@hellosaggy
9 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
Ladies what kind of body do you honestly prefer
I like best strong men with well defined muscles but not bulky. Six pack is really nice but for sure it’s wouldn’t be a must. Wide shoulders is a plus.
I’ve always liked skinny guys. Only dated one muscular guy and he was hot. Then my current aqua looks average in clothes, but surprised me with being a bit thicker than I’ve ever dated before. Omg I love it. I think he has a Dad bod.
Tall 🙏🏼 180 cm+
My hubby is 186cm and him being tall + his abs and stunning face makes my knees weak and drops my panties. He is more on the athletic side and not wide or super toned - he's just perfect for me and picks me up like a real man dragging me to his cave lol
I'm short, 155cm so that makes me feel vulnerable. Big plus!
if he's got good swag and everything else checks out it doesn't matter but broad shoulders and slim hips and he can have a little belly I don't mind - as long as he can kick it in the bedroom
I have to be attracted to his hands as well - that is a big one for me
I like more of a natural look. Muscles are nice but not to the point where your seeing veins and stuff. I prefer his top hobbies to be fucking me..., not being a slave to the gym.
Posted by tctao
if he's got good swag and everything else checks out it doesn't matter but broad shoulders and slim hips and he can have a little belly I don't mind - as long as he can kick it in the bedroomI have to be attracted to his hands as well - that is a big one for me
Yeah I’m insanely attracted to a dudes hands too. Idk why
Tall and thick. Borderline chunky.
Went on a date with a husky aries guy last night and could not keep my eyes of him.
Im thick and tall as well I have no problems finding dates 😃
Posted by tctao
if he's got good swag and everything else checks out it doesn't matter but broad shoulders and slim hips and he can have a little belly I don't mind - as long as he can kick it in the bedroomI have to be attracted to his hands as well - that is a big one for me
Yeah I’m insanely attracted to a dudes hands too. Idk why
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ikr - well idk why either - but if I don't like his hands it ain't happening lol
Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Preference ≠ "must have", let's just be clear.I prefer men who are tall or at least on the tall side. Meaning, I don't want to be taller than him if I decide to wear heels.
I like a man who's in shape with muscle definition, but not overly muscular.
Body builder types/"gym rats" turn me off.
Also, I like big hands and a nice booty...( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
yeah I've had a few body builders and although they are nice to look at - I don't have to have all that - I don't think women are as visual cause it seems we just have "preferences" rather than more solid "must haves" and don't get me started on man booty - if I like him, then his booty is attractive to me no matter what it looks like but I've had some nice boo tah lol ... slurp and drool !
Big feet 😉
tall
strong back
muscular w/tatts
ass you can bounce a quarter on
HEALTHY, too!
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Marc fitt has a good look in my opinion. He’s not bulky. It’s an athletic build with a low double digit body fat. That’s probably 8 hours in the gym a week with a partner and a decent diet.
A Dad Bod
Lean...gym guys turn me off
Tallish
Black hair, beard, green eyes
Gypsy look
😍
What is this hand shit?!?
What about hands?
My nails are manicured.. and my hands are soft... I do have calluses from pull ups and lifting but I try to keep them as smooth as possible I try to remember to wear gloves.
My hands are softer than some women lol
If you would meet me in the street like this, would you say i'm skinny or i have some muscle?
I’d say some muscle... not really built . That’s a bulky jacket and scarf takes up some volume too.
If you would meet me in the street like this, would you say i'm skinny or i have some muscle?
I’d say some muscle... not really built . That’s a bulky jacket and scarf takes up some volume too.
yup, in winter i cover myself good, even summer if i wear bigger clothes i don't really look big, but if i get my size or without it, look something like this 😄
i wonder is this cosidered gym rat or not? Because i don't really go to the gym.. 😄
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same here man. I like abs... but hate maintaining them. I rather have the shadow and do what I want.
you got good size on you. I was in the gym building my size. I was lifting heavy as hell for about 2 years.... I'm not trying to get any bigger anymore
me personally, I spend tops 25-30 min every other day or so working out... and its mainly planks, pull-ups and push ups, kettle bell swings... I just want the look now. I can do it at home. I don't need to bench 315 for 5 sets of 5 anymore. or 10 sets of 225 for 10 reps. I don't need that kind of strength. and the food for it the energy.
... I do hit gym for dead lifts and squats...and that's still only 30 min.
I do train some people so if they want me to go, I'll go get a smoothie and take them through a few routines, and spot....I might do a set here and there to feel the weight again but other than that I try to avoid.
I don't see what the hang up is on a guy working out 4-5 hours a week.
If you would meet me in the street like this, would you say i'm skinny or i have some muscle?
I’d say some muscle... not really built . That’s a bulky jacket and scarf takes up some volume too.
yup, in winter i cover myself good, even summer if i wear bigger clothes i don't really look big, but if i get my size or without it, look something like this 😄
i wonder is this cosidered gym rat or not? Because i don't really go to the gym.. 😄
same here man. I like abs... but hate maintaining them. I rather have the shadow and do what I want.
you got good size on you. I was in the gym building my size. I was lifting heavy as hell for about 2 years.... I'm not trying to get any bigger anymore
me personally, I spend tops 25-30 min every other day or so working out... and its mainly planks, pull-ups and push ups, kettle bell swings... I just want the look now. I can do it at home. I don't need to bench 315 for 5 sets of 5 anymore. or 10 sets of 225 for 10 reps. I don't need that kind of strength. and the food for it the energy.
... I do hit gym for dead lifts and squats...and that's still only 30 min.
I do train some people so if they want me to go, I'll go get a smoothie and take them through a few routines, and spot....I might do a set here and there to feel the weight again but other than that I try to avoid.
I don't see what the hang up is on a guy working out 4-5 hours a week.
Well i train as much as i want really, i don't put time on it... I reaaally love it, but the thing is it's not the gym, i train outside and in my home... I'll be visiting a boxing gym i love that sport.... I made some things in my house to train my reflexes, eyesight, coordination , movement and so on, it's not really training, well it is, but it's fun, learning to juggle, trying to see things quicker and counting and so on. I'm fascinated about human movement, and how body works, how to improve everything, i also love psychology because that's part of a growing process. 😄 I also work as a personal coach, started like 2month's ago.. 😄 It's the thing i love to do, helping people to feel better, to look better, whatever they want you know, somehow that makes me happy, helping others while improving my knowledge and experience is one hell of a way to live. I have big goals and if i can do it i'll make even more people active, healthy and confident in themselves. I just want to spread positive and healthy vibe around as many people as i can 😄
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That's cool man! I do it too. even if the women say they prefer a dad bod... men prefer to have muscle and a muscular/athletic look is really optimal. You are like a walking billboard and people legitimately come to you for advice, its good that you share it.
I just know with my schedule I'm not putting in a lot of time. I mainly just do a circuit of 50 push-ups, 10 pull-ups, a 1.5 minute plank and 25 kettle bell swings, 5 times, . just doesn't take that long. its 5 minutes of straight work and then 1 minute rest.
but I like to play sports.. soccer, American football, I tore my left knee ACL in March so running is currently out while I'm rehabbing
Posted by hellosaggy
I was out on another date tonight. (side note from: @caramelizedcoffee she was a black girl from Zambia)anyway.... I told her I would pick her up from her place and we could ride to restaurant together (I'm totally out of places I know I like I can take new girls so I just took her to one of my go to spots like 25 minutes out)
We were talking.. It was a warm day like 60 degrees so I just had a tshirt with a nice jacket some fitted jeans and some motorcycle boots on. I call her let her know I'm outside, walk her to the car open her door etc. gentleman stuff.
we talk mainly I ask her questions and return some quips back she's laughing having a good time etc. get a little drunk and flirty she tells me she's never dated a guy with muscles and abs and stuff. She was shocked I was 34, and I told her well no family, wife, kids, etc. I just work and work out.
She asked me if I was a gigolo and I had to laugh and said it depended if she was planning on paying for dinner. she laughed... but I was kinda serious...
Anywho... What type of bodies do ya'll prefer. I mean I work out for me. but I want you to eye bang me too, so if the 'Dad bod' is truly in, then I'll just go eat stuff I enjoy more often because trying to stay lean with abs is a PITA.
Me as a guy.... I like all different kinds of body types. most of my ex's have been athletic/bikini type, but I like skinny, average, and slightly thick girls too.
I like guys with some meat on their bones 😄 the hugs are the best, always feel safe and taken care of.
Posted by hellosaggy
I was out on another date tonight. (side note from: @caramelizedcoffee she was a black girl from Zambia)anyway.... I told her I would pick her up from her place and we could ride to restaurant together (I'm totally out of places I know I like I can take new girls so I just took her to one of my go to spots like 25 minutes out)
We were talking.. It was a warm day like 60 degrees so I just had a tshirt with a nice jacket some fitted jeans and some motorcycle boots on. I call her let her know I'm outside, walk her to the car open her door etc. gentleman stuff.
we talk mainly I ask her questions and return some quips back she's laughing having a good time etc. get a little drunk and flirty she tells me she's never dated a guy with muscles and abs and stuff. She was shocked I was 34, and I told her well no family, wife, kids, etc. I just work and work out.
She asked me if I was a gigolo and I had to laugh and said it depended if she was planning on paying for dinner. she laughed... but I was kinda serious...
Anywho... What type of bodies do ya'll prefer. I mean I work out for me. but I want you to eye bang me too, so if the 'Dad bod' is truly in, then I'll just go eat stuff I enjoy more often because trying to stay lean with abs is a PITA.
Me as a guy.... I like all different kinds of body types. most of my ex's have been athletic/bikini type, but I like skinny, average, and slightly thick girls too.
My whole life liked smaller than me men so I can hug and have my hands meet on his back!
Married total opposite! 6’2” with belly!
I think you have to let it GO! Just think of when you meet - is there spark? If not you can try and ignite. If impossible - move to the next...whatever body type until it feels right!
You might like an ass and she is flat but YOU DONT CARE!
Or she seems all boobs and ass but she talks like an idiot!
Relax! Explore! You’ll know when it’s yours! I promise! ❤️
Lean and fit not too much muscle. No muffin tops and I don’t like somalian legs.
Say no to the "DAD BODS"
I prefer a man who is in physical shape.
This is not a shallow preference, but an equal opportunity preference.
I am in great physical shape, I expect the same from him.
Muscular
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I was out on another date tonight. (side note from: @caramelizedcoffee she was a black girl from Zambia)
anyway.... I told her I would pick her up from her place and we could ride to restaurant together (I'm totally out of places I know I like I can take new girls so I just took her to one of my go to spots like 25 minutes out)
We were talking.. It was a warm day like 60 degrees so I just had a tshirt with a nice jacket some fitted jeans and some motorcycle boots on. I call her let her know I'm outside, walk her to the car open her door etc. gentleman stuff.
we talk mainly I ask her questions and return some quips back she's laughing having a good time etc. get a little drunk and flirty she tells me she's never dated a guy with muscles and abs and stuff. She was shocked I was 34, and I told her well no family, wife, kids, etc. I just work and work out.
She asked me if I was a gigolo and I had to laugh and said it depended if she was planning on paying for dinner. she laughed... but I was kinda serious...
Anywho... What type of bodies do ya'll prefer. I mean I work out for me. but I want you to eye bang me too, so if the 'Dad bod' is truly in, then I'll just go eat stuff I enjoy more often because trying to stay lean with abs is a PITA.
Me as a guy.... I like all different kinds of body types. most of my ex's have been athletic/bikini type, but I like skinny, average, and slightly thick girls too.