On Soulmates....

.....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read .... “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back,
MyStarsShineDecember 12, 2017 12:42pm
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  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    .....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read ....




    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

    ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love
  • FishyDude
    Pisces sun, Scorpio moon, Cap rising
    38 years old male
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    .....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read ....




    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

    ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love


    That's a reality check, I had a different idea of a soul mate.
  • AriesJo
    Aries Sun, Aries Moon, Capricorn Rising

    I have a completely different idea too
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    .....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read ....




    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

    ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love


    Have always felt this way but could apply equally well to a relationship with a psychopath.
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Sadly, I was deluded for a long time.......oh Neptune Sun, the great deceiver

    Luckily I found out a few years ago...

    Rosy
    Tinted
    Specs

    Well and truly off

    lol
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Posted by Metatron
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    .....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read ....




    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

    ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love


    Have always felt this way but could apply equally well to a relationship with a psychopath.
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    Or any human being lol

    We are all flawed ...
  • Posted by MyStarsShine
    .....for anyone who thinks differently, this is grounding to read ....




    “People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

    A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

    A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”

    ― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love


    Yes its true. Your re the greatest teacher of each other
  • Snaps fingers in poetic approval.
  • FishyDude
    Pisces sun, Scorpio moon, Cap rising
    38 years old male
    Posted by Koniuchaa
    This sounds more of like a twin flame thing, if you believe in that

    Soulmate is different, I feel


    What's the difference between a soul mate and a twin flame? 🤔

  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    I try not to go for the different labels but have had to learn over the years not to be deluded with what I believed was the happily ever after thing

    It isn't like that at all for a lot of people
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Posted by LibraMudra
    Angry


    Tough gig miss

    ...especially for Libra energy

    😥
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Posted by LibraMudra
    Posted by MyStarsShine
    Posted by LibraMudra
    Angry


    Tough gig miss

    ...especially for Libra energy

    😥


    I think I've handled quite well with tremendous strength, actually. Maybe I broke down the first couple weeks in the initial separation but I see the reasoning for it all. And I know when it's time to end. Have to thank him for all that I learned. And the exes before him.
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    I think you are a truly amazing lady and as I said before .... Lots of good things coming to you smile

    I pulled a card for you ~

    *Family Harmony*

    Lovely card to pull for Christmas, you have your priorities right and life will reward you for that
    All is well dear lady xxx
  • MyStarsShine
    Venus ruled, Star gazing Scorpio with Moon in Taurus
    Posted by Capmercury87
    Either way my soul mates stuck with me forever.
    Buahahaha


    ""Soulmates""....how many do you have?

    Tongue
  • Mutabull
    female
    Posted by Koniuchaa
    This sounds more of like a twin flame thing, if you believe in that

    Soulmate is different, I feel


    I was thinking the same thing..have always heard/read the Twin Flame is the mirror, not meant to be forever, just to teach you. If they exist, which i do think, I’ve had mine and it’s very painful, but also amazing because of the growth.

  • TheLadyScorpio
    She loved mysteries so much that she became one.
    from a figment of your imagination.
    I agree.

    A relationship is not about needing one another, but choosing one another as a companion on this wild and crazy journey of life.

    To need, is to be co-dependant. The key is to remain yourself, to remain an independent individual. If the very essence that makes up who you are, is lost. Then hope no longer remains.

    Why inflict such pain on oneself ?

    The relationship should not replace who you are. If you cannot wake up, walk away, and stand on your own two feet, without the other. Then it should not be a relationship in which one should ever be in.

    A relationship = to be together ≠ merging as one.

    Romantic notions are wonderful, but they never last. Reality always come knocking on the door.

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