Is he just taking me as a friend ?

So me and this guy been hanging out and keep in touch for few months. Most of the time, he is the one who texted me first and also been double texting me ( we will have goodnight and morning text but not everyday ). He also asked me out for hiking, wanna sign up some classes with me together,drinking with his friends and movie date. So, I read an article online saying that guys being initiative to you and tease you doesn’t means he likes you. Is it true for you guys? Is he just taking me as a close friend ? Or he actually have feelings toward me ?

Posted by oneday
I think he has interest in you otherwise he wouldn't put so much effort in wanting to spend time with you. Some men like to bond before coming forward with emotions.

How does he act toward you, or how does he communicate with you? Any indications he may like you?

I think a guy teasing you is a sign he likes you as well.

Do you happen to know his sign?

He is a Leo man.

He always share his new idea on property investment, dreams, cars with me.

I just came back from cambodia ( almost away for a month ) few days ago and we went out and had a drinks last night. He was keep telling me to come back as soon as possible, and he will pick me up if he is free. I told him I cant wait to go back and he says “ yes I know, to see your best friend but not me “ Beginning of the date was good, chit chatting and laughing, but I don’t like the last part that he was playing his phone and asking his friends out for drinking after our date. ( even thought he showed me the conversation between them ) ended up the friend didn’t make it and we both drink till late.

So today his texts are short and boring. At first I thought I might did something wrong, then later at the end of the day he texted me and said he just got home and was meeting and entertaining the business partner since noon.

He also like to advise and correct me if he sees me did something wrong, and he also want me to keep working out and work harder on my golf. He said just to make you a better person.

My friend did advise me and said that might be a way of him treating his friend

Posted by oneday

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Posted by oneday
I think he has interest in you otherwise he wouldn't put so much effort in wanting to spend time with you. Some men like to bond before coming forward with emotions.

How does he act toward you, or how does he communicate with you? Any indications he may like you?

I think a guy teasing you is a sign he likes you as well.

Do you happen to know his sign?

He is a Leo man.

He always share his new idea on property investment, dreams, cars with me.

I just came back from cambodia ( almost away for a month ) few days ago and we went out and had a drinks last night. He was keep telling me to come back as soon as possible, and he will pick me up if he is free. I told him I cant wait to go back and he says “ yes I know, to see your best friend but not me “ Beginning of the date was good, chit chatting and laughing, but I don’t like the last part that he was playing his phone and asking his friends out for drinking after our date. ( even thought he showed me the conversation between them ) ended up the friend didn’t make it and we both drink till late.

So today his texts are short and boring. At first I thought I might did something wrong, then later at the end of the day he texted me and said he just got home and was meeting and entertaining the business partner since noon.

He also like to advise and correct me if he sees me did something wrong, and he also want me to keep working out and work harder on my golf. He said just to make you a better person.

My friend did advise me and said that might be a way of him treating his friend

As me being a Leo myself, although I am a woman... I do not hangout with the opposite sex going out together alot unless I have an interest in them more than friends.

I think him saying for you to work on yourself he is just being positive and supportive, wants you to feel good and do good. And I always tease people I like. Have you tried asking him if he has feelings? What is your sign as well?

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I’m a Virgo. I dis asked before whether he has feelings but he said he sees himself as a good friend and this is 2 months plus ago. After that, we stopped texting each other for a week when he was at Bangkok for golf. When he is back, he texted me and ask me out for golf and lunch. He acted different way after this. He started to double text me, send me morning text and ask me out quite often. We usually see each other at least once a week. He brought me to meet his close friends, even his close friends always teasing us to be together. He once told me that all his friends are asking whether am I’m his gf ( cause he is bringing me out quite often to meet them )

That’s why I’m confusing as he said he sees himself as a good friend before.

I guess it is. I can feel that he is being more caring. Is there anything I should take care more ? Or anything not to do to push him away ?

Sometimes it happened that I don’t like to reply him fast or even ignore his texts.

Thanks for your replies 🙂