Lying

Is it ever "okay" within the context of dating, relationships, or marriages?

Please elaborate.

Posted by Reciprocity8

Is it ever "okay" within the context of dating, relationships, or marriages?

Please elaborate.

It's not "ok" within the context of anything

Posted by JustBrowsing

If I'm not in the mood to go out, I'll say something to gently bring down my lady.

If it's something like: are you married, separated, or divorced - I better get a straight answer.

We all lie, it's just a matter of degree.

My sentiments exactly.

Men always ask questions that I swear they want to be lied to about.

"Did you cum?"; "Am I the best you've ever had?"; "Am I the biggest you've ever had?"; "What do I have to do to win your heart?"

I tell the truth, but I always feel awful about it...because my honesty is clearly not received well or appreciated.

Posted by Amour

Posted by Reciprocity8

Posted by JustBrowsing

If I'm not in the mood to go out, I'll say something to gently bring down my lady.

If it's something like: are you married, separated, or divorced - I better get a straight answer.

We all lie, it's just a matter of degree.

My sentiments exactly.

Men always ask questions that I swear they want to be lied to about.

"Did you cum?"; "Am I the best you've ever had?"; "Am I the biggest you've ever had?"; "What do I have to do to win your heart?"

I tell the truth, but I always feel awful about it...because my honesty is clearly not received well or appreciated.

I think being honest is so attractive in a way, cannot describe it.

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I wish more people felt this way.

I've lost count of the times I've been called heartless. And my delivery isn't even mean-spirited at all.

"No, I didn't cum...but it's really difficult for me to cum solely with penetration. Don't feel bad...I swear, this is completely normal."

"No, you aren't the best I've ever had. But, in your defense, I was in love at the time and I can't definitively say he was "my best" purely because of performance. But, you did great!"

"No, you're not the biggest. But I prefer average or slightly smaller than average. I'm petite...a ginormous pork sword will likely kill me."

"There's nothing you can do or say. I just don't feel anything for you in that way, and I don't want to drag you along under the guise of friends, either."

No.

The last question was posed by someone I just didn't have chemistry with. He was really sweet, but it just wasn't there. He took my lack of interest as me playing "hard to get". For 8 years he tried on-and-off. Until he finally snapped and told me he hated me and hoped I ended up alone in life.

I don't regret being honest...and I think lying in this situation would have made matters worse, actually...but I'm convinced people lie a lot more than they're ready or willing to admit.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Her: “Does my ass look big in this?”

Him: “No, of course not.”

Her: “Do you think I’m being unreasonable about that bitch Tracy in accounts?”

Him: “No, of course not.”

😆

I'd actually appreciate if my partner told me I was looking fluffy. But, he'd better come with solutions and not be mean-spirited. Even better if it's a collaborative effort.

On a side note: big asses are revered around here. I used to tell my ex-husband in a warning tone that he was losing his butt with his excessive running. Me no likey noassatall.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Her: “Does my ass look big in this?”

Him: “No, of course not.”

Her: “Do you think I’m being unreasonable about that bitch Tracy in accounts?”

Him: “No, of course not.”

Maybe it's just how I work but I can't help it, I would play with her mind a little, to make her angry yet unsure whether I am just joking or not, which might lead to angry intercourse later that day.

1. Yeah, it does, that's why I married you

2. Tracy, what Tracy? Oh yeah, that Tracy, yeah.. she is giving me some long glances as if I were her dinner or so. I feel like a piece of bread.

Once a guy asked me if he was the biggest I’ve ever had.

I didn’t lie and said, “Um no, but it/he was great.” He was kind of upset in the moment. But I thought he got over it. Later in an argument he said I said “he was small.” I looked at him and for the life of me could not remember what he was talking about because I never said he was small. But then realized he asked me if he was the biggest. 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️

Now I think should I have lied? That relationship ended.

In what context?

Yes in some circumstances