how to be single?

I know this sounds really lame...but i havn't been single in like 4 years and i'm pretty heartbroken at that about my breakup...does anyone have any suggestions on 1 getting over a breakup and 2 learning how to be single again?

try to get comfortable doing things on your own. you can start small like going to museums or movies. a lot of people do that by themselves. that way you won't feel alone.

yea...i've been doing things on my own lately things that i enjoy..for some reason it's just made me feel worse and makes the days go longer no matter how i try to fill them.


this sucks. i'm trying to feel better but it just doenst' seem to be working no matter how hard i try.

Not sure how newly single you are. When I am fresh out of a mini-relationship I use that time to rediscover me. I take off my relationship suit and put on the clothes that I want to wear. This is all figuratively speaking of course. When I am in a relationship, I am trying to be one with that person. I usually find myself not being the me I am more use to being. Like I said I have mini-relationships (6-9mos).

I can imagine that in 4yrs you've lost your old self and became a new person (mate-oriented). Take this opportunity to rediscover you by learning ALL about you and discovering who you've been suppressing for 4yrs. From head to toe, inside to out just MAKE YOURSELF OVER GIRL!!!! 🙂