I either look at porn, or look at you.

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Posted by SalamanderCandy
Personally, I find this phrase super manipulative. And if someone says that to me, it's like they are assuming that I think looking at porn is a bad thing. So I'll send them my body instead via interwebz instead? Wtf.

Thinking about this phrase is pissing me off. O:??_

This is happening to a lot of people, so I made it a topic.



It is super manipulative.

But in a way, they're doing you a favor by telling

you up front about their porn addiction.




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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by SalamanderCandy
Personally, I find this phrase super manipulative. And if someone says that to me, it's like they are assuming that I think looking at porn is a bad thing. So I'll send them my body instead via interwebz instead? Wtf.

Thinking about this phrase is pissing me off. O:??_

This is happening to a lot of people, so I made it a topic.



It is super manipulative.

But in a way, they're doing you a favor by telling

you up front about their porn addiction.




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Idc what they do for pleasure. Or more like..I don't judge. But at least they would be showing me up front their intentions (if the context of the phrase is serious that is, and not a joke). You're right xD there's a good side.
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Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by SalamanderCandy
What do you think of this phrase? It is used to convince people (mostly girls) to send their naked pictures.
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I'd tell him porn is perfectly natural. Enjoy yourself. LOL. I don't send nudes. Not ever. Not even to a boyfriend. If you want to see me naked, it will be in person. Hopefully you have a photographic memory.
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Posted by PVandJellay
Posted by SalamanderCandy
What do you think of this phrase? It is used to convince people (mostly girls) to send their naked pictures.



I'd tell him porn is perfectly natural. Enjoy yourself. LOL. I don't send nudes. Not ever. Not even to a boyfriend. If you want to see me naked, it will be in person. Hopefully you have a photographic memory.
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That's exactly my opinion too (:
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And if he is going to look at porn I only wish he is honest with me about it and strives to change it.

PMO can have devastating effects despite contrary belief.



It can have devastating effects but it's down to the individual. Not every man (or woman) can cope with porn and it's down to them to know their limits.

The whole sales pitch that PMO affects everyone is a just a money making WSO on the internet, an easy sell.
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OMG

What does PMO and WSO mean?

And while I'm at in... in another thread, I asked

what QFT meant.


*so out of the loop*
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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by tiziani
Posted by beautifuldiaster
And if he is going to look at porn I only wish he is honest with me about it and strives to change it.

PMO can have devastating effects despite contrary belief.



It can have devastating effects but it's down to the individual. Not every man (or woman) can cope with porn and it's down to them to know their limits.

The whole sales pitch that PMO affects everyone is a just a money making WSO on the internet, an easy sell.



OMG

What does PMO and WSO mean?

And while I'm at in... in another thread, I asked

what QFT meant.


*so out of the loop*



Lol PMO is porn addiction. I just looked it up and it's Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm I think?

Anyway it's generally when men get addicted to the "death grip" of making themselves reach, then can no longer reach (or get it up) having sex with a woman.


WSO is not a term I'd expect anyone to know outside of internet marketing circles 🙂 But sufficed to say the same marketers who sell porn got very rich selling the "porn anti-dote". It was the logical thing to do.
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Ahh... got it.

Thank you, tizi. 🙂
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Posted by beautifuldiaster
And if he is going to look at porn I only wish he is honest with me about it and strives to change it.

PMO can have devastating effects despite contrary belief.



Yup.

Like the (typically younger, but we're all at risk) women

who think they should look like the Photoshop-altered

models on magazine covers... lol

Life rarely looks anything like that.



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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by tiziani
Posted by beautifuldiaster
And if he is going to look at porn I only wish he is honest with me about it and strives to change it.

PMO can have devastating effects despite contrary belief.



It can have devastating effects but it's down to the individual. Not every man (or woman) can cope with porn and it's down to them to know their limits.

The whole sales pitch that PMO affects everyone is a just a money making WSO on the internet, an easy sell.



OMG

What does PMO and WSO mean?

And while I'm at in... in another thread, I asked

what QFT meant.


*so out of the loop*



lol poor Montgomery. I don't know PMO or WSO either but QFT is "Quoted for truth"
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Thanks 😄
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Posted by Montgomery
Posted by beautifuldiaster
And if he is going to look at porn I only wish he is honest with me about it and strives to change it.

PMO can have devastating effects despite contrary belief.



Yup.

Like the (typically younger, but we're all at risk) women

who think they should look like the Photoshop-altered

models on magazine covers... lol

Life rarely looks anything like that.





🙂 If only porn was depicted more realistically - men would be disgusted with it - hahaha.

By the way, did you change your cat avatar?

Those cats eyes are like piercingly sweet! "Aweeeeeee" lol
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Truth.

And I did, but it's been a few weeks I think now.


😕


Either way, thanks!
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LOL @ "porn is perfectly natural." BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA! That is an oxymoron if there ever was one!



LOL! I've never seen what the big deal is about porn, as long as it doesn't become an addiction to the point it replaces regular sexual activity. I mean it's not like he's gonna actually have a shot at Jenna Jameson or whoever the porn star is. If you wants to fap to some women you'll never get to touch, knock yourself out. Shit, sometimes I want to fantasize and fap to a different face too, and do. Just can't tell men you're doing that...sensitive egos.



You can have a shot at most pornstars nowadays.

Most of them escort locally.
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I am intrigued you know this. xD