that goes.

I have had young men in my life, my brothers, my son, literally express how scared they are of becoming a man. They have said it outright. I hugged my son and told him it's gonna be okay. I told my brothers it can't be avoided and that any attempts at avoiding manhood would make matters worse.

Have you considered how this topic plays out for bi-sexual and lesbian woman? Man or no man - attachment, heartbreak happens.

As sugararies stated, I cum fine, don't get attached easily... and I'll add, I rarely menstrate, I have enjoyed contraceptives of all kinds without any problems. I love being pregnant. It's so beautiful. Having a baby is better than Christmas.

I imagine if I had complaints, I would probably get a hysterectomy, breast removal, and maybe even a sex change if I was angry about it all - THE HORRROR!

I imagine a prostate examine as the most intrusive health examine there is. I'm glad I don't have a prostate. I'm glad I'm not a man.
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Idk, I get very attached when in the relationship but when I do let go, the guys I were with are the ones calling me a year, 2 years, 3 years later by which time I've really *gone*/moved on/*am done completely*. So it seems like plenty of them aren't merely designed to spread their seed.

And yes being a woman isn't so bad, as I fully exercise my right to be a tom boy (I don't even own a skirt/dress or heels) and I'm all about comfort in terms of dress. Periods and labor are the main disadvantages I suppose, but at least we have our reproductive organs all tucked up inside and protected, not dangling around the place vulnerably. Boobs are great too.



Heh...I'm 5'7 and 98 pounds...no bewbies here. But I'm actually happy with that...I don't want to be weighed down in any way.
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Do you really think that sex is what is attaching women to men? How about all the rest of the cases that a woman is emotionally attached to a man that she never slept with and she is broken hearted? She might even be obsessed with the guy!

And how about those guys that they had the best sex they ever could and they get obsessed over that girl? Usually they call that girl "bitch" and she is one of those women that give us a bad name between guys? You must have known lots of cases because I do! I know a couple.. well hmmm most of my male friends have met at least one or have had a friend that got attached after amazing sex.

So same thing right?



Good point.
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i love being a women. thick thighs, ass, tits. wiggle when i walk. perfume, pink pillows, gartners, fishnets, lipstick, flowers, making deep, deep love to man. tight skirts, high heels, seduction, love, fertility, sex, make-up, red lipstick, long nails, scented candles and bubble baths. being a woman = being a goddess. Bring it on. Own it. 🙂



Owwwwwwwwww!!!
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o can we add pedicures to the list marilyn?? something about painted toes on a nice paid of feet.



hell yes dmv! lets do this! i am a girl g.i.r.l pedicures with champagne glass in hand. yep.
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Let's not forget about a great bag & all of the assessories to match. Scarves, belts, bracelets, necklaces, jewelry period. Sunglasses, Putting your hair up in a messy bun...*priceless*. 🙂
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That isn't true. It is impossible to pin point sexuality down like that. I really hate when people do that.


"..We do not even in the least know the final cause of sexuality. The whole subjects is hidden in darkness " - charles darwin



There has been some research done since his time.
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You can't put sexuality in a box. I don't care how many sexist articles you read. It is impossible people are cookie cut.
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and you know a lot of scientists that you claim have done " research " are agenda driven right? Oh wait you probably believe everything you read.



And individuals don't?
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Nope because individuals is what we need more of on this planet. Instead of masses of people buying into complete bullshit for a societies sexist agenda.
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i love being a women. thick thighs, ass, tits. wiggle when i walk. perfume, pink pillows, gartners, fishnets, lipstick, flowers, making deep, deep love to man. tight skirts, high heels, seduction, love, fertility, sex, make-up, red lipstick, long nails, scented candles and bubble baths. being a woman = being a goddess. Bring it on. Own it. 🙂



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and you know a lot of scientists that you claim have done " research " are agenda driven right? Oh wait you probably believe everything you read.



And individuals don't?



Nope because individuals is what we need more of on this planet. Instead of masses of people buying into complete bullshit for a societies sexist agenda.
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Are you delusional? I'm not saying that every woman WILL get attached to every guy she sleeps with. Just that she's biologically more vulnerable to it.

Tell me you don't notice that it's always women crying about being left. The few token chicks who (think/claim they) never get attached are of course going to loudly proclaim that. Women who do, will likely feel no need to say anything more.

It should really be common sense, tbh. Research the hormone, how it's produced, which gender generally produces more, and its effects. Draw your own conclusions. It's not soft science. There's a physiological basis. And not being completely oblivious is a simple way to confirm that.

But deny that if you want to be politically correct. I understand that it's the "in" attitude nowadays, so I can't blame you.
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I have researched it and the only shit that is fucking conclusive in your argument is that it is in both genders.



But estrogen, which generally outweighs testosterone in females, amplifies the effects. Testosterone, more plentiful in men, mutes the effects.

I'll cite the sources later...but god damn. Try some serotonin or something. You sound needlessly angry. lol
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Testosterone gets elevated by both sexes when they are fucking. And the " plentifulness " is as little as two times to twentie times as much.

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Every time I get my period I know I been cursed and there is no GOD unless he is GOD of extreme pain...I totally don't get how Women are stuck with having to do everything and be everything to everyone...but I guess because we can do it. Maybe it's our strength and their weakness..

IDK...



Well that ^^ what you say here shows why you feel the way you do.

First of all... when you have your period and you feel pain you should go and get a PAINKILLER. Ok? Try to take it slightly before the pain starts so you won't feel a thing!

Women are not stuck doing everything and be everything to everyone. You don't live in the 50s. You are in 2013!!!

You can get outside and work and make a living.
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I have cramps that even 600 mg of ib profen cant fix. It feels like I give birth every month, and Ive never had a kid
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Pfft stop being such cry-babies. Periods? A few days in a month and it's over. Pregnancy? Who the hell is forcing you to have a baby? Make-up? Don't feel like wearing it, than don't. Bras? No one's forcing you to wear a bra. Not orgasming as easily? Haha, what?

You wanna be a player with no worries other than banging hot guys? You can be. Find a sexy guy (if he was dumped recently and feels like crap it's even better), charm him with class and style , not with layers and layers of make-up that hide your true face and mini skirts. Make him think that he's amazing, special, sexy, and he'll be full of himself. Eventually have sex with him if you want, just don't be drunk and stupid and end up with a baby. Never take him to your place, go to his, than pick up your shit in the morning, never see him again, just leave a note with a 😉 written on it. Show him the time of his life for a while, make him feel like a man, than just disappear. You can be just as much of a "player" without being a slut. Seduction. It's the easiest thing in the world for a woman. Love on the other hand is a game a bit harder to play, but it pays off so much more. And getting attached is a choice that you don't have to make. It's all in the brain. Every time that I've been in love, it was a choice. Attachment is just as much of a choice.



FINALLY COMMON SENSE. NICE!