I have been dating with this man for more than a year. I love him and I believe he loves me too. The reason why I lost confidence is it is getting worth with communications when we are not together. We used to talk by Skype, FaceTime. Now only by text. Mostly everyday. When I told him he simply said he doesn't like telephone talk. He is 35 and I am 45. We live one hour and half away from each other. I am a single mum so I can only spend time with him every other weekend and the most of time he comes here and stay for 2-3 days. He introduce me to his work college or sports club people I am his gf and went to see his match. He talked to his friends that he now got a son which he always tells me he doesn't like kids. He say sometime we have to make things together in the future but at the same time he told me he can't see a future. He still lives with his ex gf/ flat mate. They dated 9 years ago for only three months and after that they became a friends. They both said they can't see each other as different sex. I met this lady too. The unfortunate thing is she had two years BF who she was going to live with but two months ago they broke up. She was so lonely so she got a kitten and this kitten now got so used to with my BF. She is now planning to buy a house for kitten and rabbit and my BF still planning to rent from her. It is cheap and she is clean so that is why he said he will stay there but I feel this is not right. I just went to see my BF's sports tournament but it was late so he wanted me to stay there but his flat mate said no because she got ocd problem and if I am coming she needs to clean up but she is tired. Anyway I want him to move out but he doesn't earn enough money. He is now so into this sports he plays three times a week so I don't see him that often. I am a busy person too but bit lonely but I love him so much.....
