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Posted by tizianiSo you mean there can be more than one soulmate kinda relationship?N it is possible that soulmates may not end up together because of bad timing?
To say it in the least Hallmark-cardy way possible... I don't think any relationship that's truly worth it is ever something someone's ready for, whether it be great business partners, romantic, buddies... whatever. When it happens more often than not you just have to take the plunge.
But to maintain a soul level connection with someone it's important to master the five senses. Which I haven't.
Without that, you can meet one or more of these kinds of bonds but you'll probably always end up as two ships sailing by each other. Which isn't a bad thing.
I'm not romantic about soulmates. I do believe in them.
Posted by tizianiI know nothing.. N I'm curious.I often found your threads n posts very captivating.I just wanted to see if you got answers 🙂Posted by TeenaFrom what little I know of it there is only one kind of soul connection - ether to ether between two people. What you make of it in this lifetime can obviously be very different, whether you choose to box it into one label or another. Yes people can definitely not end up together because of timing.Posted by tizianiSo you mean there can be more than one soulmate kinda relationship?N it is possible that soulmates may not end up together because of bad timing?
To say it in the least Hallmark-cardy way possible... I don't think any relationship that's truly worth it is ever something someone's ready for, whether it be great business partners, romantic, buddies... whatever. When it happens more often than not you just have to take the plunge.
But to maintain a soul level connection with someone it's important to master the five senses. Which I haven't.
Without that, you can meet one or more of these kinds of bonds but you'll probably always end up as two ships sailing by each other. Which isn't a bad thing.
I'm not romantic about soulmates. I do believe in them.
There's also a thread in Metaphysical by SpiceNSugar that has an lengthy article about different types of connections people believe in, but then you're getting into twin flame territory and I understand very little about thatclick to expand
Is it called soul connection only when two people feel it? I understand when you say I'm getting into twin flames thing.But I find both equally confusing.Also I read about this thing called karmic relationship which again is confused with soulmates.I think karmic relationship can be experienced either by both or one of the parties involved.
Anyway..What do you think about " if it's destined it'll happen" thing ?
There's this youtuber(HesUltimAge) who once said "If something is destined it wouldn't happen unless you work for it..n if something is not destined it wouldn't happen how much ever efforts you put in" Isn't it unfair then?
Posted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/
Posted by kalinNot really...you should read about karmic relationships..I'll post a link if I find what I read
I thought soulmates are just some people you have karmatic relationships from your previous life?
Posted by retrogradexyBut then I thought destiny is not about perceptions
What does karma mean?
Wiki said this
Karma (Sanskrit: à ¤•à ¤°à ¥à ¤®; IPA: [ˈkÉ™rmÉ™] ( listen); Pali: kamma) means action, work or deed; it also refers to the spiritual principle of cause and effect where intent and actions of an individual (cause) influence the future of that individual (effect).
We all play a part in each others lives, whether small or big.
Of course other soulmates go unnoticed because we tend to overlook them. We look for connections we choose to have. We choose what we want to learn. If only were open to learning everyday, will perceive everyone differently and find that connection.
Or are you telling that destiny is what we make n not what happens?
Also excuse my ignorance.Contradicting is not what I am trying to do.I'm just really curious
Posted by kreol
I'm not sure this is the answer you're looking for. In the past when I opened myself to idea of receiving love, love as I understood it at the time, I opened my heart to the universe. Asking from a solitary well deep down inside of me, a deep longing, a need that I long neglected. As if manifesting a soul urge I attracted new people in my life, romantic and platonic who showed me love, grew me and taught me how to love. I think we're all soulmates only the nature of the relationship varies. Being human it's a part of our nature to forget our place in the grand scheme of things as we are subject to our physical senses, we fool ourselves into believing we are all alone.That sense of alienation and trauma is passed on down to each of us, throughout the ages and genetically, imposing an external reality that justifies our fears and insecurities. It's hard to break free from this condition because it's all we know seemingly.
This seems straight from greek n indian mythologies or some Buddhist sayings..Intriguing though 🙂
Posted by retrogradexyBut isn't karma/universe about give n take??
Unfair is giving balance to the world. Why.. you cant possibly have everything go your way for yourself or others you feel for.
You can choose your own destiny but you cant create* it. You have various options.
Idk. Kreol and tiz explain it better.
I really don't understand
Why is being "Destined" not equal to it happening at any cost
While "Not destined" equals not happening at any cost?
I dunno if I'm making any sense :/
Posted by kreolSo it's all self-made perception?okay...So what's your perception of balance?Posted by TeenaPerception, interpretation. Perceived injustice and justice. Things are the way they are but we give meanings to thingsPosted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/click to expand
Posted by tiziani
And karmic connections well I'm not sure about that - usually in astro people look for connection between the lunar nodes for that, but there's a lot of confusion between kharma and dharma (people mix them up all the time) and I'm unclear about the topic myself.
From what I know,
Karma is said to be all about balance..I mean you get what you give kind
Dharma is all about what is righteous.Fairness is restored either by fair or unfair means.Unfairness would still be fair if it's done for a greater purpose.
In strictly elemental terms (because that's how I best understand it) when you're looking for a soul connection you're looking for the point in space where your energy is just naturally mirrored and parallels by another person's energy at all times of the year. Because this could only be a connection between two points at any given time, then yes it would be restricted to two people.
Thing is space is the ether. It's a vacuum. The only way to cross that divide between the two points would be to have all five elements between those two people. Yes I believe we have to work to master all this, otherwise destiny can come our way but we would not recognise it as our own destiny at the time. It's like what someone else mentioned in this thread - it would feel disconnected from us and almost as if we're always at the mercy of someone else's reality.
Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
Posted by tizianiLol! That's what it is about..Personal integrity leading to greater good.N there are no pre-determined set of rules for dharma.It's said that it changes with time,place n circumstances n still remain "fair" not just for one person but for society at large.Posted by TeenaGood news for me then as that matches my personal beliefs 😄 Thanks for the infoPosted by tiziani
And karmic connections well I'm not sure about that - usually in astro people look for connection between the lunar nodes for that, but there's a lot of confusion between kharma and dharma (people mix them up all the time) and I'm unclear about the topic myself.
From what I know,
Karma is said to be all about balance..I mean you get what you give kind
Dharma is all about what is righteous.Fairness is restored either by fair or unfair means.Unfairness would still be fair if it's done for a greater purpose.click to expand
Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
Posted by kreolSo there's reincarnation?Posted by TeenaA crude understanding of energy, the balance of nature and order of universe. What is taken gets given, what is given gets taken. My understanding in all of this depends on my journey from previous lifetimes to this one, my understanding is limited to my senses which are imperfect and my being rooted in this space in time. I'm effectively blind with an innate feeling of knowing this which reveals itself through life experiences depending on my inclination - whether I choose to accept it and make sense of it in this way or another way or discard it all together. Basically I only know what I know or what I think I know. My knowing is minute but collectively - all of us our knowing is everything.Posted by kreolSo it's all self-made perception?okay...So what's your perception of balance?Posted by TeenaPerception, interpretation. Perceived injustice and justice. Things are the way they are but we give meanings to thingsPosted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/click to expand
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we know
Posted by tizianiI know there are lot of things we don't know n will never know.But I've always been under an impression that,Posted by TeenaWell, not everyone believes that - in monotheist faiths everything happens as it is meant to right? "God's will"Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
But metaphysically it's thought that premature loss of life can cause rips in space. And there's a whole load we still don't know about black holes.click to expand
as paradoxical as it may sound, everything is "god's will"
It never made real sense to me but I thought it did to him n it's beyond my understanding n I always tried to accept that(though I never completely could)
For some strange reason I feel repulsive about this idea of yours.Generally I'm open to views.But this thing has triggered something in me.I believed God has got this entire thing n he's in control of everything.It makes me scared n sad for some reason to imagine otherwise :/
Posted by tizianiYou sure weren't contesting it.I asked for it.It's just scary to think that way.Posted by TeenaGod's will is very romantic to me. Hey, it's your faith at the end of the day. I'm not here to contest it. If anything, the muli-verse theory has room to suggest both free will and fate apply together.Posted by tizianiI know there are lot of things we don't know n will never know.But I've always been under an impression that,Posted by TeenaWell, not everyone believes that - in monotheist faiths everything happens as it is meant to right? "God's will"Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
But metaphysically it's thought that premature loss of life can cause rips in space. And there's a whole load we still don't know about black holes.
as paradoxical as it may sound, everything is "god's will"
It never made real sense to me but I thought it did to him n it's beyond my understanding n I always tried to accept that(though I never completely could)
For some strange reason I feel repulsive about this idea of yours.Generally I'm open to views.But this thing has triggered something in me.I believed God has got this entire thing n he's in control of everything.It makes me scared n sad for some reason to imagine otherwise :/click to expand
>>If anything, the muli-verse theory has room to suggest both free will and fate apply together
Lol! You know how very cute this is—You're very sweet :-P
Posted by channingtatumsneckFirst time my scorp did something very new compared with his previous behavior was when Uranus Retrograde in Aries at 12° was in quasi conjunction between his North Node in Aries at 9° and his natal Saturn in Aries at 20°. At the same time Jupiter in Cancer at 9° was quasi conjuncting my North Node (in Cancer at 11°). Not to forget that my natal Jupiter conjuncts his NN. Both in Aries at 9°.Posted by christinelovessnickersnorth node contacts when you're older.
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.click to expand
Generally I don't call us as soulmates. We just stick with each other. For unknown reasons. Laziness to name one.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.
I thought I've read on the net that soulmate encounters are often very painful. And just because of the pain they notice there is this special connection. First they think they should say good-bye to each other. For example wrong timing. Then they see they cannot do it. That every small excuse bring them back together.
I must add this special subject "soulmates" has been seen as a joke to aome folks (yet another female's storytelling). For example when they say this is more codependency than being soulmate. And nobody knows if being soulmate implicitely says being happy together.
I only know there are wives and husbands who die shortly after each other's death. My father told me one true story recently. She died four days after his death.
Nope. I belive in degrees.
Posted by kreolLol! The last part cracked me up! I was trying to read n sink in every word carefully (all the while remembering something I read on similar lines before) n then you ask me to ignore everything! :")Posted by TeenaI believe energy never dies, only the physical body does, decomposes and becomes the earth. Energy or consciousness as we experience it as human beings - "I think therefore I am" transfers from one vessel to another. Energy is also transferred with each contact and transactions we have with other living beings. I think we're the sum of all our karma and dharma, we are what we do. We are our actions. Love is a verb
So there's reincarnation?
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we know
Our past actions affect our present, we're situated in this life according to our past desires - what our hearts yearned for and how we went about this. Part of learning the lessons of our actions is suffering. Life is suffering, suffering the consequences of our actions and of others. We generally tend to appreciate the value of things once they're taken from us. What is light without darkness? What is happiness without sadness? We're all suffering in different ways, in ways that may not be clear to the next person or the person suffering themselves. Again, our limited perception creates a prison of what we know of ourselves and the world around us. A perpetual living ignorance. We're blind and we don't know shit. Now, given what I've just said ignore everything I just postedclick to expand
Isn't it easier to pretend we don't understand a thing? Blessed are those people who don't (or try to) understand this stuff.
Posted by kalinGo through this.Don't forget that tags too 🙂Posted by TeenaCool. I thought if it's twin flames you feel the kind of love and desire to be one but soulmate relationships are just hard worksPosted by kalinNot really...you should read about karmic relationships..I'll post a link if I find what I read
I thought soulmates are just some people you have karmatic relationships from your previous life?click to expand
http://www.devinemiracles.com/karmic-relationships.html
I think you will like this:
There are all kinds of theories about timing and relationships. Many focus on the intensity of the emotional connection between two potential lovers. Many theories have rigid protocols about what a man is supposed to do if he cares and if anything is inconsistent with that, he doesn't care about you! Just think of that lovely, destructive movie, He's Just Not That Into You! Before you go making your romantic decisions on this silly movie, keep in mind it's based on a Comedian's book! Would you really take relationship advice from a Comedian?
Some relationship experts have concluded that if there is anything unusual, anything amiss, like both of you currently being in relationships, married, live on opposite sides of the country, have seriously conflicting schedules or other issues, you cannot be "Soul Mates" (Optimum Mates). They erroneously conclude that if the "timing" of the relationship seems to be off, then it "wasn't meant to be;" or at least that is the frequent rational.
None of these "experts" factor in the realities of pre-mortal planning, reincarnation, or Optimum Mates. For a better description of Optimum Mates, please see this previous blog.
You must understand that while we live in the 21st Century and great advancements have been made in regards to other areas of psychology, our understanding of the intuition and it's function, is still rudimentary. We, as a modern civilization, have lost the knowledge that the ancient mystery schools of Egypt and Greece held sacred.
Your intuition or that of the a good psychic on your behalf, is always operating for your best interests! Indeed, your intuition is a direction function of your soul consciousness. It is your best friend! It can never, under any circumstances, be corrupted to work against you! It is an absolutely infallible guide! The infallibility that I'm speaking of here is in regards to large issues in your life, not whether someone will call this day or the next.
Keeping this principle in mind, I will say that your intuition will introduce you to your Optimum Mate as soon as it is able! As soon as you are the least bit open to the impulses from your soul, it will immediately try to get you on your Optimum Trajectory or Path in life. This includes connecting you to your Optimum Mate!
So what happens if you've ignored or suppressed your intuition your whole life or only become aware of psychic abilities in the past few years? What then? You've spent your whole life making decisions based on your analytical thinking or emotions. You are not very likely to be on your Optimum Path or be with your Optimum Mate. Chances are pretty good you will far off course. By the time you come to a good psychic, you're probably asking what you did to deserve this? Why is it so hard for you to be happy or what negative karma you're working off?
There are all kinds of theories about timing and relationships. Many focus on the intensity of the emotional connection between two potential lovers. Many theories have rigid protocols about what a man is supposed to do if he cares and if anything is inconsistent with that, he doesn't care about you! Just think of that lovely, destructive movie, He's Just Not That Into You! Before you go making your romantic decisions on this silly movie, keep in mind it's based on a Comedian's book! Would you really take relationship advice from a Comedian?
Some relationship experts have concluded that if there is anything unusual, anything amiss, like both of you currently being in relationships, married, live on opposite sides of the country, have seriously conflicting schedules or other issues, you cannot be "Soul Mates" (Optimum Mates). They erroneously conclude that if the "timing" of the relationship seems to be off, then it "wasn't meant to be;" or at least that is the frequent rational.
None of these "experts" factor in the realities of pre-mortal planning, reincarnation, or Optimum Mates. For a better description of Optimum Mates, please see this previous blog.
You must understand that while we live in the 21st Century and great advancements have been made in regards to other areas of psychology, our understanding of the intuition and it's function, is still rudimentary. We, as a modern civilization, have lost the knowledge that the ancient mystery schools of Egypt and Greece held sacred.
Your intuition or that of the a good psychic on your behalf, is always operating for your best interests! Indeed, your intuition is a direction function of your soul consciousness. It is your best friend! It can never, under any circumstances, be corrupted to work against you! It is an absolutely infallible guide! The infallibility that I'm speaking of here is in regards to large issues in your life, not whether someone will call this day or the next.
Keeping this principle in mind, I will say that your intuition will introduce you to your Optimum Mate as soon as it is able! As soon as you are the least bit open to the impulses from your soul, it will immediately try to get you on your Optimum Trajectory or Path in life. This includes connecting you to your Optimum Mate!
So what happens if you've ignored or suppressed your intuition your whole life or only become aware of psychic abilities in the past few years? What then? You've spent your whole life making decisions based on your analytical thinking or emotions. You are not very likely to be on your Optimum Path or be with your Optimum Mate. Chances are pretty good you will far off course. By the time you come to a good psychic, you're probably asking what you did to deserve this? Why is it so hard for you to be happy or what negative karma you're working off?
The truth is, you're not really working off negative karma, unless we consider negative karma not listening to your intuition earlier in life! By the time you are in your 30s or 40s, using only your intellect or emotions to make decisions, you're probably going to have a plethora of mistakes to correct! You might be in the wrong career, living in the wrong area, or worse yet, be married to the wrong person! Risk and change of any kind is scary.
Just keep in mind that this does not make the "timing" of finding your Optimum Mate wrong! Your intuition introduced you to your Optimum Mate as soon as you were capable of listening! Don't look at this as torture, even though it may feel like it. Consider yourself blessed! Many people have no Optimum Mate.
If you suspect you are dealing with an Optimum Mate or need any information about your Optimum Career or Location, call me! Accurate information about this is my lifelong specialty! Just be prepared to hear the truth...since it might involve some serious work! 😉
Just keep in mind that this does not make the "timing" of finding your Optimum Mate wrong! Your intuition introduced you to your Optimum Mate as soon as you were capable of listening! Don't look at this as torture, even though it may feel like it. Consider yourself blessed! Many people have no Optimum Mate.
If you suspect you are dealing with an Optimum Mate or need any information about your Optimum Career or Location, call me! Accurate information about this is my lifelong specialty! Just be prepared to hear the truth...since it might involve some serious work! 😉
Link to the source
https://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Alternative_Information/Timing--amp--Optimum-Mate-Relationships/760518.aspx
there is A LOT to read
https://www.keen.com/CommunityServer/UserBlogPosts/Alternative_Information/Timing--amp--Optimum-Mate-Relationships/760518.aspx
there is A LOT to read
Posted by ImpulsvTeaching forgiveness? Wow! I've been taught that then.Being a scorpio, unforgiveness is one typical trait of mine...which is dead years back.I'm a way too forgiving of people's faults n i keep giving multiple chances now.Not that I'll let them play me though..Posted by TeenaNot that mention soul agreements to learn lessons with each other. to teach u forgiveness, ectPosted by kreolSo there's reincarnation?Posted by TeenaA crude understanding of energy, the balance of nature and order of universe. What is taken gets given, what is given gets taken. My understanding in all of this depends on my journey from previous lifetimes to this one, my understanding is limited to my senses which are imperfect and my being rooted in this space in time. I'm effectively blind with an innate feeling of knowing this which reveals itself through life experiences depending on my inclination - whether I choose to accept it and make sense of it in this way or another way or discard it all together. Basically I only know what I know or what I think I know. My knowing is minute but collectively - all of us our knowing is everything.Posted by kreolSo it's all self-made perception?okay...So what's your perception of balance?Posted by TeenaPerception, interpretation. Perceived injustice and justice. Things are the way they are but we give meanings to thingsPosted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we knowclick to expand
Posted by kreolTrue that! Ignorance is bliss 😄Posted by TeenaWell, we're never going to know everything anyway. Ignorance is bliss, right? YOLOPosted by kreolLol! The last part cracked me up! I was trying to read n sink in every word carefully (all the while remembering something I read on similar lines before) n then you ask me to ignore everything! :")Posted by TeenaI believe energy never dies, only the physical body does, decomposes and becomes the earth. Energy or consciousness as we experience it as human beings - "I think therefore I am" transfers from one vessel to another. Energy is also transferred with each contact and transactions we have with other living beings. I think we're the sum of all our karma and dharma, we are what we do. We are our actions. Love is a verb
So there's reincarnation?
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we know
Our past actions affect our present, we're situated in this life according to our past desires - what our hearts yearned for and how we went about this. Part of learning the lessons of our actions is suffering. Life is suffering, suffering the consequences of our actions and of others. We generally tend to appreciate the value of things once they're taken from us. What is light without darkness? What is happiness without sadness? We're all suffering in different ways, in ways that may not be clear to the next person or the person suffering themselves. Again, our limited perception creates a prison of what we know of ourselves and the world around us. A perpetual living ignorance. We're blind and we don't know shit. Now, given what I've just said ignore everything I just posted
Isn't it easier to pretend we don't understand a thing? Blessed are those people who don't (or try to) understand this stuff.
Ever looked at epistemology, the theory of knowledge? Pretty soon you realize the more you know, the more you don't know. So fuck itclick to expand
No! I didn't come across that.The more I know,the more I don't know?? 😕 But I'm empty : $ Is that a good place to start with??
Posted by kalinFeel free to post it there @kalin 🙂Posted by TeenaPosted by kalinGo through this.Don't forget that tags too 🙂Posted by TeenaCool. I thought if it's twin flames you feel the kind of love and desire to be one but soulmate relationships are just hard worksPosted by kalinNot really...you should read about karmic relationships..I'll post a link if I find what I read
I thought soulmates are just some people you have karmatic relationships from your previous life?
http://www.devinemiracles.com/karmic-relationships.html
Btw I think that link should be on the Virgo board lol I think it resembles my experience with Virgo but I know it can be with any signs lolclick to expand
Posted by RumiLoveDo You Believe YOU Have Met yours?
I'm ready.. I think we're ready.. It only takes time I guess.
Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean by master the senses?
To say it in the least Hallmark-cardy way possible... I don't think any relationship that's truly worth it is ever something someone's ready for, whether it be great business partners, romantic, buddies... whatever. When it happens more often than not you just have to take the plunge.
But to maintain a soul level connection with someone it's important to master the five senses. Which I haven't.
Without that, you can meet one or more of these kinds of bonds but you'll probably always end up as two ships sailing by each other. Which isn't a bad thing.
I'm not romantic about soulmates. I do believe in them.
Do you think "soulmates" can be a negative relationship? Simply meant as a lesson
Posted by aquaboy84Maybe that's part of the challenge...what makes the idea of thr relationship so beautiful. That despite all odds you found each other.
You might die before you find your soulmate nowadays. No one is making it easier evrryones ego is as high as the eiffel tower. money and succumbing to a flawed society is all anyone ever cares about.. I feel like finding your soulmate would he way easier if everyone was on the same fuvkin page.
Ego is a huge factor with relationships. I know there are times I should have kept mine in check and will need to in thr future. I am trying to be more aware of those moments and the way I react.
Posted by retrogradexyYou were the one that mentioned it.Posted by christinelovessnickersOnce you are ready to submerge beyond the surface of your passion/desire- the ideas which controls your body.. only then. It seems like surrender, because it is. The mind tends to dominate one's soul when it should be working together. This causes "blockage" which results to the feeling of disconnect. You know the saying, use your mind and heart when it comes to love? Well, the same thing goes for the mind and the soul.
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.
Idk. I might just be talking nonsense. It is too early.click to expand
Do you have ideas on how to reach that level? Or is it something that takes time vs practice?
Posted by kreolI am not really looking for a specific answer, just honest interpretations and understandings.
I'm not sure this is the answer you're looking for. In the past when I opened myself to idea of receiving love, love as I understood it at the time, I opened my heart to the universe. Asking from a solitary well deep down inside of me, a deep longing, a need that I long neglected. As if manifesting a soul urge I attracted new people in my life, romantic and platonic who showed me love, grew me and taught me how to love. I think we're all soulmates only the nature of the relationship varies. Being human it's a part of our nature to forget our place in the grand scheme of things as we are subject to our physical senses, we fool ourselves into believing we are all alone.That sense of alienation and trauma is passed on down to each of us, throughout the ages and genetically, imposing an external reality that justifies our fears and insecurities. It's hard to break free from this condition because it's all we know seemingly.
I feel ready to be open to love, really open. Maybe I am deceiving myself. I have been feeling like I am lacking passion and intensity right now, on a relationship level. I want and feel I may need some thing to disrupt my life and force me to grow more.
Posted by kalinApparently it's much needed there :-PPosted by TeenaPosted by kalinFeel free to post it there @kalin 🙂Posted by TeenaPosted by kalinGo through this.Don't forget that tags too 🙂Posted by TeenaCool. I thought if it's twin flames you feel the kind of love and desire to be one but soulmate relationships are just hard worksPosted by kalinNot really...you should read about karmic relationships..I'll post a link if I find what I read
I thought soulmates are just some people you have karmatic relationships from your previous life?
http://www.devinemiracles.com/karmic-relationships.html
Btw I think that link should be on the Virgo board lol I think it resembles my experience with Virgo but I know it can be with any signs lol
Awesome lolclick to expand
From what I understand soul mate is someone who belongs with you in this life. It can your friend, your parents, your sibling, s significant other. You can have multiple soulmates. Their purpose is to help you accomplish what you need in this life and vice versa.
A Twin flame is often confused as a soulmate. But often they cannot stay in your life. Meeting your twin flam can feel like touching fire, intense and painful. They are your mirror and they will often show you what is lacking and areas you still need growth.
If you are early in the reincarnation cycle you may not have met that other person but can feel yourself searching for them. If you have met them briefly, that person might always be on your mind for an unknown reason. With each life your connection and growth become better and stronger. When you and your flame are finally at a point of full growth, you can be together but for the purpose of doing something for the better good/serves the universe. together They can accomplish something powerful/world changing. Once accomplished, that will be the end of your reincarnation cycle and your essence/soul can go back to being part of the universe.
That's just the new agey take on soulmates/twin flames. I read a few articles and that's what I took away from it.
A Twin flame is often confused as a soulmate. But often they cannot stay in your life. Meeting your twin flam can feel like touching fire, intense and painful. They are your mirror and they will often show you what is lacking and areas you still need growth.
If you are early in the reincarnation cycle you may not have met that other person but can feel yourself searching for them. If you have met them briefly, that person might always be on your mind for an unknown reason. With each life your connection and growth become better and stronger. When you and your flame are finally at a point of full growth, you can be together but for the purpose of doing something for the better good/serves the universe. together They can accomplish something powerful/world changing. Once accomplished, that will be the end of your reincarnation cycle and your essence/soul can go back to being part of the universe.
That's just the new agey take on soulmates/twin flames. I read a few articles and that's what I took away from it.
Posted by TeenaWhat's the difference? I think anything worth having should be worked towards. However, if it's a relationship both parties need to want to work.Posted by tizianiI know nothing.. N I'm curious.I often found your threads n posts very captivating.I just wanted to see if you got answers 🙂Posted by TeenaFrom what little I know of it there is only one kind of soul connection - ether to ether between two people. What you make of it in this lifetime can obviously be very different, whether you choose to box it into one label or another. Yes people can definitely not end up together because of timing.Posted by tizianiSo you mean there can be more than one soulmate kinda relationship?N it is possible that soulmates may not end up together because of bad timing?
To say it in the least Hallmark-cardy way possible... I don't think any relationship that's truly worth it is ever something someone's ready for, whether it be great business partners, romantic, buddies... whatever. When it happens more often than not you just have to take the plunge.
But to maintain a soul level connection with someone it's important to master the five senses. Which I haven't.
Without that, you can meet one or more of these kinds of bonds but you'll probably always end up as two ships sailing by each other. Which isn't a bad thing.
I'm not romantic about soulmates. I do believe in them.
There's also a thread in Metaphysical by SpiceNSugar that has an lengthy article about different types of connections people believe in, but then you're getting into twin flame territory and I understand very little about that
Is it called soul connection only when two people feel it? I understand when you say I'm getting into twin flames thing.But I find both equally confusing.Also I read about this thing called karmic relationship which again is confused with soulmates.I think karmic relationship can be experienced either by both or one of the parties involved.
Anyway..What do you think about " if it's destined it'll happen" thing ?
There's this youtuber(HesUltimAge) who once said "If something is destined it wouldn't happen unless you work for it..n if something is not destined it wouldn't happen how much ever efforts you put in" Isn't it unfair then?click to expand
Posted by kreolShould we not look for meaning?Posted by TeenaPerception, interpretation. Perceived injustice and justice. Things are the way they are but we give meanings to thingsPosted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/click to expand
I can see how at times it could lead to false knowledge and delusion. However, I thunk it cam be very positive to question and search through things.
Posted by starloverYet so hard to obtain at times.
Balance is the perfect state to live in
Posted by tizianiInteresting. I know you are adept in astrology. Do you see a correlation of astrology and feeling mirrored energy?Posted by TeenaIn strictly elemental terms (because that's how I best understand it) when you're looking for a soul connection you're looking for the point in space where your energy is just naturally mirrored and parallels by another person's energy at all times of the year. Because this could only be a connection between two points at any given time, then yes it would be restricted to two people.
I know nothing.. N I'm curious.I often found your threads n posts very captivating.I just wanted to see if you got answers 🙂
Is it called soul connection only when two people feel it? I understand when you say I'm getting into twin flames thing.But I find both equally confusing.Also I read about this thing called karmic relationship which again is confused with soulmates.I think karmic relationship can be experienced either by both or one of the parties involved.
Anyway..What do you think about " if it's destined it'll happen" thing ?
There's this youtuber(HesUltimAge) who once said "If something is destined it wouldn't happen unless you work for it..n if something is not destined it wouldn't happen how much ever efforts you put in" Isn't it unfair then?
Thing is space is the ether. It's a vacuum. The only way to cross that divide between the two points would be to have all five elements between those two people. Yes I believe we have to work to master all this, otherwise destiny can come our way but we would not recognise it as our own destiny at the time. It's like what someone else mentioned in this thread - it would feel disconnected from us and almost as if we're always at the mercy of someone else's reality.click to expand
Posted by tizianiNever heard of dharma...I will check that out.
And karmic connections well I'm not sure about that - usually in astro people look for connection between the lunar nodes for that, but there's a lot of confusion between kharma and dharma (people mix them up all the time) and I'm unclear about the topic myself.
Posted by TeenaSorry Tiziani, I didn't see this one.Posted by tiziani
And karmic connections well I'm not sure about that - usually in astro people look for connection between the lunar nodes for that, but there's a lot of confusion between kharma and dharma (people mix them up all the time) and I'm unclear about the topic myself.
From what I know,
Karma is said to be all about balance..I mean you get what you give kind
Dharma is all about what is righteous.Fairness is restored either by fair or unfair means.Unfairness would still be fair if it's done for a greater purpose.click to expand
That's interesting Teena.
Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.
Oh, if a soul mate is real, it is only going to come when you stop obsessing and focusing so much energy on it. Zealot¡¡
Posted by tizianiSo, fate isn't set to you or is it just that fate can't be Changed, just the road there?
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
Maybe they due because it is their time. Maybe they reached what they needed to. We just can't see that as outsiders and are devastated by the occurrence.
Posted by channingtatumsneckPlease explainPosted by christinelovessnickersnorth node contacts when you're older.
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.click to expand
Posted by tizianiDude, where do you get this stuff? That sounds crazy and interesting. It damaging how little we know. Can you imagine if we had all of the knowledge?Posted by TeenaWell, not everyone believes that - in monotheist faiths everything happens as it is meant to right? "God's will"Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
But metaphysically it's thought that premature loss of life can cause rips in space. And there's a whole load we still don't know about black holes.click to expand
Posted by Vixen2What's your experience? How did you meet your "soulmate"?
From my experience and what I've read...
A soulmate comes into your life when you are at peace with yourself and at peace with your life. You are satisfied and know yourself, and have accepted who you are and the life path you were given. You are not looking for them...you are looking for ways to better yourself.
They come when you are least expecting it. And you know right away. You don't have to "see them". You may read something they have written, or just heard them speak on the phone. You will feel an electrical charge throughout your body, your heart will race, and it's just a "omg wow" moment.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveEnglish please lol.Posted by channingtatumsneckFirst time my scorp did something very new compared with his previous behavior was when Uranus Retrograde in Aries at 12° was in quasi conjunction between his North Node in Aries at 9° and his natal Saturn in Aries at 20°. At the same time Jupiter in Cancer at 9° was quasi conjuncting my North Node (in Cancer at 11°). Not to forget that my natal Jupiter conjuncts his NN. Both in Aries at 9°.Posted by christinelovessnickersnorth node contacts when you're older.
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.
Generally I don't call us as soulmates. We just stick with each other. For unknown reasons. Laziness to name one.click to expand
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