so if you haven't read any of my other posts I really like a guy who is probably gay and he's moving to Boston. we worked together so I knew him from work but we've only known each other for maybe 6 months and it was awkward because he read my blog and knew I was talking about him so our friendship never was able to really grow. since then he quite because he's moving and I let him know I just want to be friends to take the preshure off of leading me on. so my question is how do I better are friendship when he's away at Boston? all I know is I need to do it gradualy. I can talk to him on my space, and I have his phone number because our work, but we've never called each other and I've given him every opertunatly to call me I would call him but I don't feel right about giving him a call since he didn't actually give me his number. I know I'm going all over with this but what I need to know is how to grow this small friendship. I'm so worried about the whole give an inch take a mile thing.... he said we can be friends but I don't want to sudenly start acing like his best friend. what should I do now? umm... have any advice? I wish I could elaberate on this more but how do I become better friends with out seeming like a stalker or a wierdo?
