Do men fantasize about baby names?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by DMV on Monday, July 30, 2018 and has 12 replies.

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@DMV
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Listening to Joe Budden...

Apparently some men, who aren't even pregnant, have considered baby names.

I think that was odd because men act so closed off and too cool for school.

It says in my mind that men DO want families.

Do men also dream of white picket fences?

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Posted by FantamRooster

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Posted by FantamRooster

We got my guy friends in high school to admit to us what they wanted to name their kids one day, and almost ALL of them had thought of it. It was so cute. ❤️

Would you call it vulnerability?

Telling us, a bunch of giggling girls, was a moment of vulnerability. Having thought of a name for a kid you might have is just biological, I think.

So if guys talk about kids name it means they are showing vulnerability? Or they have it all planned ahead?

😛

I'm sure we've ruined it by posting about it on the internet. Now it will be part of 10 steps to get in her panties.

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True 😂🤣

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I guess I just find it so refreshing when both men and women dont fulfill the stereotypical gender roles.

Likes it's okay, MEN, to want a family and love.

I used to want the stereotypical manly man, protector, hard ass.

But now I just want a man who wants to receive and give love.

It doesnt seem like it's a far stretch of the imagination anymore that hes out there.

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Posted by Ellygant

Maybe it’s becsuse my cancer moon attracts hella cancer placements, Sun, Venus, Mars, but dudes I date always be showing off their kids skills.

Guys I’ve dated used to constantly snap me pictures of them with their kid nieces and nephews. The ones that’s worked with kids would talk about kids to me all the time too.

Omg .

Same.

Cancer rising

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I did back in high school. But then I realized babies cost about 1 million from birth till they move out. If they move out. So that idea just boxed up and put on the highest shelf.

Plus they would have my blood, on top of the crazy woman I decided to impregnate. So I feel like I made the most logical choice.

#MakeTheEarthGreatAgain

What an oxymoron that is lmao!

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Posted by Victorious

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Posted by Victorious

@DMV

Do you have any names already set?

Why do you look familiar to me—

Yes I do.

I actually would like twins, I'm 37 soon and I am a twin myself, this could happen.

(If I dont marry a black man)

Me Che

Me Cua

Or

(If i do marry a black man)

Harriet Armarita Tubman

Sojourner Truth

Interesting that you would split your names by who the father was. Why is that?

Maybe I just have one of those faces.

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Ultimately it will depend on that. Idk tho

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Posted by Arugula

Dont pick a name because its “special”, that decision is a momentary whim for you and a lifetime of embarrassment for them. Chances are it’s pretentious and they’re gonna feel discomfort everytime someone says it and whenever they have to introduce themselves. It can create a bad forst impression that they have no control over. Have some empathy and pick something normal p l e a s e. I’ve found most names that are attractive and melodic tend to not be too popular/unpopular, are about 6 letters long, consonants are followed by vowels and vowels are followed by consonants, meaning consonant-vowel-consonant-vowel, contain L, M, N, K/C, sometimes R

Sounds like a personal problem of society.

People can name their baby whatever they want.