@coldwateryvirgo
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Anyone else actually like crazy relationships
I used to and then I copped onto myself
It's exhausting and can be uhealthy so i gave it up.....
Who needs crazy? 🙄
Hm. I sort of get this. It can get really boring if everything is just smooth all the time.
But I'm so tired. I do want it to be smooth. Some stability. In my next relationship, when things get boring, I'd rather travel together or something. Fuck it, babe, let's go to Thailand. I'm sure traveling together brings lots of challenges you have to work with
But then you would look forward to arguing with each other?
No, because I have too much other stuff going on.
Exactly.....who has time for that if they have a life?🤔
I used to think that when I was younger, but that gets exhausting mentally and emotionally.
Stability is definitely where it’s at, but that doesn’t have to mean the relationship will be boring. Travelling, having date nights and just trying out new things together keeps things fun.
No, because I have too much other stuff going on.
Exactly.....who has time for that if they have a life?🤔
Ppl who think the world revolves around them and their drama.
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God, I hate drama, I think it's really sad
Passion is something different ... that I get, but drama.....no
The crazier the better
I think people who need to create drama lack something fundemental in themselves
I think people who need to create drama lack something fundemental in themselves
Or maybe They're just repeating their parents' patterns.
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Yeah I was also thinking along these lines.
What environment we grow up in definitely affects us.
If neither of us has filed a restraining order... is it really even love?
Just kidding.. who has time for unnecessary drama?
^basically a leo moon is not kidding 😜
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I fixed it.
Find yourself a leo with pisces moon. It was an eye for an eye drama 😅 He beat my dramatics all of the time, i used to ask: why are you more angry now? Why are you the one whos crying now? Who started this? Who hurt who?
Gad.
I like a little bit of crazy mixed with stability in a relationship.
I like a little bit of crazy mixed with stability in a relationship.
that's why you like water signs=CRAZY
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I've been branching out from them lately lol
Though...the water helps keep all my fire in check imo.
I just want to know why the Op has so easily forgiven the crabs indiscretions.
I mean areyou also getting some one the side?
Cause if a man chooses to disrespect me and i choose to allow it I'm getting dicked on the side
Not as payback but as ther's lots of beautiful dick out there you ain't the only one who can get my juices flowing
@Black-Mamba
I’ve thought about resharing about what went down after that but I didn’t think anyone cared and on top of that it would’ve taken at least 5 pages .
But to answer , we are still talking it’s in an odd grey area at the moment . We’re both is in our mid twenties, he admit he’s in contact with his ex and he does love her n care about her still but he would never get back with her. He love me and for sure want to have a future with me but he don’t think he can’t invest in a relationship right now . He said he can be a much better man for me but he can only be that man when he reach a certain stability in his career.
I’m still not sure what to believe with the ex thing , am I being used as fall back til they work things out? Did he meant what he said ? If a guy love someone for real would they ask them to wait for his future better self or just grow together?
I stopped thinking about it
I’m happy to let it stay in that odd friend grey area . But we are no longer in a relationship we stepped back to just simply dating and getting to know each other more and working on ourselves ,apart. The only thing I had to go on was him telling me all this and hoping the vibe I got as he look straight into my eyes when he said it was an honest one
It could all be bs but my semester start next month . I rather accept things for what they are right now than deal with surprises mid semester
I’m currently trying to date but I can’t figure out what a man can give me at the moment so yea . Trying to get some abs . That’s my current goal . Going to the gym focusing on school , and if it’s really meant to work , I assume it would without me trying
Not really
It makes the make up sex a lot of fun that's for sure, but I only prefer a little bit of crazy here and there in regards to the relationship aspect sure. Not TOO CRAZY though.
I hate messy relationships,I need stability in my life.By the way I recently got dumped for being too stable and comfortable,he would try to start unnecessary fights ( probably what he was use to doing with his ex) but I wud not give in cause I hate drama cause I grew up in a very unhealthy household where my parents wud fight about just anything which was annoying,I do not want my kids to grow up in a messy family cause the demage is really demaging.
I have Venus in Scorpio
I love passion and to be challenged
But Drama....no thanks
They are not the same thing
I have Venus in Scorpio
I love passion and to be challenged
But Drama....no thanks
They are not the same thing
I don’t think what I said necessarily meant drama. But yea , definitely want to feel passion . Jealousy and possessiveness doesn’t necessarily mean they even love you . But that they care enough to feel something . That’s what I’m kinda getting at.
Where if I were to go out with a guy colleague , I want him to be a little irk, not crazy , but irk . I like that . Idk if I’d consider it drama though , because I’m not causing it or purposely trying to make him feel that way . I just like that little feeling
If that makes sense
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Like ones with lots of ups and downs . Keeps you on your toes
Some jealousy and possession
Not necessarily fighting at all
Just a lot of ups and downs
Two crazy people with messy relationships where after a while you’re both just like man, let’s embrace this messiness
Is something wrong with me? That I don’t want a smooth relationship? That I feel I learn more about someone when the relationship is a little hectic