Okay so I went out on New Year’s Eve with a bunch of friends are there was this new guy that came with us I knew him but not very well so when I walked in to the club the first person I just happened to see was my ex and he then turned around to the new girl he’s with and started eating at her neck and all she could do was look at me horrifically not even enjoying him doing it so I showed no emotion to them and went on with my business even tho it killed me inside and I was extremely jealous too but I’m trying to get over him. Then later that night I ended up getting with that new guy in our group and he told me that he used to be friends with my ex but fell out with him weeks ago. So my ex happened to see me with this guy too. I was told by my friends that “I won” because I had never contacted him begging for him back and he went with a new girl a week after he broke up with me anyway. So they said he’s probably going crazy with himself because I haven’t filled his ego with me running back. Anyway what’s your opinion on this why would he feel the need to get to me like that when he was the one that broke up with me?
Is my ex trying to make me jealous??

It was a jerk reaction. Something in his lizard (primitive) brain triggered it. "Look, ex! Eat someone, quickly!"
I don't think it means anything worth pondering about.
I don't think it means anything worth pondering about.

Too many games

It’s always hard to not feel something for an ex when the breakup is rather new. Eventually you’ll both move on
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