Do attractive people have an advantage over others

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 on Sunday, January 4, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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Posted by Arielle83
I've read the opposite. Office gossip, jealousy, beautiful ppl can't have brains, a gorgeous woman isn't approached as much because men are intimidated, muscly men seem arrogant....etc.

It's all stereotypes. Ppl fail to see the real ppl.

yeh, that's kind of what I thought too...

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most would say "yes!!!"

but honestly, not really.

my aunts, grandmas and my mother have told me plenty of times, through their aging years --- through their wisdom and knowing girls at their high schools, middle school, college and beyond, that even the most attractive, gorgeous looking woman can't get or keep a man.

weird how that is.

you'd think so, but we've seen the big, overly overweight ladies who aren't considered pretty get lots of men chasing them.

but then people will say, "look at honey boo boo has a boyfriend and you don't" kind of saying.

it's all perspective i guess.

if you're gonna be PICKY, then you get what you get. nothing basically. that kind of thinking.

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well my only conclusion is...

if you're NOT a sweet, loving girl, you won't get anyone. no matter how you look.

if you're mean and cruel, unkind, then you get what you get.

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Posted by AirMan
yes and no. attractive people has the advantage when it comes to getting what they want for free. why just yesterday a cashier clerk in a grocery store let me purchase something free of charge. and i didn't even use my charm to get it. wasn't too much in the mood to charm nobody yesterday. had that been someone unattractive, i think she would charge that person. now when it comes to scoring on a man or woman, unattractive people got the advantage over that. sad but true.

hm i think with men, it's different.

women want MONEY/SECURITY!!! not because they are gold diggers but they want security in that the man is successful/ can take care of the woman and her babies kind of thing. The caveman taking care of his lovely cavelady. i know that sounds primitive but it is how it is.

and an ugly rich man will get tons of ladies no matter what. this is just general of course. And the poor pretty boys will be taken care of by the cougar ladies kind of thing.

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Posted by lisabethur8
most would say "yes!!!"

but honestly, not really.

my aunts, grandmas and my mother have told me plenty of times, through their aging years --- through their wisdom and knowing girls at their high schools, middle school, college and beyond, that even the most attractive, gorgeous looking woman can't get or keep a man.

weird how that is.

you'd think so, but we've seen the big, overly overweight ladies who aren't considered pretty get lots of men chasing them.

but then people will say, "look at honey boo boo has a boyfriend and you don't" kind of saying.

it's all perspective i guess.

if you're gonna be PICKY, then you get what you get. nothing basically. that kind of thinking.

Ha ha ha ha love it!!

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well that is unfortunate for honey boo boo/ and mother.

but my point still stands. You don't have to go for trailer trash types. *smh*

they can still be good men but just not the HIGH standard you can't reach.

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ll where the last topic i remember over women and men trying to go for something they can't reach. They will be single forever if they think like that. movies and books are one thing, but not in reality.

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AirMan
yes and no. attractive people has the advantage when it comes to getting what they want for free. why just yesterday a cashier clerk in a grocery store let me purchase something free of charge. and i didn't even use my charm to get it. wasn't too much in the mood to charm nobody yesterday. had that been someone unattractive, i think she would charge that person. now when it comes to scoring on a man or woman, unattractive people got the advantage over that. sad but true.

hm i think with men, it's different.

women want MONEY/SECURITY!!! not because they are gold diggers but they want security in that the man is successful/ can take care of the woman and her babies kind of thing. The caveman taking care of his lovely cavelady. i know that sounds primitive but it is how it is.

and an ugly rich man will get tons of ladies no matter what. this is just general of course. And the poor pretty boys will be taken care of by the cougar ladies kind of thing.

that's just it. women want money everytime they see me like i'm made of money or something or like i'm their husband. and they don't be wantin it for security reasons that the man is successful, they be wantin money for themselves. to support their habits.

and yes you hit it on the head. poor pretty boys DO gets takin care of by the cougar ladies 😄.

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oh they want some of your $ $ $ $ for their habits??

what type of habits?? drugs?

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Posted by AirMan
@lisabethur8 there's a sagittarius lady who's been stalking me like a hawk for the very longest time. i done come to a boiling point with her now. i'm tired seeing her face and i'm sick and tired of her following me around in public everywhere i go embarrassing me. like everytime i see her i turn the other way just to avoid contact with her because i know when she see's me, she'll beg me for money to buy cigarettes and beer. she even wants to be my girlfriend knowing full well i'm taken. also i know a taurus lady who's a little bit similar. she begs me for money too everytime she see's me. but she would lie and say she need a few dollars to buy her son diapers. now this kid is 4 years old going on 5. a little bit too old to be still wearing diapers now. i would think. she also has this little crush on me also not fully aware i'm taken. i just wish they leave me alone and let me live my life peacefully without being ask for money everytime i'm spotted.

lmao

you're a walking mister money bags 😆

hey, mister!!!! got a spare 100 for me. the ladies are lining up.

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Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by AirMan
yes and no. attractive people has the advantage when it comes to getting what they want for free. why just yesterday a cashier clerk in a grocery store let me purchase something free of charge. and i didn't even use my charm to get it. wasn't too much in the mood to charm nobody yesterday. had that been someone unattractive, i think she would charge that person. now when it comes to scoring on a man or woman, unattractive people got the advantage over that. sad but true.

hm i think with men, it's different.

women want MONEY/SECURITY!!! not because they are gold diggers but they want security in that the man is successful/ can take care of the woman and her babies kind of thing. The caveman taking care of his lovely cavelady. i know that sounds primitive but it is how it is.

and an ugly rich man will get tons of ladies no matter what. this is just general of course. And the poor pretty boys will be taken care of by the cougar ladies kind of thing.

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+1

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Posted by tiziani
Monica Bellucci's family claimed she was so beautiful as a child, waitresses gave her free food.

Anyway I'm pretty thrilled to discover she's in the next Bond film.

And she's 50 years old now.

she has a beautiful earth trine, from her capricorn rising to Jupiter taurus to her stellium virgo.

and they're in water houses too, so very watery/earthy. Her sun i notice, sits in the 8th house.

beautiful chart.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Monica_Bellucci