Men Giving Oral Sex Licking The Front & Back?

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@faith$golphin
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If a man gives you oral sex and lick the front and the back why would he pull out a comdem? If men do this to a woman does that means he really like her? How do I get him to continue pleasing me if I won't give him head? Thanks 4 your answers?

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@faith$golphin
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If a man gives you oral sex and lick the front and the back why would he pull out a condom? If men do this to a woman does that means he really like her? How do I get him to continue pleasing me if I won't give him head? Thanks 4 your answers?

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

hopefully he's pulling out a condom to protect u from anything he might have and to not get u pregnant!

i'm pretty sure he likes u to a degree if he's going down on u but him foraging at both ends just means he's kinda freaky.

ur pretty messed up if ur not reciprocating... unless of course there's some kind of agreement between u 2. i mean, i am not personally into giving rim jobs but i would definitely give some primo head!

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18 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by scorpio_chic

Posted by faith $ golphin
If a man gives you oral sex and lick the front and the back why would he pull out a comdem? If men do this to a woman does that means he really like her? How do I get him to continue pleasing me if I won't give him head? Thanks 4 your answers?

why wouldn't he—

Like someone else said, I am sure he likes you. Doesn't necessarily mean that he loves you. He might just be a freak.

Stop being selfish & give that man some head.

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Scorpchic for president.

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@LibrasRule36!
17 Years500+ Posts

Do you want him to have raw sex with you (and possibly expose you or himself to a STD) just because he licked your cooter and butt-hole? Offer him some dental dam if it really concerns you.

Why aren't you returrning the favor in the fellatio department?

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@ramfishtwins
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Does anyone else find her first question beyond confusing?

He would pull out a condom to get his rocks off...especially if you are not giving head. You need to give head, girl...or else he will be outta there quickly!
I don't think the guy would do it if he doesn't like you??

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm sure he likes u a lot if he's givin u some face, sheit. Continue to wear condoms and just try one day to give him some head u might like it. But if ur saving it for a special man I understand.

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Oh and I'd like to add...

"The more than 100 species of bacteria, and hundreds of species of fungi, protozoa, and viruses that have taken up residence in our mouths is difficult to fathom. Microbiologists estimate that, in addition to these known species, there are up to 500 other living, breathing organisms inhabiting our mouths, although only 50 have been identified and named. The sheer number of these creatures is astronomical, considering the fact that our mouths contain more bacteria than the entire world's population, and the fact that our bodies house approximately one trillion bacteria."

source: http://www.coolquiz.com/trivia/explain/docs/mouth.asp
hence why i don't kiss and yet, i'm sure many of you swap spit like it's nobody's business. ever kiss someone hours after they've eaten? you might as well lick a toilet 😛

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

i try to avoid it. not very comfortable do it all. i don't like sloppy kissers and i have a think about saliva that makes me cringe just thinking about it.

plus, i don't like people all in my face. i mean must we breathe the exact same air...literally?

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@Stpatrickspisces
16 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by TasteOfChaos
ewww I know... why would you?
I couldnt do it, or have anyone do it to me... that shit is gross (PUN INTENDED)

LMAO!!! I so agree! I LOVE for a man to go downtown but stay out of the back!!! That is just way too nasty to me!
I actually enjoy giving BJ's and seeing how happy it makes my man! I definitely agree with that you should reciprocate the pleasure when your man goes down then you should as well! :-p

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Well its 11 am for me here. East coaster here.

For the O.P.
No it doesn't necessarily mean he loves you. This is a new day and age. Head comes with sex now, its not reserved for birthday, anniversaries, etc anymore lol ( a blessing and curse lol). Would he pull out a condom?? Are you serious....besides STI's there is a thing called pregnancy, but your logic probably tells you he could've already gotten everything under the sun from eating your ass lmao!! I do believe if you would like to recieve you must give ... at least sometimes. I see if he's one of those uber pleasers and doesnt really want it then you get a free pass (thank god for you! lol)... but after a while it does come off as selfish and will put a strain on your fine young hero, God Bless Him! (besides the strain he's already getting from that neck action!)

For Discussion:
Ass eating....meh. I'm not sure how I would feel about receiving. I think I'll like it physically, but mentally....I probably won't kiss you after...for a while....
Giving is a no go for me...I just can not do the ass. And no Tubby the ass is not apart of the package for many people....but I know its becoming quite popular.

Kissing is a dying art. I'm not one for swapping ANYTHING, but if I'm into you (YOU MUST BE SPECIAL first and foremost lol). I will like you to be a great kisser and understand its fine art.

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

yall are such prudes 😛

he went down there cause he wanted to and it's a compliment to you as you were most likely clean and lickable.

there are men who will head south when a woman is on her cycle. now THAT'S nasty.

if you allow someone's wee in your mouth, it spits things out randomly even before the O now if that touches your tongue, you really don't have standing to go "eeewhew!" besides, you've murdered millions...poor not babies.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm all about open-minded and to each his own.

Personally, I am all about HYGIENE!

I can NOT allow a man to do that during menstruation and believe I will see him ever again lol ....I hear a lot of people do intercourse during that time....ugh, I feel so ewww at that time of the month so I can't fathom doing that either....maybe the last day or something.

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

it's called red-wings. never had it done to me but had a girlfriend who dated a guy who did it on occasion. makes me ill just thinkin bout it.

and as far as doing it on your cycle, i used to think it was gross to until a friend of mine told me that it's relieves cramps.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh yeah orgasms are great for cramps...but there are other less dramatic means for myself to achieve the O...
I'm actually very horny the week prior and during (when I'm not cramping and bloated).

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

@Lady - i think that's what makes doing it during that time so...uhm...how do i put this? you're not in the mood but biologically, your body actually is. as my friend said, don't knock it till you've tried it as it can make all the first day cycle whoas go buh-bye.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

lol....I'm just saying. Its a no go for me at the moment, maybe it will change, but highly unlikely.

I juat controlled a few posters...auctioned off a few guys here and there. lol

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@tubbyscubby
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by scorpio_chic

I don't like to have my backside licked. :/ It made me feel violated.

I turned around like WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?? And I broke up with him after that. That was a traumatizing experience.

never said i liked it 😛

didn't much care either way though.

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@virgodreamz
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by faith $ golphin
If a man gives you oral sex and lick the front and the back why would he pull out a comdem?

Did he pull out a condom for intercourse? Maybe he's not worried about STDs but wanted to prevent pregnancy

Posted by faith $ golphin
If men do this to a woman does that means he really like her?

No I don't think what a man is willing to do with a woman sexually proves much as far as wether or not he likes her.

Posted by faith $ golphin
How do I get him to continue pleasing me if I won't give him head?

Depends on his personality. You might not have to do anything. Some men will take what they can get.
If not I guess you can always find another man who will do what you want without you having to do what he wants.

Posted by faith $ golphin
Thanks 4 your answers?

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You're welcome 🙂

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