liked someone so much or so quickly that it scared you? Did you back off at all? Were you scared of getting hurt? What happened or what did you do about it?
has anyone ever...

Because of physical attraction or just comfort level?

"liked someone so much or so quickly that it scared you? Did you back off at all? Were you scared of getting hurt? What happened or what did you do about it?"
A day in the life of a gemini...
What i had to do is learn some self control. If i got into someone like that, i talk my mind out of it, slowing down the process. If it's worth more than that, our relationship will prevail. Its easy getting caught up in what we create in our minds, and sometimes too late, damage is done.
I still played risky, going for relationships (whimsical) off quick meet's and stuff but most didn't work because there was no foundation to build on. Just instinctual or lustful desires.
I was quickly into my bull, but it took a couple of years before i even laid my eyes on him. Wasn't the right time or place for more, had to wait and just build a friendship. The rewards been great!
A day in the life of a gemini...
What i had to do is learn some self control. If i got into someone like that, i talk my mind out of it, slowing down the process. If it's worth more than that, our relationship will prevail. Its easy getting caught up in what we create in our minds, and sometimes too late, damage is done.
I still played risky, going for relationships (whimsical) off quick meet's and stuff but most didn't work because there was no foundation to build on. Just instinctual or lustful desires.
I was quickly into my bull, but it took a couple of years before i even laid my eyes on him. Wasn't the right time or place for more, had to wait and just build a friendship. The rewards been great!

Oh yeah...When I 1st met my first love, our attraction was almost TOO instant, so much so that I almost questioned my own heart. After all, they always tell us ladies to follow our hearts & to use our intuition. But things can become complicated when our hearts (and not so much our heads) are the ones telling us to leap forward into something. Sometimes emotions can take over. And depending on why you're so particularly attracted to the other person could be a factor in why things move so fast too. For example, if at that time in your life you're more emotionally needy than normal b/c of outside circumstances or b/c of a recent heartbreak, that could play a big role in WHY someone would fall for someone so easily. It all depends on what inside of a person is telling them to move so fast & what inside is giving them such reassurance, so much so that they almost don't recognize themselves when they look in the mirror. Me, as an Aquarius, don't really fall for people that easily. Even if I really like someone alot, I can control my emotions in a way that no matter what they do/don't do, I'll make it so that I will only allow myself to fall a certain amount over heels. Imagine, when I met my 1st love (Libra) & caught myself wanting to say "I love you" after 2 weeks. I was blown away & almost didn't recognize myself! It's a pretty scary feeling. Makes you wonder if your heart is pushing you so quickly towards that person b/c they are just THAT all that or if it all stems from some sort of issue or emotional turmoil? Hmmm, interesting...

Yeah it happens alot in the irl. Have fun and take cautious steps.

lildol! 😭 why you bringin back memorieeees


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