Shaniajam
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Posted by GobshiteI agree with both of your statements. A good counselor will help you get out of this relationship and with your "daddy issues" and looking at your placements will give you and even deeper understanding of yourself and can help you verbalize your tendencies to your counselor, so you can get to work even faster and a more personal approach.
Shit, Taurus sun AND moon - double fixed. Eeeek!
That's your problem. Double fixed individuals just keep making the same mistakes, over and over again, until something finally gives. They're so fucking stubborn, once they have their minds set on something.
I take back the counselling suggestion - do more research on your personal placements and try some deep introspection.
to be sympathethic to your issues...but people who label others in terms of personality and mental disorders have always struck me as undercover abusers. I don't buy the victim act at all.
Posted by ShaniajamIt's called rejection.
....He gave me the silent treatment after having a wonderful weekend together
Posted by Shaniajam
... and in bracets it said the psychopath.Posted by Shaniajam
BOOM psychopath and narcissistPosted by Shaniajam^Bullshit assessments.
Came to realization of myself that I may be a borderline as I have empathy and I love however I don't feel like a codependent as much as I do a borderline.
Posted by Shaniajam^This will come as a shock to a fixed sign but people who are innocent need not prove themselves in the eyes of accusers. If someone is so far off about me I would just giggle and be on my way while you froth at the mouth.
and said you are a narcissist and I know who you are cause that's what my father was. I thanked him for opening my eyes ... You know what? He didn't say he wasn't and he didn't deny it either!!!click to expand
I would say seek help but I doubt it would register so...best of luck with the magnetic charismastic toxic fling? Make no mistake, you're fodder to his ego for all the wrong reasons (no, not because he's a narcissist).
Also ask some family member to look after your daughters because the sad reality is that you're weak and liable to set an apalling example.
Posted by ShaniajamHow about you sane yourself and focus on your kids?Posted by trollbaitDoes that me just f-ing crazy? If so...
jfc...
Yes! Yes it is! Smhclick to expand
It's harder and doesn't have quite the Harlequin erotic novel feel to it nor the Twilight despair but maybe they deserve a chance with a parent who is grounded and not in lalaland.
Posted by tizianii'm cardinal dominant by a mere..2% to mutable?Posted by Damnatamutable dominant lyfe.
This will come as a shock to a fixed sign but people who are innocent need not prove themselves in the eyes of accusers. If someone is so far off about me I would just giggle and be on my way while you froth at the mouth.
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better phrasing: fixed lacking lyfe.
@damnata
"I would love to be sympathethic to your issues...but people who label others in terms of personality and mental disorders have always struck me as undercover abusers. I don't buy the victim act at all."
Care to explain. Seems like a giant leap, some people are just educated.
"I would love to be sympathethic to your issues...but people who label others in terms of personality and mental disorders have always struck me as undercover abusers. I don't buy the victim act at all."
Care to explain. Seems like a giant leap, some people are just educated.
Wtf...you seem proud of your little discovery.
Weird.
Weird.
Posted by SensitiveBluesExactly. Narcissists attract individuals with victim complex.Posted by tizianii don't get this i thought narcissists were users
Narcissists attract users and users attract narcissists. It's really your choice.
Assuming anyone in this story is infact a narcissist, considering how much that word gets throw around like a pair of underpants.click to expand
Posted by DamnataSilent treatment was not rejection as he apologize and said he was busy. All of you guys on here making assumptions but I know who he is. I even had a recent victim come to me.... I again confronted him before going no contact.... And he admit that he was diagnosed in prison but won't tell me exactly what. Since going no contact I've gotten the hoovering and smear campaign alternatively and the flying monkeys and is why I haven't been on here. I'll admit I have my issues but this opened my eyes. I was raised by a narcissistic father (diagnosed) I know an ass from a narcissist. You guys who feel otherwise don't bother me one bit... I'm just shocked I was able to see through what other people couldn't and point it out. It scared the crap out of him. And I've moved on. I have a lot better things to do while he's still hoovering. Goodbye all.
I would love to be sympathethic to your issues...but people who label others in terms of personality and mental disorders have always struck me as undercover abusers. I don't buy the victim act at all.
Posted by ShaniajamIt's called rejection.
....He gave me the silent treatment after having a wonderful weekend together
Posted by Shaniajam
... and in bracets it said the psychopath.Posted by Shaniajam
BOOM psychopath and narcissistPosted by Shaniajam^Bullshit assessments.
Came to realization of myself that I may be a borderline as I have empathy and I love however I don't feel like a codependent as much as I do a borderline.
Posted by Shaniajam^This will come as a shock to a fixed sign but people who are innocent need not prove themselves in the eyes of accusers. If someone is so far off about me I would just giggle and be on my way while you froth at the mouth.
and said you are a narcissist and I know who you are cause that's what my father was. I thanked him for opening my eyes ... You know what? He didn't say he wasn't and he didn't deny it either!!!
I would say seek help but I doubt it would register so...best of luck with the magnetic charismastic toxic fling? Make no mistake, you're fodder to his ego for all the wrong reasons (no, not because he's a narcissist).
Also ask some family member to look after your daughters because the sad reality is that you're weak and liable to set an apalling example.click to expand
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