Wondering....

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by His4lyfe10 on Thursday, January 24, 2013 and has 7 replies.

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@His4lyfe10
14 YearsSagittarius

Ok so me and a friend were talking to one another about our relationships and we started talking about our men and their "BOYS" my friend asked me how long is too long for a man to talk to another man on the phone? Is 2 hrs too much? In my opinion I think so but that's just me, what do you guys think—

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@His4lyfe10
14 YearsSagittarius

They are best friends, they speak on a daily basis! he speaks more to his boy then his girl!!! like for instance he only talked to her for 20 mins yesterday and his boy for 2 hours today....

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@His4lyfe10
14 YearsSagittarius

lol I too was thinking the same thing! if you speak for 30 mins or more daily, what could you possibly have left to talk about for 2 hours? makes no sense in my mind lol I can understand a man and woman but two men not so much esp. if they speak daily!

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@His4lyfe10
14 YearsSagittarius

I've heard that before but the girls I've been around and me myself are nothing like that, I too don't live with my boyfriend but I would love to be around him daily if not talk to him often, idk how they are though he might just be that kind of guy

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

The norm for boys here - boyfriend calling best mate, usually every couple of months/3 months late night drunken phone calls lasting between half an hour to two hours.

Best mates/guys living same area or working together daily calls lasting 5-10minutes arranging pub meets etc.or weekend parties.
That's it that's all.
If they are on the phone more than they interact to your face there is something wrong lol...

I noticed my boyf likes to whinge about any fights or disagreements we are having when he calls his besty in London. Usually drunk, and I know he trusts and misses his mate so I really don't mind.

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@jessgoogoo
13 YearsLibra

Depends on the guy, I`m a girl with alot of guy friends, some like to talk and some not so much...There is no such thing as weird communication, I don`t see many friends that much, so we keep in contact through talking on the phone or skyping...and we keep each other updated about whats new in our lives...Recently I havent seen one of my good guy friends in months and i would skype with him about whats going on in his life and about his fiancee being pregnant...We made plans for when he was around in town to hang out, which he came down a few months later and thats what we did, was hang out and hit the bars...I can talk to him about anything, and no his not gay...If his comfortable with his friend he will discuss things he wont tell his gf/bf..