Are you wondering why your relationships keep failing? What do all of these guys/gals have in common? YOU!!!!!! STOP THE INSANITY. It's because you keep bringing the same baggage to different relationships, expecting a different result...insanity.
You don't keep meeting the same person over & over, everybody in this world is different & is not akin to the other, but when you keep doing the same bullshit you did in your last relationship, you are doomed & you will never, EVER have a successful relationship until you stop the madness.
Stop hopping in & out of relationships/rebounding, & take a looooooooooong, deeeeeeeeeeeeeep, look within yourself to see what you need to work on. Even if you do take time to re-evaluate, you happen to meet someone you like & then BOOM!!! It fucks up again! Why? Because you still didn't GET IT. You may have did some self evaluation, but you did not apply it to the current situation & you start to repeat the dumb shit you did previously & before you know it you're having the same problems again. That's why there are threads like, "does he/she love me", "will he contact me again", "disappearing again", etc. Get my drift?
STOP IT NOW. The universe will keep bringing the same situation to you over & over & over until you GET IT. Take your time, go slow, & DO NOT attempt to get into a relationship until you're ready to start fresh. FRESH!! A clean slate!!!
So people, it's not them...IT'S YOU. Get it together. 🙂
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You don't keep meeting the same person over & over, everybody in this world is different & is not akin to the other, but when you keep doing the same bullshit you did in your last relationship, you are doomed & you will never, EVER have a successful relationship until you stop the madness.
Stop hopping in & out of relationships/rebounding, & take a looooooooooong, deeeeeeeeeeeeeep, look within yourself to see what you need to work on. Even if you do take time to re-evaluate, you happen to meet someone you like & then BOOM!!! It fucks up again! Why? Because you still didn't GET IT. You may have did some self evaluation, but you did not apply it to the current situation & you start to repeat the dumb shit you did previously & before you know it you're having the same problems again. That's why there are threads like, "does he/she love me", "will he contact me again", "disappearing again", etc. Get my drift?
STOP IT NOW. The universe will keep bringing the same situation to you over & over & over until you GET IT. Take your time, go slow, & DO NOT attempt to get into a relationship until you're ready to start fresh. FRESH!! A clean slate!!!
So people, it's not them...IT'S YOU. Get it together. 🙂