Innocent and Pure? Comparing...

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Dianasart
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I've been talking with this guy for a while now, since earlier this year. Nothing serious. He knows about my ex and my problems. He's willing to be 'just friends' if that's what I want in the future which makes me feel calm. He's not pushy or asks for to much.
He's VERY sexually experienced and ??dirty talks?? (which gets REALLY annoying since I don't know how to respond though I do kind of like it so I don—t tell him to stop). I'm on and off about the things we talk about. I just keep thinking of him as a big potty mouth! So I end up liking him less and less, and at the same time, I still like him. :/ Confusing.
Today he called me 'shy', 'innocent', and 'pure' and that it turns him on (more confusing for me :S). Then I remembered that my ex had called me pure and innocent. Is it because I'm inexperienced and SEEM naive (maybe inexperienced but I'm so NOT naive!)? Or is naive easier to take advantage of??
Would guys tell girls they're 'hot' and 'sexy' just to heat them up, make them feel confident for better sex? I would really like to know if guys would ever just throw in nice words for the sake of sex?
Oh, AND is it okay to have sex after the short period of time of knowing one another as long as the intentions are good from both sides?

Anyways, I've made more discoveries about this whole 'insecure-ness' of mine (what can I say, I don't want to be this way, might as well study myself, right?).

I don't find myself very attracted to the guy I speak of (mainly because of his childish, immature humor!??_ I made that sound too harsh ^_^ I guess it's just different from mine. Like, he??d watch —family guy?? and other programs on cartoon network and I??d watch —who??s line is it anyway— and allot of abc family; he reads comics, I read novels, etc.) But I realized I don't feel insecure. Where, my ex, I felt was beYond me (smart, well put together, very physically attractive/handsome, modest, mature, and quiet (I like quiet because I prefer to be the only loud one lol kidding))! I also am able to communicate better with this guy.

He's a Leo, and I??ve always been good with Leos as a Sag myself. And I would really like to know about this whole sun and moon thing. I??ve noticed it in other posts, but I'm not familiar with it.

I don't really know where I'm going with this post. I just want advises and opinions.
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tubbyscubby
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Would guys tell girls they're 'hot' and 'sexy' just to heat them up, make them feel confident for better sex? I would really like to know if guys would ever just throw in nice words for the sake of sex?
uhm, yeah.

Oh, AND is it okay to have sex after the short period of time of knowing one another as long as the intentions are good from both sides?
as an adult, it's ok to have sex whenever you damn well please as long as you're protected and morally, as long as you're both single 😛 but to each his/her own on that last one.

on a side note, i watch adult swim. i'm watching it now as i do every night after midnight...and i watch the nightly reruns too. i consider myself pretty intelligent so not exactly sure why you brought that up.

as far as him being crass, i dunno what to say about that one. my aries beau is a lil crass at times and it doesn't really bother me. ironically, that's one of the things he likes about me. he doesn't have to censor himself. i mean he's the only person i've ever talked about poop with. he's definitely low-brow i a lot of ways and that's part of his charm.

with that said, he's not stupid. things he would say around me or his guy friends, he wouldn't say in mixed company or in public. ok...some of the stuff he might say but overall, he has common sense. i'd say if your leo knows how to turn it on and off in different settings then maybe you need to loosen up? he's just being himself and if that's not good enough for you, you can find the door right?
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ceribdis
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i love to talk dirty to my gurl every chance i get
to show her im into her and her alone hell she died laughing when at lunch one day
i offered to go have sex in the bathroom
granted i did not brodcast it to the hole place she was looking so cute and sexy
that well i wanted her right there on the table
but hell im an aries and well it me being me
and well you like some one for who they are and love them for their flaws
and no we didn't have sexy in the bathroom
i love my baby gurl
because she know i love her for every thing she is
with every thing i am

i love you canceriangoddess 😉