MEN: How Long—??

Ok, for the men...."Hypothetically" speaking: If you were at a point in your life to were you were actually looking for a wife, how long would you want her to hold out on sex? (And this is looking for a wife, not just a girlfriend)

Excellent question, very curious to know the answer to this one.

SouthernT: "Ok, for the men...."Hypothetically" speaking: If you were at a point in your life to were you were actually looking for a wife, how long would you want her to hold out on sex? (And this is looking for a wife, not just a girlfriend)"
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Hi ma'am,

I don't really see it as a test: "Okay, you've passed the 45 day mark! You win a prize!". Though I will admit, I've put value in a chic I'm into that won't give it up so easily at the start. It really depended on the gal and my chemistry with her. Just remember...there's a very fine line between playing hard to get and coming off uninterested.

Luckystar: "what about "girlfriend" category?"
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Hi ma'am,

Perhaps its just the whole virgo-bachelor style but for me, I don't really plan it out so it's one in the same for me. She's either someone thats special to me or something casual. If she's special to me, then it could progress into being a girlfriend (God I hate labels 😛 ), then I guess someday move further (I've never been married so take all of this with a grain of salt).

The most planning I'll ever do is...
1. Meet someone and start a conversation
2. See if she has a wedding ring on
3. Let it roll from there.

I have to agree with VirgoHero on all counts.

Go with what feels right.

If she's ready and I'm not, or vice-versa, I'm not going to judge her. Then again, I'm long past high school.

"Could you elaborate further your question? I'd like to make sure that I have understood your question before giving my comment.
-> Are you a conservative nun or a mother superior?"

Ok....ummm...not understanding the direction you are attempting to go here? Are you asking what my religous/spiritual background is?