@dev2491
13 Years
So confused ...need helppp!!!!!!
.... i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back ...
And here you are discussing it, like he is deserving of you.
::: shakes head :::
People are so fucked up, and they don't even know it, for certainly you have no idea what you do by giving thought-energy to an ex of 2 years.
.... i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back ...
And here you are discussing it, like he is deserving of you.
::: shakes head :::
People are so fucked up, and they don't even know it, for certainly you have no idea what you do by giving thought-energy to an ex of 2 years.
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Where i agree with your point its probably lost to her with your repeated sledgehammer strikes to her head.
The friends belong to your ex, they were on loan but once the relationship ends everything ends and if the friends remain in your life for some odd reason they won't go away b/c you're just that great well keep your business to yourself, don't bring up your boyfriend and if asked if you're dating anyone it's okay to say your keeping your options open and you'll do fine but at this point just move on, it's understandable that you'd get on with your life without them.
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hey all,i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back...while dating him,i got really close to few of his friends to whom im even close now....i really like spending time wit them(they are really grt people to be with) though i dont meet my ex ever often...the few times we tried to "remain friends" after break up was really a BIG MESSS....so i just faught with him so badly so that we will never catch up at all...i feel very peaceful infact..i know i do miss him but it felt right to let go of him cos ,we started hurting eachother while being friends after break-up..NOW im afraid if i have to still continue my friendship with his friends...cos im in a new relationship and it all feels good...obviously i dont want my ex to know...not only abt my new relationship but anything about me at all...am i being paranoid—should i have to take a Chill-pill cos even if he knws..what can he do??its my choice of life...plese help me..should i have to cut all contacts related to him—?
are you afraid of him? the ex that is
Posted by dev2491
hey all,i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back...while dating him,i got really close to few of his friends to whom im even close now....i really like spending time wit them(they are really grt people to be with) though i dont meet my ex ever often...the few times we tried to "remain friends" after break up was really a BIG MESSS....so i just faught with him so badly so that we will never catch up at all...i feel very peaceful infact..i know i do miss him but it felt right to let go of him cos ,we started hurting eachother while being friends after break-up..NOW im afraid if i have to still continue my friendship with his friends...cos im in a new relationship and it all feels good...obviously i dont want my ex to know...not only abt my new relationship but anything about me at all...am i being paranoid—should i have to take a Chill-pill cos even if he knws..what can he do??its my choice of life...plese help me..should i have to cut all contacts related to him—?
are you afraid of him? the ex that is
or, you could have a talk with the mutual friends, stating that you still want to be friends with them, but you don't want your business spread to your ex. i did this with some mutual friends of an ex, and well, some were true friends in the matter... and some were not. the ones that were not went on their seperate ways. the ones that were, i'm still friends with today. AND they still respect my wishes. :]
Posted by dev2491
hey all,i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back...while dating him,i got really close to few of his friends to whom im even close now....i really like spending time wit them(they are really grt people to be with) though i dont meet my ex ever often...the few times we tried to "remain friends" after break up was really a BIG MESSS....so i just faught with him so badly so that we will never catch up at all...i feel very peaceful infact..i know i do miss him but it felt right to let go of him cos ,we started hurting eachother while being friends after break-up..NOW im afraid if i have to still continue my friendship with his friends...cos im in a new relationship and it all feels good...obviously i dont want my ex to know...not only abt my new relationship but anything about me at all...am i being paranoid—should i have to take a Chill-pill cos even if he knws..what can he do??its my choice of life...plese help me..should i have to cut all contacts related to him—?are you afraid of him? the ex that is
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i was wondering this, too....
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hey all,i broke up with my ex like 2 yrs back...while dating him,i got really close to few of his friends to whom im even close now....i really like spending time wit them(they are really grt people to be with) though i dont meet my ex ever often...the few times we tried to "remain friends" after break up was really a BIG MESSS....so i just faught with him so badly so that we will never catch up at all...i feel very peaceful infact..i know i do miss him but it felt right to let go of him cos ,we started hurting eachother while being friends after break-up..NOW im afraid if i have to still continue my friendship with his friends...cos im in a new relationship and it all feels good...obviously i dont want my ex to know...not only abt my new relationship but anything about me at all...am i being paranoid—should i have to take a Chill-pill cos even if he knws..what can he do??its my choice of life...plese help me..should i have to cut all contacts related to him—?