My husband called me a slut and a sex addict. I need opinions

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Sidney0304
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7 Years

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So my husband and I barely have sex. Like twice a month because of his very low sex drive.

He's never shown interest in sex. Even when I mention it he ignores me or changes the subject. I got fed up because it's been going on for 2 years. I've tried things and I don't find him attractive anymore because he doesn't make an effort in pleasing me or making me feel attractive.

I had a serious talk and told him we should separate because I don't want to cheat on him in the future. I'd rather leave him. The result was that he said I wasn't allowed to cheat on him otherwise there would be consequences. Then he called me a sex addict and said: "you're a slut. If you want sex so badly then go out and have it slut".

I've never felt so offended. I do everything for him. I cook every night after coming from work and wash his dirty dishes.

I don't know what to do because he doesn't want to get separated. Do you think it's worth for me to stay with him after this? He even told me that I just need to stay quiet.

I should have the right to walk away but he's causing too much drama.
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Earthy
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7 Years

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Is his junk broken, he could not wanna let U know that?

For me- sex is a big part of a relationship.... that intimacy, that bond, the oneness. I couldn’t go completely without it.

But I don’t think u should be getting opinions on breaking up ur marriage. A marriage is precious, and if ur gonna have to end it’s connect- I think it should be totally up to u to think about. Ur gonna have to figure it out alone.........don’t search for validation from outside ur marriage.

Your husband should be giving you all the answers you need. And even if he isn’t talking- that’s still an answer

* cyber hugs*🤗🤗



I’m sorry ur going thro this

And good luck
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Gemitati
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10 Years25,000+ Posts

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Posted by Jayquellin

I know it’s a big decision, but I would leave him and go out and find someone who will love you and want to have sex with you. Him calling you names like that is totally abusive. Is there a chance he’s gay or possibly an alien? Just never heard of a man not wanting to have sex. He could be very depressed.... still doesn’t excuse him calling you names for wanting to be sexual.

I would make your mind up about what you’re going to do and tell him very matter of factly that you’re leaving. Do you have children or anything?


Oh happy face! A lot of men don’t want sex. You are lucky you haven’t experienced that nonsense!

Lazy asses find their ‘high’ in other places where ass is on a couch and TV showing them movies and they don’t have to DO anything...

And what do you mean ‘children or anyrhing’? I am lmao...like what? Reptiles or exotic animals? Lol
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Gemitati
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Posted by Jayquellin

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Jayquellin

I know it’s a big decision, but I would leave him and go out and find someone who will love you and want to have sex with you. Him calling you names like that is totally abusive. Is there a chance he’s gay or possibly an alien? Just never heard of a man not wanting to have sex. He could be very depressed.... still doesn’t excuse him calling you names for wanting to be sexual.

I would make your mind up about what you’re going to do and tell him very matter of factly that you’re leaving. Do you have children or anything?


Oh happy face! A lot of men don’t want sex. You are lucky you haven’t experienced that nonsense!

Lazy asses find their ‘high’ in other places where ass is on a couch and TV showing them movies and they don’t have to DO anything...

And what do you mean ‘children or anyrhing’? I am lmao...like what? Reptiles or exotic animals? Lol


“Children or anything” as in:

-children

-his kid from another relationship/ her kid from another relationship that they parent together

-a dog

-a cat

-a gold fish

-a blender they both really love and therefore could make the split harder.

-anything that would make it harder for her to simply grab her shit and go.
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Sorry...I am not that deep! I mean I am more shallow...lmao...🤣💦