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Nope. I belive in degrees.
Posted by kreolI agree that energy isn't lost, just exchanged or transfered. Makes me wonder about ghosts and such. So, between lives, what do you think happens? Or do you think there is an in between?Posted by TeenaI believe energy never dies, only the physical body does, decomposes and becomes the earth. Energy or consciousness as we experience it as human beings - "I think therefore I am" transfers from one vessel to another. Energy is also transferred with each contact and transactions we have with other living beings. I think we're the sum of all our karma and dharma, we are what we do. We are our actions. Love is a verb
So there's reincarnation?
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we know
Our past actions affect our present, we're situated in this life according to our past desires - what our hearts yearned for and how we went about this. Part of learning the lessons of our actions is suffering. Life is suffering, suffering the consequences of our actions and of others. We generally tend to appreciate the value of things once they're taken from us. What is light without darkness? What is happiness without sadness? We're all suffering in different ways, in ways that may not be clear to the next person or the person suffering themselves. Again, our limited perception creates a prison of what we know of ourselves and the world around us. A perpetual living ignorance. We're blind and we don't know shit. Now, given what I've just said ignore everything I just postedclick to expand
Posted by ImpulsvYeah, I was wondering about the whole Channing Tatum thing....Posted by channingtatumsneckThe real question is what's up with Taurus n desiring thick necks!!!Posted by christinelovessnickersnorth node contacts when you're older.
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvIs that quitting to seek out an exit or is it that you just aren't ready for the lesson itself.Posted by tizianiAccording to a book I read we map out exit point when lessons get to difficult we can choose an exit. Also our death might be a lesson for those that remain alive n we agreed to itPosted by TeenaWell, not everyone believes that - in monotheist faiths everything happens as it is meant to right? "God's will"Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
But metaphysically it's thought that premature loss of life can cause rips in space. And there's a whole load we still don't know about black holes.click to expand
Posted by kreolAgreed on how little we knowPosted by TeenaWell, we're never going to know everything anyway. Ignorance is bliss, right? YOLOPosted by kreolLol! The last part cracked me up! I was trying to read n sink in every word carefully (all the while remembering something I read on similar lines before) n then you ask me to ignore everything! :")Posted by TeenaI believe energy never dies, only the physical body does, decomposes and becomes the earth. Energy or consciousness as we experience it as human beings - "I think therefore I am" transfers from one vessel to another. Energy is also transferred with each contact and transactions we have with other living beings. I think we're the sum of all our karma and dharma, we are what we do. We are our actions. Love is a verb
So there's reincarnation?
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we know
Our past actions affect our present, we're situated in this life according to our past desires - what our hearts yearned for and how we went about this. Part of learning the lessons of our actions is suffering. Life is suffering, suffering the consequences of our actions and of others. We generally tend to appreciate the value of things once they're taken from us. What is light without darkness? What is happiness without sadness? We're all suffering in different ways, in ways that may not be clear to the next person or the person suffering themselves. Again, our limited perception creates a prison of what we know of ourselves and the world around us. A perpetual living ignorance. We're blind and we don't know shit. Now, given what I've just said ignore everything I just posted
Isn't it easier to pretend we don't understand a thing? Blessed are those people who don't (or try to) understand this stuff.
Ever looked at epistemology, the theory of knowledge? Pretty soon you realize the more you know, the more you don't know. So fuck itclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiSo some people aren't meant to have Optimum Mates, as in one doesn't exist or is it that they have strayed too far away.
The truth is, you're not really working off negative karma, unless we consider negative karma not listening to your intuition earlier in life! By the time you are in your 30s or 40s, using only your intellect or emotions to make decisions, you're probably going to have a plethora of mistakes to correct! You might be in the wrong career, living in the wrong area, or worse yet, be married to the wrong person! Risk and change of any kind is scary.
Just keep in mind that this does not make the "timing" of finding your Optimum Mate wrong! Your intuition introduced you to your Optimum Mate as soon as you were capable of listening! Don't look at this as torture, even though it may feel like it. Consider yourself blessed! Many people have no Optimum Mate.
If you suspect you are dealing with an Optimum Mate or need any information about your Optimum Career or Location, call me! Accurate information about this is my lifelong specialty! Just be prepared to hear the truth...since it might involve some serious work! 😉
This is interesting...I would love to learn more
Posted by TeenaI give people chances and some of them I shouldn't have . I think we all need chances though.Posted by ImpulsvTeaching forgiveness? Wow! I've been taught that then.Being a scorpio, unforgiveness is one typical trait of mine...which is dead years back.I'm a way too forgiving of people's faults n i keep giving multiple chances now.Not that I'll let them play me though..Posted by TeenaNot that mention soul agreements to learn lessons with each other. to teach u forgiveness, ectPosted by kreolSo there's reincarnation?Posted by TeenaA crude understanding of energy, the balance of nature and order of universe. What is taken gets given, what is given gets taken. My understanding in all of this depends on my journey from previous lifetimes to this one, my understanding is limited to my senses which are imperfect and my being rooted in this space in time. I'm effectively blind with an innate feeling of knowing this which reveals itself through life experiences depending on my inclination - whether I choose to accept it and make sense of it in this way or another way or discard it all together. Basically I only know what I know or what I think I know. My knowing is minute but collectively - all of us our knowing is everything.Posted by kreolSo it's all self-made perception?okay...So what's your perception of balance?Posted by TeenaPerception, interpretation. Perceived injustice and justice. Things are the way they are but we give meanings to thingsPosted by retrogradexyBut balance can't be unfair.. Right?? O🙂
Unfair is another word for balance.
How's it called balance when clearly it's not? :/
So there's always give n take n it's not confined to one lifetime? Is that the reason we sometimes see life being unfair(to a large extent) to certain people? I mean it may just be because they did something bad in their previous lives n suffering for the same now..n vice versa?
I do agree.I think we all know what we think we knowclick to expand
Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvSo if there is no good or bad than how can their be karma in the sense of positive or negative. Would't it just boil down to whatever it is being an outcome of a decision/ action? A natural consequence...
Also kind of touches on carrying the energetic lessons from past lives on to this one. Remember Karma is action thought and words then he listed consequences action that might not reflect until the next life. We can plant good seeds or bad seeds but in a sense that is subjective there's really no good or bad.
How many lives are people supposed to get? Lol. It's like cats and nine lives
Posted by tizianiHow does one master elements?Posted by christinelovessnickersI meant the elements, sorry. Fire, earth, air, water (all areas of life) and then ether.Posted by tizianiWhat do you mean by master the senses?
To say it in the least Hallmark-cardy way possible... I don't think any relationship that's truly worth it is ever something someone's ready for, whether it be great business partners, romantic, buddies... whatever. When it happens more often than not you just have to take the plunge.
But to maintain a soul level connection with someone it's important to master the five senses. Which I haven't.
Without that, you can meet one or more of these kinds of bonds but you'll probably always end up as two ships sailing by each other. Which isn't a bad thing.
I'm not romantic about soulmates. I do believe in them.
Do you think "soulmates" can be a negative relationship? Simply meant as a lesson
The thing about negative and positive is a little too subjective for me. I don't look for meaning in soulmates to that extent, myself.click to expand
Posted by christinelovessnickersI once read we get to live 7 lives. But I also read we keep getting reincarnated till we served our purpose n we got served what we deserved(good n bad)Posted by ImpulsvSo if there is no good or bad than how can their be karma in the sense of positive or negative. Would't it just boil down to whatever it is being an outcome of a decision/ action? A natural consequence...
Also kind of touches on carrying the energetic lessons from past lives on to this one. Remember Karma is action thought and words then he listed consequences action that might not reflect until the next life. We can plant good seeds or bad seeds but in a sense that is subjective there's really no good or bad.
How many lives are people supposed to get? Lol. It's like cats and nine livesclick to expand
Posted by CapricornLaurieSo are soulmates meant to last for your lifetime or temporary? I had thought it was the other way around where twin flames were permanent and soulmates were passing.
From what I understand soul mate is someone who belongs with you in this life. It can your friend, your parents, your sibling, s significant other. You can have multiple soulmates. Their purpose is to help you accomplish what you need in this life and vice versa.
A Twin flame is often confused as a soulmate. But often they cannot stay in your life. Meeting your twin flam can feel like touching fire, intense and painful. They are your mirror and they will often show you what is lacking and areas you still need growth.
If you are early in the reincarnation cycle you may not have met that other person but can feel yourself searching for them. If you have met them briefly, that person might always be on your mind for an unknown reason. With each life your connection and growth become better and stronger. When you and your flame are finally at a point of full growth, you can be together but for the purpose of doing something for the better good/serves the universe. together They can accomplish something powerful/world changing. Once accomplished, that will be the end of your reincarnation cycle and your essence/soul can go back to being part of the universe.
That's just the new agey take on soulmates/twin flames. I read a few articles and that's what I took away from it.
Posted by HeartPosted by christinelovessnickersYou're only ready for a relationship once you work on yourself. You can only love someone if you master self-love. Love your flaws, your trauma- everything. Don't put on a mask for people. The right person will accept your authentic self, and the more you work on self-acceptance, the easier it will be to attract people who see you the same way. Everyone we meet reflects how we see ourselves. I don't mean to sound preachy, but in my experience, people treat us the way we treat ourselves. Yet we're always told "Treat others how you want to be treated".
How do you know you are "ready" to meet?
Someone had mentioned being ready before and I am curious about that.
I don't believe in it per-say, but it is interesting to think about.
And as for soulmates, they aren't always romantic. They can be a best friend. Be clear on your intentions- the word "soulmate" alone is a little vague. However, you'll always recognize a soulmate because each one will change your life, for better or worse.
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I agree we are treated how we let people treat us.
So from what you are saying, there can be alot of soulmates. I would assume not everyone that changes your life is a soulmate. How would you know the difference?
Posted by GreyWizYou said that very eloquently. Makes sense
The way i understand the two concepts...........
dharma= Moral duty or obligation. It is vital to make speedy spiritual progress in life.
Karma= consequences of actions. every action has a consequence. it is a law of nature and reality. if you do "good" actions then consequences will be good and "bad' actions will have bad results. Dharma fits in here by guiding the individual and clarifying what actions are good and what are bad. These can be different depending upon status and caste of indvidual. is he a king or a laborer?
Posted by augustmoonLol no one is obsessed. The concept is interesting to me, bit so are many unrelated things. 😉
Oh, if a soul mate is real, it is only going to come when you stop obsessing and focusing so much energy on it. Zealot¡¡
We can talk about consumerism and how much food we waste of your prefer.
Are those signs opposite or something?
So, do these soulmates meet at the mirror points?
So, do these soulmates meet at the mirror points?
Posted by tizianiI like the idea of both. I like to think we have a choice, but destiny is a romantic conceptPosted by christinelovessnickersMaybe so. Honestly I'm not too well-versed on the subject. I'm learning more from listening to you and others talk about it.Posted by tizianiSo, fate isn't set to you or is it just that fate can't be Changed, just the road there?
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
Maybe they due because it is their time. Maybe they reached what they needed to. We just can't see that as outsiders and are devastated by the occurrence.
I just think fate and free will are linked, not exclusive from one another. Astrology is based around the idea both co-exist.click to expand
Posted by tizianiOr just reach a higher state of being lolPosted by christinelovessnickersWe would go crazy 😛Posted by tizianiDude, where do you get this stuff? That sounds crazy and interesting. It damaging how little we know. Can you imagine if we had all of the knowledge?Posted by TeenaWell, not everyone believes that - in monotheist faiths everything happens as it is meant to right? "God's will"Posted by tizianiReally?? People die before their time?? This sounds eerie :/
"Destiny comes in our way??But isn't it supposed to be destiny which bought about such situation in the first place?Or am I reading too much into the destiny thingy?"
I think people have to walk towards their own fate. Fate can be mapped out from day 1, but within that people still have free will to walk as far as they choose along the map.
I think that way because I don't believe we've ever really been able to perfectly account for people dying. Some people die before their time. It's impossible to predict. No guarantees that everyone can complete their destiny in one lifetime.
But metaphysically it's thought that premature loss of life can cause rips in space. And there's a whole load we still don't know about black holes.click to expand
Posted by Vixen2I am so sorry for your loss. Did you think he was similar to you in a lot of ways? Did you post on my commonality thread?Posted by christinelovessnickersDespite all the back and forth on here about meeting people and meeting people online (which I never in a million years thought I would). But I met him right here on DXP 5 years ago. I had been on here a few months and he just came back here one day after a period of exile and he posted this long response to a question....the minute I read it, I felt like an electric shock through my body, just like I described. After a few weeks we pm'd then we took it offline, texting, skyping, calling...after 3 months we met in person ( we met very safely with friends and family knowing my destination and his details etc). We never left each other from then on. We traveled to see one another every other month for a year until I could move to be with him. He was everything my soul was missing. What I lacked, he had and vice versa. I never saw it coming. We went through some rough patches...soulmates have a hard job in holding the mirror to your face and showing you things about yourself that aren't so pretty...Posted by Vixen2What's your experience? How did you meet your "soulmate"?
From my experience and what I've read...
A soulmate comes into your life when you are at peace with yourself and at peace with your life. You are satisfied and know yourself, and have accepted who you are and the life path you were given. You are not looking for them...you are looking for ways to better yourself.
They come when you are least expecting it. And you know right away. You don't have to "see them". You may read something they have written, or just heard them speak on the phone. You will feel an electrical charge throughout your body, your heart will race, and it's just a "omg wow" moment.
He is the love of my life. He had an accident a few months ago so I will have to wait to see him again in the afterlife. Absolutely changed my life in this lifetime.♡click to expand
Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by tizianiWow! I could only imagine how deep that could go. Kudos to you for exploring it. If I had more time I would look into all of this stuff lol
Peter Levine - In An Unspoken Voice - How The Body Releases Trauma and Restores Goodness is the full title 😛
Not that's it's relevant, but it's just a concrete example of how muscle memory etc. is a core 6th house earth issue.
Posted by christinelovessnickersI felt it right away. Then it became intense. Next time if there is another. I know what to do. If there is more than one...who is to say you'll ever come across them.Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by ShaniajamMaybe the next one want be scared of your intensityPosted by christinelovessnickersI felt it right away. Then it became intense. Next time if there is another. I know what to do. If there is more than one...who is to say you'll ever come across them.Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by christinelovessnickersIt depends on where you are in your life cycle. If you and your twin flame are very evolved souls capable of accomplishing something powerful, your twin flame will stay and accomplish it with you. Your twin flame is the other half of you. And you are both meant to accomplish that "something" together. For most people who are not there yet, meeting your twin flame is like being slapped awake, it will cause a lot of confusion and will be too painful to be in a relationship with someone who shows you exactly who you are. So in your early lives it doesn't last that long. The goal is to become closer and closer to your twin flame each life.Posted by CapricornLaurieSo are soulmates meant to last for your lifetime or temporary? I had thought it was the other way around where twin flames were permanent and soulmates were passing.
From what I understand soul mate is someone who belongs with you in this life. It can your friend, your parents, your sibling, s significant other. You can have multiple soulmates. Their purpose is to help you accomplish what you need in this life and vice versa.
A Twin flame is often confused as a soulmate. But often they cannot stay in your life. Meeting your twin flam can feel like touching fire, intense and painful. They are your mirror and they will often show you what is lacking and areas you still need growth.
If you are early in the reincarnation cycle you may not have met that other person but can feel yourself searching for them. If you have met them briefly, that person might always be on your mind for an unknown reason. With each life your connection and growth become better and stronger. When you and your flame are finally at a point of full growth, you can be together but for the purpose of doing something for the better good/serves the universe. together They can accomplish something powerful/world changing. Once accomplished, that will be the end of your reincarnation cycle and your essence/soul can go back to being part of the universe.
That's just the new agey take on soulmates/twin flames. I read a few articles and that's what I took away from it.click to expand
Soulmates are complimentary to you. They give you meaning in the current life you live. Think of the most comfortable easy relationship you have had. Like a sibling, significant other or parent. They are like your cheerleaders in your current life supporting you. They are meant to last a lifetime or be a major character during your lifetime. Soulmates may reappear each life, but they remain cheerleaders.
I believe in soulmates, twin flames etc...
As for your question, i think it happens when you aren't searching for it. It happens organically or naturally. I have witnessed many times that when someone is just living life and doing them, they meet someone. Those that are out actively trying to meet someone, "the one", tend to project so much onto the other person or the illusion is built so much that it's forced. You will try to make the other into what it is you desire and feel you "need" in your life and are essentially setting yourself up to crash and burn.
If you are at a point that you are self sustaining and understand who you truly are, then you won't be doing that projecting.
As for your question, i think it happens when you aren't searching for it. It happens organically or naturally. I have witnessed many times that when someone is just living life and doing them, they meet someone. Those that are out actively trying to meet someone, "the one", tend to project so much onto the other person or the illusion is built so much that it's forced. You will try to make the other into what it is you desire and feel you "need" in your life and are essentially setting yourself up to crash and burn.
If you are at a point that you are self sustaining and understand who you truly are, then you won't be doing that projecting.
Posted by kreolSo it's a maze??Sounds interesting!!!Posted by TeenaIt's more of a realization or eureka moment - the further you go down the rabbit hole, the more you realize you don't know anything after all
No! I didn't come across that.The more I know,the more I don't know?? 😕 But I'm empty : $ Is that a good place to start with??
You've already started, you have a mind capable of forming opinions and to think criticallyclick to expand
Posted by kreolYeah, I have been trying to figure out a new hobby to take on that I can learn and grow from. I am thinking martial arts of some kind.Posted by christinelovessnickersLook inwards to find what you want and need, search your motives. Have an honest relationship with yourself. Tear down barriers real or imagined, preventing you from achieving your desires.Posted by kreolI am not really looking for a specific answer, just honest interpretations and understandings.
I'm not sure this is the answer you're looking for. In the past when I opened myself to idea of receiving love, love as I understood it at the time, I opened my heart to the universe. Asking from a solitary well deep down inside of me, a deep longing, a need that I long neglected. As if manifesting a soul urge I attracted new people in my life, romantic and platonic who showed me love, grew me and taught me how to love. I think we're all soulmates only the nature of the relationship varies. Being human it's a part of our nature to forget our place in the grand scheme of things as we are subject to our physical senses, we fool ourselves into believing we are all alone.That sense of alienation and trauma is passed on down to each of us, throughout the ages and genetically, imposing an external reality that justifies our fears and insecurities. It's hard to break free from this condition because it's all we know seemingly.
I feel ready to be open to love, really open. Maybe I am deceiving myself. I have been feeling like I am lacking passion and intensity right now, on a relationship level. I want and feel I may need some thing to disrupt my life and force me to grow more.
Have an open mind and heart, keep your eyes open for possible connections in the future and in the presentclick to expand
Posted by christinelovessnickersVery good point. ❤ Funny I'm talking to someone and I feel the tension between us without any sex... It's like and Ora... When he's next to me and I know he feels it too ... He's told me not to be afraid to open up and if I fall he will catch me yet I'm scared. So like a true Taurus (sun and moon) I'm double cautious. I'll let you know how it plays out but your words makes me want to be a little bit more open now: better now than later to see how he will take it without much feelings involved.Posted by ShaniajamMaybe the next one want be scared of your intensityPosted by christinelovessnickersI felt it right away. Then it became intense. Next time if there is another. I know what to do. If there is more than one...who is to say you'll ever come across them.Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by ShaniajamFor me, I would rather know what I am getting into and decide to stay than not know. A bit of mystery is good, but you have to have some idea.Posted by christinelovessnickersVery good point. ❤ Funny I'm talking to someone and I feel the tension between us without any sex... It's like and Ora... When he's next to me and I know he feels it too ... He's told me not to be afraid to open up and if I fall he will catch me yet I'm scared. So like a true Taurus (sun and moon) I'm double cautious. I'll let you know how it plays out but your words makes me want to be a little bit more open now: better now than later to see how he will take it without much feelings involved.Posted by ShaniajamMaybe the next one want be scared of your intensityPosted by christinelovessnickersI felt it right away. Then it became intense. Next time if there is another. I know what to do. If there is more than one...who is to say you'll ever come across them.Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
Posted by TeenaPosted by christinelovessnickersMy understanding is we reincarnate many many many times until we are ourselves perfect.I once read we get to live 7 lives. But I also read we keep getting reincarnated till we served our purpose n we got served what we deserved(good n bad)click to expand
If you think of the average earth human as being like a glass filled with damp mud and after each reincarnation we keep the moisture but lose some of the mud (now dry), eventually all you are left with after many many many repeats is a glass containing a drop of pure water.
If you mixed the glass filled with mud with a glass of pure water you would end up with something impure.
Now in order for the universe to exist, whatever created has to be perfect at least from our perspective, so we cannot return back to 'creation' until we ourselves are perfect.
It also should be noted that there are different levels of perfection like there are different quantities or values for infinity.
With regards to meeting our soulmate, if they exist, is down to many factors, timing is one, but our up bringing is another factor, it may have an impact upon how we see that other person and how we behave with them in the relationship.
Posted by AkumoPosted by TeenaI read something on this very similar lines.But this evolving into perfection happens in 7 lives is what I remember reading.N if we have many lives,universe's ultimate scenario is perfection n world has to end at some point.. Will that imply it ends when everything's perfect?Posted by christinelovessnickersMy understanding is we reincarnate many many many times until we are ourselves perfect.I once read we get to live 7 lives. But I also read we keep getting reincarnated till we served our purpose n we got served what we deserved(good n bad)
If you think of the average earth human as being like a glass filled with damp mud and after each reincarnation we keep the moisture but lose some of the mud (now dry), eventually all you are left with after many many many repeats is a glass containing a drop of pure water.
If you mixed the glass filled with mud with a glass of pure water you would end up with something impure.
Now in order for the universe to exist, whatever created has to be perfect at least from our perspective, so we cannot return back to 'creation' until we ourselves are perfect.
It also should be noted that there are different levels of perfection like there are different quantities or values for infinity.
With regards to meeting our soulmate, if they exist, is down to many factors, timing is one, but our up bringing is another factor, it may have an impact upon how we see that other person and how we behave with them in the relationship.click to expand
Posted by HeartI think you may have been the only one to mention that they only want your time and communication flows more easily.
For example (my previous message got cut off), there will always be a dance, where you can nowhere with them. It's always the same drama, same argument. With a soulmate, when there is an argument, you communicate and resolve the issues as a team. And regardless of how flawed you might be, they accept you unconditionally and only ask for your time.
Here is a website that explains karmic, soulmate, and twin flame relationships:
http://www.ultimatetruthofself.com/higher-consciousness/all-about-karmic-relationship-soul-mates-and-twin-flames
Posted by AkumoPosted by Teenamuch more complicated than one would thinkPosted by christinelovessnickersMy understanding is we reincarnate many many many times until we are ourselves perfect.I once read we get to live 7 lives. But I also read we keep getting reincarnated till we served our purpose n we got served what we deserved(good n bad)
If you think of the average earth human as being like a glass filled with damp mud and after each reincarnation we keep the moisture but lose some of the mud (now dry), eventually all you are left with after many many many repeats is a glass containing a drop of pure water.
If you mixed the glass filled with mud with a glass of pure water you would end up with something impure.
Now in order for the universe to exist, whatever created has to be perfect at least from our perspective, so we cannot return back to 'creation' until we ourselves are perfect.
It also should be noted that there are different levels of perfection like there are different quantities or values for infinity.
With regards to meeting our soulmate, if they exist, is down to many factors, timing is one, but our up bringing is another factor, it may have an impact upon how we see that other person and how we behave with them in the relationship.click to expand
Posted by TeenaPosted by Akumois there such a thing as perfection?Posted by TeenaI read something on this very similar lines.But this evolving into perfection happens in 7 lives is what I remember reading.N if we have many lives,universe's ultimate scenario is perfection n world has to end at some point.. Will that imply it ends when everything's perfect?Posted by christinelovessnickersMy understanding is we reincarnate many many many times until we are ourselves perfect.I once read we get to live 7 lives. But I also read we keep getting reincarnated till we served our purpose n we got served what we deserved(good n bad)
If you think of the average earth human as being like a glass filled with damp mud and after each reincarnation we keep the moisture but lose some of the mud (now dry), eventually all you are left with after many many many repeats is a glass containing a drop of pure water.
If you mixed the glass filled with mud with a glass of pure water you would end up with something impure.
Now in order for the universe to exist, whatever created has to be perfect at least from our perspective, so we cannot return back to 'creation' until we ourselves are perfect.
It also should be noted that there are different levels of perfection like there are different quantities or values for infinity.
With regards to meeting our soulmate, if they exist, is down to many factors, timing is one, but our up bringing is another factor, it may have an impact upon how we see that other person and how we behave with them in the relationship.click to expand
Posted by christinelovessnickersSo truePosted by ShaniajamFor me, I would rather know what I am getting into and decide to stay than not know. A bit of mystery is good, but you have to have some idea.Posted by christinelovessnickersVery good point. ❤ Funny I'm talking to someone and I feel the tension between us without any sex... It's like and Ora... When he's next to me and I know he feels it too ... He's told me not to be afraid to open up and if I fall he will catch me yet I'm scared. So like a true Taurus (sun and moon) I'm double cautious. I'll let you know how it plays out but your words makes me want to be a little bit more open now: better now than later to see how he will take it without much feelings involved.Posted by ShaniajamMaybe the next one want be scared of your intensityPosted by christinelovessnickersI felt it right away. Then it became intense. Next time if there is another. I know what to do. If there is more than one...who is to say you'll ever come across them.Posted by ShaniajamDid you know initially or something that grew?Posted by christinelovessnickersYes I keep comparing. They say soul mates are multiple... But I've only found one that just knew me and got me... My clingyness drove him away but I just got crazy for him.... I don't get crazy lol. Since him.... I haven't felt that same urge so.. Maybe il blocking my own feelings now. Who knows lol. I just know when you find them, you know.Posted by ShaniajamDo you find yourself comparing other relationships to that one? Do they feel less fulfilling?
I met my soulmate and we just got each other, but that connection drove me crazy...I became possessive very jealous and almost stalkerish... I never felt that with anyone else... We not together anymore but I always think of him...i have yet to find someone like that. It does exist... I don't think you're ever ready for it though. No I don't think we'll ever be back together (I scared him off). I still think he thinks about me though....I feel it. Weird.
I thought soulmates were often multiple and possibly a reason and a season situation.click to expand
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