@Reciprocity8
7 Years
Cheating
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
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Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
Sticking his penis in her. Kissing her.
If you and your significant other have established exclusiveness, and there's anybody else involved in the relationship that is considered cheating.
If there's another woman who you're sharing feelings with and talking to on an emotional level, I consider that cheating. Obviously if you stick your dick in somebody else's pussy that's cheating.
If it's anything that your significant other would probably get upset about then it's most likely cheating
Eye wondering
Laughing at another female joke
Holding the door for another female..
Lmao
😂😂😂😂🤣
Nah, I'm playing
Eye wondering
Laughing at another female joke
Holding the door for another female..
Lmao
😂😂😂😂🤣
Nah, I'm playing
Lol i was going to say. Thats a lil crayyyy
Any contact non-anal relating.
Cheating begins with entertaining the thought of DOING anything with another woman, that would bring shame to me, as the girlfriend/fiance/wife.
Outside the obvious like physical sexual contact with someone not me...
When it comes to the emotional thing...for me its about intent.
Flirting, friendliness, etc. Not bothered.
Flirting, friendliness where you get her digits and pursue. Hard swerve.
Also not cool with webcams, private room dances (aka bjs), or 'platonic' sleepovers with other females. K thanks.
Physical sexual acts.
Whenever your conscience starts shouting into your ear.
Golden rule of thumb is if you are hiding or keeping it from your SO, its prolly shady and you prolly should stop.
Unless you are planning my bday surprise in which case, you better one up yourself from last year. JS.
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
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Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
i dont know, ask all the people that are married that aren't really into their wifey/hubby
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Lol, well, as of right now I only have you to ask my dear...😉
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
i dont know, ask all the people that are married that aren't really into their wifey/hubby
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I actually know a lot of people that are currently in this situation, and that's what incited the creation of the thread.
It's so disheartening. Because they're clearly being disloyal, but the way they rationalize it is just...astounding.
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
i dont know, ask all the people that are married that aren't really into their wifey/hubby
I actually know a lot of people that are currently in this situation, and that's what incited the creation of the thread.
It's so disheartening. Because they're clearly being disloyal, but the way they rationalize it is just...astounding.
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Yeah, i hope im never in that position. I hope that if i ever felt like that, I or my partner would be honest and leave.
I understand it being harder when you are married and so interwoven togther. Financial burdens, family struggles...it gets messy.
Dont marry unless its forr real wal and you can weather the storms that are ahead. Without looking else where for validation.
I've never been married tho, so what do i know?
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
i dont know, ask all the people that are married that aren't really into their wifey/hubby
I actually know a lot of people that are currently in this situation, and that's what incited the creation of the thread.
It's so disheartening. Because they're clearly being disloyal, but the way they rationalize it is just...astounding.
Yeah, i hope im never in that position. I hope that if i ever feltnlike that, I or my partner would be honest and leave.
I understand it being harder when you are married and ao interwoven togther. Finavial burdens, family struggles...it gets messy.
Dobt marry unless ita forrwal and you can weather the storms that are ahead. Without looking else where for validation.
Ive never been married tho, so what do i know?
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You're definitely wiser than a lot of people and your heart/mind is in the right place.
I've been married. My ex-husband and I went through a lot together. We met in the military and both suffered from PTSD. That, coupled with both of us being young and romantically inexperienced, it was a recipe for disaster. We were married for just over 5 years. The last three, I spent celibate.
I asked for us to go to therapy, which he refused. When I brought up divorce, he actually first suggested I take up a lover. He told me I could do whatever I wanted and all he asked is that we stay married.
Hellllll mf no. I couldn't do that to the sanctity of marriage. I couldn't do that to my daughter. I couldn't do that to myself...and I couldn't do that to him. I chose to leave instead.
I had every reason/excuse in the world to cheat...and I didn't. Someday, I'll find someone that can appreciate that.
if im in love, even looking at another woman will make me jealous
if i dont care
you can fuk a dog and i wont blink an eye
Why be in a relationship where you don't even care tho?
aren't most people
how does one fall in love more than 1 or 2 times in life?
Im not saying lov3w. But there has to be some sort of investment no?
Idk, I've never dated for the hell of it.
if my heart is not captured nothing else is captured
Like i said, then whats the point? Go find the person to capture your heart.
i dont know, ask all the people that are married that aren't really into their wifey/hubby
I actually know a lot of people that are currently in this situation, and that's what incited the creation of the thread.
It's so disheartening. Because they're clearly being disloyal, but the way they rationalize it is just...astounding.
Yeah, i hope im never in that position. I hope that if i ever feltnlike that, I or my partner would be honest and leave.
I understand it being harder when you are married and ao interwoven togther. Finavial burdens, family struggles...it gets messy.
Dobt marry unless ita forrwal and you can weather the storms that are ahead. Without looking else where for validation.
Ive never been married tho, so what do i know?
You're definitely wiser than a lot of people and your heart/mind is in the right place.
I've been married. My ex-husband and I went through a lot together. We met in the military and both suffered from PTSD. That, coupled with both of us being young and romantically inexperienced, it was a recipe for disaster. We were married for just over 5 years. The last three, I spent celibate.
I asked for us to go to therapy, which he refused. When I brought up divorce, he actually first suggested I take up a lover. He told me I could do whatever I wanted and all he asked is that we stay married.
Hellllll mf no. I couldn't do that to the sanctity of marriage. I couldn't do that to my daughter. I couldn't do that to myself...and I couldn't do that to him. I chose to leave instead.
I had every reason/excuse in the world to cheat...and I didn't. Someday, I'll find someone that can appreciate that.
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That must have been hard to go through,but commend you for honoring marr4age and your daugther.
If given the same option, i think i would do as you did. When I marry, its for love and devotion. Im extremely loyal and even given the opportunity i wouldnt want it. I would only want my husband.
The person i made that vow to.
I also think cheating is taboo so some find it "sexy" and "exhilarating "...but if its in the open and allowed, i dont think people would. It plays on the psyche you know?
What constitutes cheating for you?
Clarify if it's within the context of dating, in a relationship, or marriage.
Relationship/Marriage: If you can not comfortably do whatever it is you're doing in front of me out of fear we will have an issue, then you've either crossed a line or getting dangerously close to crossing it.
Dating: I couldn't care less what you do. That's the point of dating. Freedom and fun.
Capricorn was at my desk again this morning. We are the 1st to arrive at work. He gets on my ever-lasting nerves!
So, he told me he has a girlfriend. So, thought he'd leave me alone. But no, mutherfucker starta talking about how perfect a spouse he is. He has no flaws. Before, it was how much property he owns.
So, I bust his fucking bubble... how about looking at other women? He starts, "there's nothing wrong with admiring..." I say flirting, "It's innocent..." I told him each time that my husband doesn't look at other women or flirt. He's in disbelief.
So, I start to tighten the screws of how imperfect he is until the chair he is sitting in apparantly becomes too hot for his ass and he gets THE FUCK out my office!!!
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Clarify if it's within the context of dating, in a relationship, or marriage.